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post 1685555593 06-29-2023, 02:30 PM
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I told a girl we should hang out, she said "we'll see"

I asked what she was doing later and she was telling me about school/work stuff. I said we should hang out sometime and she said "we'll see"

What does that mean?

It seemed like she flirted with me a couple times before that
post 1685555663 06-29-2023, 02:32 PM
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post 1685555743 06-29-2023, 02:33 PM
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post 1685555773 06-29-2023, 02:34 PM
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Never.
post 1685555903 06-29-2023, 02:36 PM
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Waitin', watchin' the clock, it's four o'clock, it's got to stop
Tell him, take no more, she practices her speech
As he opens the door, she rolls over
Pretends to sleep as he looks her over
post 1685555923 06-29-2023, 02:36 PM
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LOL @ asking a girl to hang out "some time". Classic beginner mistake.

Nice way to instantly turn that pussy as dry as the Sahara desert.
post 1685556053 06-29-2023, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Barteh
LOL @ asking a girl to hang out "some time". Classic beginner mistake.

Nice way to instantly turn that pussy as dry as the Sahara desert.
We'll see
post 1685556853 06-29-2023, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By BrianDaMan
Never.
Is she playing hard to get?
post 1685556983 06-29-2023, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By TheManRightHere
Is she playing hard to get?
You're a man. You're supposed to tell her where you're going and what time.
post 1685557243 06-29-2023, 02:53 PM
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Originally Posted By BrianDaMan
You're a man. You're supposed to tell her where you're going and what time.
Damn
post 1685557283 06-29-2023, 02:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Barteh
LOL @ asking a girl to hang out "some time". Classic beginner mistake.

Nice way to instantly turn that pussy as dry as the Sahara desert.
Really not a big deal at all if the chick is into you.

I either say "let's hang out" or "wanna hang out" depending on the context, and let the chick ask when. Then I figure out her schedule and set a date.
post 1685557333 06-29-2023, 02:54 PM
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It's over for you bro, it didn't even start.

She is probably slobbing on Chad's Cob right now.
post 1685557393 06-29-2023, 02:55 PM
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You're only chance is to ignore her or be a di*k. If you're a di*k the right way and or get to showcase more, she might start vying for your attention. If you haven't gotten to know her very well it's a good chance ignoring her won't do chit

But certainly don't come back and be like "when are we hanging out" or something
post 1685557473 06-29-2023, 02:56 PM
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work and school, she needs more convincing
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post 1685557573 06-29-2023, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By sapdori
Really not a big deal at all if the chick is into you.

I either say "let's hang out" or "wanna hang out" depending on the context, and let the chick ask when. Then I figure out her schedule and set a date.
Even for smashes on apps? IRL I can understand it, you ask her out and is she's into you she'll say yes and figure out a time that works. When you're chatting with her on your phone and aren't making clearer suggestions regarding times and places imo that's a big mistake.
post 1685557613 06-29-2023, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
You're only chance is to ignore her or be a di*k. If you're a di*k the right way and or get to showcase more, she might start vying for your attention. If you haven't gotten to know her very well it's a good chance ignoring her won't do chit

But certainly don't come back and be like "when are we hanging out" or something
this. after the brutalll comment of "we ll see" basically go no contact and ghost her until she comes to you and shows effort.
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post 1685557653 06-29-2023, 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Barteh
Even for smashes on apps? IRL I can understand it, you ask her out and is she's into you she'll say yes and figure out a time that works. When you're chatting with her on your phone and aren't making clearer suggestions regarding times and places imo that's a big mistake.
I said it in person srs

I was gonna go for the digits after
post 1685557693 06-29-2023, 02:58 PM
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block her IRL
post 1685557883 06-29-2023, 03:00 PM
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“No”
post 1685557943 06-29-2023, 03:01 PM
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That's mean that you are friendzoned and she just realized that you want more. She tried rejecting you kindly.
post 1685558043 06-29-2023, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Barteh
Even for smashes on apps? IRL I can understand it, you ask her out and is she's into you she'll say yes and figure out a time that works. When you're chatting with her on your phone and aren't making clearer suggestions regarding times and places imo that's a big mistake.
Not sure how you go about it, but you don't want to suggest a specific date without first figuring out her schedule since it's never good to get the chick used to saying no to your advance. First figure out what days she's available then suggest a specific date. Or maybe that's what you meant?
post 1685558413 06-29-2023, 03:09 PM
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Originally Posted By sapdori
Not sure how you go about it, but you don't want to suggest a specific date without first figuring out her schedule since it's never good to get the chick used to saying no to your advance. First figure out what days she's available then suggest a specific date. Or maybe that's what you meant?
Guess I've always done it in the opposite order and it's worked for me. Hey, you wanna hang out this Thursday night? If she says she has something else going on then I ask her when she does have free time.

I suppose in the end if she's actually interested both ways should do the job just fine. Personally I like the more assertive and direct approach.
post 1685558433 06-29-2023, 03:09 PM
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Originally Posted By sapdori
Not sure how you go about it, but you don't want to suggest a specific date without first figuring out her schedule since it's never good to get the chick used to saying no to your advance. First figure out what days she's available then suggest a specific date. Or maybe that's what you meant?
Agree with this. I knew she's busy beforehand

I prob should've tried to figure out a free day/time then ask
post 1685558613 06-29-2023, 03:11 PM
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Could have been worse

She could have said "We'll see in case i get some Bee Bee Sea"
post 1685558783 06-29-2023, 03:14 PM
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It means you have a better shot at getting elected governor of your state than ever seeing this girl in person. It's over.
post 1685558903 06-29-2023, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By TheParish
It means you have a better shot at getting elected governor of your state than ever seeing this girl in person. It's over.
So you're saying there's a chance...
post 1685558933 06-29-2023, 03:16 PM
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You'll never see her again.

Always terrible to hear that from a girl - she finds you so repulsive that spending even one more second in your presence makes her ill.
post 1685559093 06-29-2023, 03:18 PM
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disrespectful answer

it screams "I know you want me bad but you aint no chad so maybe on my worst day you can take me out to dinner and nothing more"
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post 1685559173 06-29-2023, 03:20 PM
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She was never interested in the first place.

Just LOL at the pleb responses itt: “You need to be specific bro, that’s what matters.” No, it fooking doesn’t. If a sloot likes you, she’s not going to change her response to hanging out with you based on how you ask lmfao. It’s not that serious
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