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post 1684666333 06-15-2023, 10:06 AM
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It's becoming less embarrassing to say you get no pussy

since everyone knows how widespread hypergamy is and how difficult it is in the dating game unless you're a top 5% chad
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post 1684666593 06-15-2023, 10:10 AM
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only in a room full of losers
post 1684666653 06-15-2023, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33
only in a room full of losers
I promise u lil man, if i were in ur room id take ALL the biches.
post 1684666683 06-15-2023, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33
only in a room full of losers
I have no problems admitting to that word

Been one my whole life
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post 1684667703 06-15-2023, 10:29 AM
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loled. Nah it should still be embarrassing.


The majority of normal dudes are getting laid/dating.
post 1684667903 06-15-2023, 10:33 AM
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It’s extremely embarrassing
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post 1684668193 06-15-2023, 10:38 AM
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Sure, but it's equally as embarrassing as listening to some degenerate talk about how he's slaying new pussy on the regular. Grow the fuk up, there's nothing cool about being a whore. They're just as bad as women, imo.

There's a big difference in admitting you get no pussy, versus knowing outright you can, and instead choosing the route of self-preservation and self-respect. The older I get, the more I admire younger men who don't behave wildly.
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post 1684668373 06-15-2023, 10:41 AM
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Being less embarrassed is still being embarrassed. Which should be the case if u get no puss.
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post 1684669153 06-15-2023, 10:50 AM
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I'm over putting in time and effort unless:
- they have dating potential
- they are 100% down for something casual and I am attracted to them enough to make time for it

I don't go out enough to actively look for party hookups anymore (and when I do I am out primarily to hangout with friends; though I'd still be open to a hookup just pickier than before).
I don't want to lead anyone on who I wouldn't date.
I don't want to deal with pets I'm allergic to.
I don't want to "change anyone's mind" who isn't fine with the fact I have a kid.

Could I date and have more s3x than I've had the lately? 100%. But I have too many other productive things I can use my time on.
So yeah I can go months at a time without a date or s3x and I'm fine with it.

I've only had this attitude lately though. Just a different stage of life.
post 1684669283 06-15-2023, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88
I'm over putting in time and effort unless:
- they have dating potential
- they are 100% down for something casual and I am attracted to them enough to make time for it

I don't go out enough to actively look for party hookups anymore (and when I do I am out primarily to hangout with friends; though I'd still be open to a hookup just pickier than before).
I don't want to lead anyone on who I wouldn't date.
I don't want to deal with pets I'm allergic to.
I don't want to "change anyone's mind" who isn't fine with the fact I have a kid.

Could I date and have more s3x than I've had the lately? 100%. But I have too many other productive things I can use my time on.
So yeah I can go months at a time without a date or s3x and I'm fine with it.

I've only had this attitude lately though. Just a different stage of life.
I heard Canadian chicks were huge sloots cause they are too polite to say no
post 1684671463 06-15-2023, 11:25 AM
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There's some truth to OP's statements tbh. We've seen stats posted of decreased sexual activity in men.
This survey study found that from 2000 to 2018, sexual inactivity increased among US men such that approximately 1 in 3 men aged 18 to 24 years reported no sexual activity in the past year. Sexual inactivity also increased among men and women aged 25 to 34 years. These findings may have implications for public health.
Sauce:https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7293001/

The further the decline in sexual activity, the more "accepting" (less shameful) it'll be for men to tell other men that they're virgins/incels/deprived.
post 1684672413 06-15-2023, 11:40 AM
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Can’t relate
post 1684672923 06-15-2023, 11:49 AM
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you know you could just actually try to get some pussy
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post 1684673133 06-15-2023, 11:54 AM
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Does this come up in frequent conversation for you?
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Fortunately you eventually get beyond embarrassment and settle into the "quiet seething phase" where you sit around largely angry at yourself for being an ineffectual coward, but still lack the ability to do anything about it.
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88
I'm over putting in time and effort unless:
- they have dating potential
- they are 100% down for something casual and I am attracted to them enough to make time for it

I don't go out enough to actively look for party hookups anymore (and when I do I am out primarily to hangout with friends; though I'd still be open to a hookup just pickier than before).
I don't want to lead anyone on who I wouldn't date.
I don't want to deal with pets I'm allergic to.
I don't want to "change anyone's mind" who isn't fine with the fact I have a kid.

Could I date and have more s3x than I've had the lately? 100%. But I have too many other productive things I can use my time on.
So yeah I can go months at a time without a date or s3x and I'm fine with it.

I've only had this attitude lately though. Just a different stage of life.
Do you feel in peace / at ease with that mindset?

I always think incels would be 100% happier if they just came to terms with their reality, not saying that they should give up but they shouldn't think pussy is a God given right and that they life sucks simply because they're not getting any.

Not calling you an incel btw I'm talking about misc incels. Having a similar mindset would help them a lot.
post 1684673443 06-15-2023, 12:01 PM
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post 1684673663 06-15-2023, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted By suave2000
Do you feel in peace / at ease with that mindset?

I always think incels would be 100% happier if they just came to terms with their reality, not saying that they should give up but they shouldn't think pussy is a God given right and that they life sucks simply because they're not getting any.

Not calling you an incel btw I'm talking about misc incels. Having a similar mindset would help them a lot.
Incels don't get pussy because they have a terrible attitude. They're desperate, needy, low confidence


Women will give you a chance if you're even avg looking but you have to have a great demeanor. Miscers have terrible demeanor


I also think many misc incels have highly unrealistic dating standards. If you're a 5/10 with no experience, you're not gonna date a 7.5/10. If you stick to women in your league and have a good attitude, you'll be fine
post 1684673693 06-15-2023, 12:04 PM
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I just don't understand how some men don't get any, it's unfathomable to me. I can put put a profile like this up and still get a bunch matches with a selfie, you guys are totally pathetic, really.



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post 1684673933 06-15-2023, 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted By natypes
Copingest thread to ever cope on a copiforum
Lot of miscers will blame women and blame the world for not being born a 9/10 male and having dating be super easy for them


God forbid anybody works on their attitude and personality
post 1684673963 06-15-2023, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By suave2000
Do you feel in peace / at ease with that mindset?

I always think incels would be 100% happier if they just came to terms with their reality, not saying that they should give up but they shouldn't think pussy is a God given right and that they life sucks simply because they're not getting any.

Not calling you an incel btw I'm talking about misc incels. Having a similar mindset would help them a lot.
I'm at peace with it for now yeah but I'm also confident there will be good s3x in my future (& likely not too distant).

I'm also still getting over a breakup where the s3x was fantastic (as well as everything else) so I'm in somewhat of a transition phase.

I'm sure if nothing much transpires in the next 4-6 months with my current effort levels and attitude towards dating, I may make some changes.
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Most guys just lie and say they get laid all the time when they don't. People are full of chit
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Originally Posted By Omnivium
Most guys just lie and say they get laid all the time when they don't. People are full of chit
Men outside of relationships rarely get laid


Only maybe 10% of guys get sex consistently who don't have a GF
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Originally Posted By DDCT1135
Men outside of relationships rarely get laid


Only maybe 10% of guys get sex consistently who don't have a GF
this

only the Chads and Tyrones really get laid in the casual sex type of way

and if the guy has a girlfriend, no guarantee that she'll be attractive
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I would never judge anyone for not being able to get sex.
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Originally Posted By Spartanize
this

only the Chads and Tyrones really get laid in the casual sex type of way

and if the guy has a girlfriend, no guarantee that she'll be attractive
You can get laid in casual sense as a non chad but you need to have a great heavily extroverted personality
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