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ยป Becoming a better man....
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post 1686340913 07-12-2023, 06:48 AM
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Becoming a better man....

Where's a guy to start?
post 1686357673 07-12-2023, 10:43 AM
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Absolute best thing you can do is to learn to say no.

When someone asks you for something, no matter what it is, the first response should be no.

You can always change your mind later after you have had time to digest the request.

Obviously if someone asks for a spot in the gym or wants help lifting a heavy package or something you would say yes but you know what I mean,
"To be a warrior is not a simple matter of wishing to be one. It is rather an endless struggle that will go on to the very last moment of our lives. Nobody is born a warrior, in exactly the same way that nobody is born an average man. We make ourselves into one or the other."-- Carlos Castaneda
post 1686357883 07-12-2023, 10:45 AM
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where do you need the most help? start there
post 1686360253 07-12-2023, 11:11 AM
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its all about being better THAN

better then you neighbors, coworkers, sibilings

mogg them in all aspects

#1 is health, physical and mental, eat right and train hard, don't let stress bring you down, be on your chit
#2 is lifestyle, enjoy life, spend time outside, be a good father/husband, have personal hobbies
#3 is career and money, you don't necessarily have to earn the most but definitely need to do well and be very serious about managing your cash
#4 don't give a fuk, do, but also dont
money, cars, clothes and hoes is all a miscer knows
post 1686360383 07-12-2023, 11:13 AM
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The liquor store
post 1686360533 07-12-2023, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33
where do you need the most help? start there
This. Conduct an honest self-assessment. Where are you starting from? What are your current strengths and weaknesses, whether they are noticeable to others or not?
post 1686361483 07-12-2023, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman
Conduct an honest self-assessment. Where are you starting from? What are your current strengths and weaknesses, whether they are noticeable to others or not?
This.
And ask yourself what type of man you want to be and how your current habits and mindsets are holding you back.
post 1686362733 07-12-2023, 11:42 AM
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Mind/Body/Spirit: Stop PORNwatching and Read Books instead, Eat Well, Daily Prayer and Meditation
post 1686362793 07-12-2023, 11:44 AM
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First you can start by never coming to this toxic incel wasteland that is now the misc
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post 1686363313 07-12-2023, 11:50 AM
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reach out to your mom and dad
reconnect with your family and friends
dont drink,dont smoke,dont use ,workout atleast 4 times a week,eat health 5 days a week and cheat twice
if you dont have a job, find one, anything , work and start saving
if youre older than 25 go with a tradie degree "electrician/plumber,join the military "logistics/IT something none combative"
if youre younger than 25 and feel like studying ... college degree is your answer
Cherish your life. Live to tell your story
post 1686363683 07-12-2023, 11:54 AM
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First you have to define what better means
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