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post 1684514233 06-12-2023, 10:02 PM
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Girlfriend has bulimia

She’s had severe bulimia in the past and the last few years hasn’t been able to make progress. She’s diagnosed OCD and is on a massive amount of anti- anxiety meds

We’ve been working on it with a couples counselor but with limited progress, and the whole thing turns me off from having kids with her. It’s sad af to be honest

I was really careful not to cheat for the last 5 years but I got worn down recently and started drilling a girl 10 years younger

Not sure how to break it to her. Worried letting her down because of her eating disorder will be devastating

Fukk
post 1684514313 06-12-2023, 10:05 PM
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post 1684514343 06-12-2023, 10:06 PM
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post 1684514393 06-12-2023, 10:08 PM
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I'd take her to an expert for bulimia and other ailments, not just a couples' counselor. You two would obviously need separate therapy as well, for the relationship. If you plan to stay with this girl stop fuking the other woman and wait until you progress a bit with therapy first.


of course all this assumes you still want to be with the woman, which tbh it sounds like you don't.
post 1684514403 06-12-2023, 10:08 PM
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post 1684514443 06-12-2023, 10:09 PM
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post 1684514733 06-12-2023, 10:13 PM
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Sounds hot. Mine is a bit similar.
post 1684514843 06-12-2023, 10:15 PM
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post 1684514883 06-12-2023, 10:16 PM
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Omg this is too much…

Bulimia
OCD
Anxiety

I don’t think she’d survive pregnancy or child birth with all those issues.


And your relationship is ****ed regardless, you cheated—it’s done. Just rip off the bandaid
post 1684515163 06-12-2023, 10:22 PM
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post 1684515563 06-12-2023, 10:37 PM
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I’ve had bulimia in the past but overcame it with therapy a year ago and I also take anti-anxiety meds.

Is she seeking professional help?

If so, if she’s constantly relapsing, she may need residential care to get out of the habit.

Bulimia is so bad for your body and you feel like chit afterwards. It caused me to gain weight so it didn’t do what I wanted it to. I don’t think I was good at getting all of the food up.

I have friends with bulimia who have lost their teeth and cannot work. It’s bad.
post 1684515613 06-12-2023, 10:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Masterchieffer⏩
She’s had severe bulimia in the past and the last few years hasn’t been able to make progress. She’s diagnosed OCD and is on a massive amount of anti- anxiety meds

We’ve been working on it with a couples counselor but with limited progress, and the whole thing turns me off from having kids with her. It’s sad af to be honest

I was really careful not to cheat for the last 5 years but I got worn down recently and started drilling a girl 10 years younger

Not sure how to break it to her. Worried letting her down because of her eating disorder will be devastating

Fukk
do NOT even THINK about telling her
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post 1684516053 06-12-2023, 10:54 PM
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Also lol at 5 year girlfriend
post 1684516083 06-12-2023, 10:55 PM
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Originally Posted By ManLikeMelvin⏩
Also lol at 5 year girlfriend
u ever smooch a gal
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post 1684516683 06-12-2023, 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
u ever smooch a gal
many times

Any sloot that stays GF status for 5 years is dumb, and any dude that keeps her as GF ain’t really into her.

Ladies, if he ain’t wifing you after a year, he don’t fuk with you
post 1684519383 06-13-2023, 12:35 AM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Just break up with her. Don't even need to say you cheated, even if you are a chit tier person for cheating. If you wanted to fuk other tail just break up with you gf. It's literally that simple.

If you're not going to marry her and don't want kids with her, you being with her is 100% your loss on life. This is her problem, not yours. You're not married. As a man you can only do so much to help and if after years she doesn't get better or continues this behavior, that's on her. You don't need to suffer needlessly as well. It doesn't make you a bad person for leaving.
Tough words to swallow right now mane. I’ve wanted kids with her for sometime and we were engaged, but obviously the health issues are giving me pause. Our emotional intimacy has also been impacted for years
Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
I'd take her to an expert for bulimia and other ailments, not just a couples' counselor. You two would obviously need separate therapy as well, for the relationship. If you plan to stay with this girl stop fuking the other woman and wait until you progress a bit with therapy first.


of course all this assumes you still want to be with the woman, which tbh it sounds like you don't.
She’s spent years even before we started dating seeing a specialist. We just have different opinions about what’s healthy. They trained her any form of diet restriction or exercise routine is bad, which I obviously think is BS
Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
I’ve had bulimia in the past but overcame it with therapy a year ago and I also take anti-anxiety meds.

Is she seeking professional help?

If so, if she’s constantly relapsing, she may need residential care to get out of the habit.

Bulimia is so bad for your body and you feel like chit afterwards. It caused me to gain weight so it didn’t do what I wanted it to. I don’t think I was good at getting all of the food up.

I have friends with bulimia who have lost their teeth and cannot work. It’s bad.
She’s honestly one of the most attractive and beautiful women I’ve ever met (dfs a solid 9 in her prime) and she’s basically destroyed her body at this point.

She’s had significant professional care for years, and still sees two different therapists. I suspect at one time she was inpatient at a clinic, but she won’t open up to me about it much at all. The subject is very sensitive and she often says “I’ve done my work” but she’s nowhere near my activity level
post 1684520133 06-13-2023, 01:08 AM
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post 1684520193 06-13-2023, 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Masterchieffer⏩
She’s had severe bulimia in the past and the last few years hasn’t been able to make progress. She’s diagnosed OCD and is on a massive amount of anti- anxiety meds

We’ve been working on it with a couples counselor but with limited progress, and the whole thing turns me off from having kids with her. It’s sad af to be honest

I was really careful not to cheat for the last 5 years but I got worn down recently and started drilling a girl 10 years younger

Not sure how to break it to her. Worried letting her down because of her eating disorder will be devastating

Fukk
Your relationship ended the second your cawk entered the other woman op.
We living in a clown world.
post 1684523493 06-13-2023, 03:40 AM
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Why do you keep delaying the inevitable break-up OP?

People with mental disorders should remain single. Cheaters should re-evaulate why they're stringing along their partner.
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Brah your gf is mentally ill and now you're gonna tell her you're fukin someone 10 years younger than her? lmao you're gonna make her rope, don't do that.

Just break up with her and be done with it

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Originally Posted By Masterchieffer⏩
Tough words to swallow right now mane. I’ve wanted kids with her for sometime and we were engaged, but obviously the health issues are giving me pause. Our emotional intimacy has also been impacted for years



She’s spent years even before we started dating seeing a specialist. We just have different opinions about what’s healthy. They trained her any form of diet restriction or exercise routine is bad, which I obviously think is BS



She’s honestly one of the most attractive and beautiful women I’ve ever met (dfs a solid 9 in her prime) and she’s basically destroyed her body at this point.

She’s had significant professional care for years, and still sees two different therapists. I suspect at one time she was inpatient at a clinic, but she won’t open up to me about it much at all. The subject is very sensitive and she often says “I’ve done my work” but she’s nowhere near my activity level
Two therapists and medication? Is there any sign of her stopping or reducing the purging? She may be a chronic case. I know some chronic cases who have been purging 5x a day for years. I don't know how they are still alive.

It's a deadly disease and like you said, it destroyed her body. The worst thing you could do is cheat on her as that would destroy her even more mentally. Of course breaking up with her could also destroy her mentally. You're in a tough boat.
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If you every start dating a chick and you notice her front teeth are a little "see-through" the enamel is worn off from her puking herself throughout her life.
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Banging a side chick while your girl suffers through bulemia is low as fuk


What a scumbag lol
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Read the discription of Bulimia, sounds like a first world issue LOL.
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If you're not married get the heck out. And that's coming from a therapist. You can't build a life with someone damaged that badly, and if she's not in active recovery then it's a long road ahead for her. You can feel bad and maybe you love her, but she has something that will affect you and your family badly so there's no future.

You can't change the situation, but you can change having to deal with it. And don't feel responsible, just be honest and let her know you're taking care of yourself. Her actions after that are her own business, and you have no responsibility for it.
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I knew someone with bulimia, and I gave her some advice your girlfriend might find useful. Cut down the purging days to twice a week, if she’s doing it every day. Do that for a period of time, then try to quit completely.
Exercise will get you through times of ill health better than no exercise will get you through times of good health.
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