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post 1684742983 06-16-2023, 02:31 PM
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My girlfriend is moving in with me and mama and papa zheng

So her apartment was sold and she was looking for a new place to stay so I suggested moving in with me.

She has offered $600 a month for rent, I said $200 and we agreed on $400.

Her room right beside mine:



Our place is a bit far north in the city so I will help her out when I'm not working, other times she will take the transit for work.

Lol this is a new adventure for the Zheng Clan
post 1684743083 06-16-2023, 02:34 PM
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if she lives with you long enough she is legally entitled to half your net worth

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post 1684743163 06-16-2023, 02:35 PM
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my man why is she staying in another room. seems like super cucked behavior.
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post 1684743303 06-16-2023, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted By trynbrah⏩
my man why is she staying in another room. seems like super cucked behavior.
wait until she brings chads she meets off hinge into the room while op is taking physique photos in the other room
post 1684743333 06-16-2023, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted By trynbrah⏩
my man why is she staying in another room. seems like super cucked behavior.
Asian parents won’t let their kids fk in the house and if they are in same room, door must be ajar.
post 1684743343 06-16-2023, 02:37 PM
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lol OP gonna enter into a common law marriage and get fukked outta half his inheritance
post 1684743613 06-16-2023, 02:41 PM
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post 1684743683 06-16-2023, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted By trynbrah⏩
my man why is she staying in another room. seems like super cucked behavior.
You would think that, but it's actually better for relationships. Gives each one more privacy and easier to sleep. Believe it or not a lot of relationships fail because one person or both feel suffocated/can't get good night sleep.

Now that doesn't mean they can't sleep together in the same bed if they want.

It's actually the ideal situation. In Arab houses each wife gets her own room. And Muslim chads just rotate them.
post 1684745033 06-16-2023, 03:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Alphametric⏩
You would think that, but it's actually better for relationships. Gives each one more privacy and easier to sleep. Believe it or not a lot of relationships fail because one person or both feel suffocated/can't get good night sleep.

Now that doesn't mean they can't sleep together in the same bed if they want.

It's actually the ideal situation. In Arab houses each wife gets her own room. And Muslim chads just rotate them.
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post 1684745323 06-16-2023, 03:12 PM
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I would've taken the $600.
post 1684745383 06-16-2023, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted By saltypits⏩
I would've taken the $600.
That's a weeks pay for zheng terry assuming he works 40 hours which we all know he doesn't
post 1684745463 06-16-2023, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By saltypits⏩
I would've taken the $600.
Yea but charging less for rent makes both parties more agreeable to any possible issues in the future.

More pics:

My room where we can netflix and cuddle



Bonus room where it's not used that has a sectional where she can lounge around hue hue



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post 1684745513 06-16-2023, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By PrimarisIn⏩
Yea but charging less for rent makes both parties more agreeable to any possible issues in the future.
Okay $599.
post 1684745693 06-16-2023, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka⏩
Asian parents won’t let their kids fk in the house and if they are in same room, door must be ajar.
Unless its a daughter and she brings home a White guy they like. Then they practically try and push her out the door into your bed.

In before his family starts liking her more than him and she uses that against him. It will be him against everyone. He will eventually have to move out and she will stay there for free.
post 1684746563 06-16-2023, 03:39 PM
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what a terrible decision, are you both poor af or something?
what happens if the relationship goes sour?
also how the fuk do you still live at home with your parents and aren't embarrassed...
post 1684746683 06-16-2023, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46⏩
what a terrible decision, are you both poor af or something?
what happens if the relationship goes sour?
also how the fuk do you still live at home with your parents and aren't embarrassed...
Its how asians are able to accumlate wealth and acquire old money status, while white ppl remain brokies

There is no wealth transfer when every generation has to start from scratch

Kicking your kids out is mostly a degen western thing, most of the world is not like that
post 1684746873 06-16-2023, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
Its how asians are able to accumlate wealth and acquire old money status, while white ppl remain brokies

There is no wealth transfer when every generation has to start from scratch

Kicking your kids out is mostly a degen western thing, most of the world is not like that
OP isnt 18 tho, hes closing on 30. A man having his independence and own space is natural and honestly highly recommended. If you cant afford to live in your own by 30 or you decide to compromise your privacy and life just to "accumulate" wealth, id say you are making some bad decisions.


Bringing your GF to your parents home is also another bad decision lol. Honestly i guess im just glad OP posted somthing different this time other than his physique, i was getting worried.
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post 1684746883 06-16-2023, 03:47 PM
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Lol. A girl u slept with the first night from a hookup app
post 1684747063 06-16-2023, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
Its how asians are able to accumlate wealth and acquire old money status, while white ppl remain brokies

There is no wealth transfer when every generation has to start from scratch

Kicking your kids out is mostly a degen western thing, most of the world is not like that
stfu my Grandma is 100% Japanese, came over after WW2, and I have plenty of Asian peers/friends, and none of them live at home with their parents. Stop stereotyping Asians you racist.
plus living with you parents seems like ass, brb cooking dinner that doesn't fit my macros and expecting me to eat it, brb get judged if I drink too much, brb how am I gonna bang?
post 1684747203 06-16-2023, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
OP isnt 18 tho, hes closing on 30. A man having his independence and own space is natural and honestly highly recommended. If you cant afford to live in your own by 30 or you decide to compromise your privacy and life just to "accumulate" wealth, id say you are making some bad decisions.


Bringing your GF to your parents home is also another bad decision lol. Honestly i guess im just glad OP posted somthing different this time other than his physique, i was getting worried.
I wasn't really speaking on OP's situation specifically, more addressing the thinking that ppl that live with their parents are automatically losers. Its normal for many ppl of different cultures to live with their parents till they get married.

Yea I prefer having my own space aswell. But if you're born in the west you're conditioned to be individualistic as possible. The east is more collective and many don't have those same hang ups. Its a cultural thing
post 1684747233 06-16-2023, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46⏩
what a terrible decision, are you both poor af or something?
what happens if the relationship goes sour?
also how the fuk do you still live at home with your parents and aren't embarrassed...
That's not uncommon with asians, esp with rents being at the current ridiculous rate.
FOB asians will cram 20 people in a house zero fuks.
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post 1684747303 06-16-2023, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46⏩
stfu my Grandma is 100% Japanese, came over after WW2, and I have plenty of Asian peers/friends, and none of them live at home with their parents. Stop stereotyping Asians you racist.
plus living with you parents seems like ass, brb cooking dinner that doesn't fit my macros and expecting me to eat it, brb get judged if I drink too much, brb how am I gonna bang?
I grew up in heavy asian populated areas, prob know more asians irl than you do.

Go cry to someone that cares
post 1684747383 06-16-2023, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Alphametric⏩
In Arab houses each wife gets her own room. And Muslim chads just rotate them.
post 1684747533 06-16-2023, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
I wasn't really speaking on OP's situation specifically, more addressing the thinking that ppl that live with their parents are automatically losers. Its normal for many ppl of different cultures to live with their parents till they get married.

Yea I prefer having my own space aswell. But if you're born in the west you're conditioned to be individualistic as possible. The east is more collective and many don't have those same hang ups. Its a cultural thing
Oh yeah for sure. Kicking your kids out at 18 and leaving them to themselves is retarded as fuk lol. Id say by 26-27 years old you should definitely have your space tho, no excuses.
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post 1684748383 06-16-2023, 04:19 PM
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
I grew up in heavy asian populated areas, prob know more asians irl than you do.

Go cry to someone that cares
just because you fap to hentai doesn't mean you know more about Asia than me. Are you Asian?
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46⏩
Are you Asian?
would a non asain really choose koreannoodles77 as his user name?
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46⏩
stfu my Grandma is 100% Japanese, came over after WW2, and I have plenty of Asian peers/friends, and none of them live at home with their parents. Stop stereotyping Asians you racist.
plus living with you parents seems like ass, brb cooking dinner that doesn't fit my macros and expecting me to eat it, brb get judged if I drink too much, brb how am I gonna bang?
your grandma is an americanized japanese, they tried really hard to assimilate and copy american culture after WW2.

very different from my Korean immigrant side. they don't assimilate at all or even attempt too lol.

im korean and japanese so i know both sides extremely well
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Op went from hookers to a steady gf that wants to live with him, honestly this is a rare good news day for the misc.

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Not sure the argument, but yeah a lot of Asians (and other relative newcomers to the US) live this way. Yes, you accumulate more wealth, but at what cost? Who cares if you have more money under your mattress if you don't have anything to show for it? Imagine never being out from under your parents roof. My parents are great, and when they get old enough to need it, I'll gladly let them move in with me, but I've been on my own for decades. I could not have lived the same life under their roof.

Many new Asian families will have a nice house, but inside it is empty and looks like a teenager decorated it (random items and sparsely decorated). Kitchen is usually a packed mess, with rice and other cooking supplies packed into every closet near the kitchen. Basically they don't want to spend money on furniture or decoration and just sort of pile stuff up (not like hording, just things just sit out in random places).

I understand first gen ones that living in cramped houses and not doing anything but work is still better than what they came from (and it gives them money to send the kids to good school), but that's not the case here. Terry is just not capable or willing to better himself and therefore his parents sacrifices will be for nothing. When they pass, he will still be poor, and probably have to sell the house at some point.
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