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post 1687520213 07-31-2023, 11:32 AM
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Having a family is the best option for one reason

I just realized my parents will die

Seeing them get older breaks my heart srs

Imagine when they do die you are alone with no kids, wife etc

My parents probably have 20-30 years … couldn’t imagine being alone at 50-60

It’s not like you’d even have friends at this age since everyone else would have settled down

Like what would you do? Just drink alone and hit on 30 year old girls Jesus Christ nightmare fuel
post 1687520573 07-31-2023, 11:37 AM
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Agree dude smart take

It took me about until now 29 to realize i gotta fk off with this playing the field .

Kicking myself hard core lately for letting me ex gf that I lived with for 3 years walk on me

Yesterday wrote her some heart felt paragraph not even sure if she got it , didn't reply

It's easy to think operunities are abundant at a young age...but once you hit 30 ...fk.


I can't panick though


At this rate , when my parents pass ...I'll have absolutely nobody .

I want a decent wife and family im thru fking around with these trash birds


Shouldn't have fked up in the past...learned my lesson big time
post 1687520673 07-31-2023, 11:38 AM
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srs being old and alone is nightmare fuel
Uncontrollable behavior with some psychopathic tendencies
post 1687520813 07-31-2023, 11:41 AM
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yeah dude, I was thinking something similar the other day

I dated a latina more seriously for a while and she had a huge and warm family, that's definitely a good way to soften the blow once loved once start dying because of elderdom
post 1687521093 07-31-2023, 11:45 AM
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Exactly. People need to wake the fuk up and realize they were put here on earth to procreate.

All these independent feminist sloots shunning motherhood really rustles my jimmys especially when they almost always regret it once they’re dried up old cat ladies.

Not to mention the wrong people in society are the ones having kids. The broke retarded welfare leeches are fuking like rabbits, spitting out new dependents like clockwork. My cousin just got knocked up again and it’s fkin ridiculous. She’s on food stamps. She’s been unemployed since 2020. Her baby daddies are deadbeat junkies. Yet she chooses to keep making babies. There are millions like her.

Meanwhile people who have good values, work hard and would raise productive members of society, they’re the selfish cocksuckers who want to stay single forever. Or at best become dog moms. This is what narcissism and feminism have done to us.

We need a paradigm shift ASAP or society will collapse.
post 1687521273 07-31-2023, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Critter5592⏩
srs being old and alone is nightmare fuel
Yup next decent girl that comes along I'm wifing

Almost had a pannick attack yesterday I left my ex go ...one who lived with me 3 years. Haven't heard from her since April.

Once in awhile I message her just praying I get a reply .

I explained myself in a nice polite way and no reply yet .

Not like anything that bad happened between us , seems like she has moved on...but I made sure to note weve always gotten along.

It just sucks when you are really down bad and they won't even help you out by replying

I helped her out lots of time when she was down bad . And now I'm the person down bad it's not reciprocal...female nature tho , and I can't hate her.

Wtf was I thinking a few years back TF
post 1687521523 07-31-2023, 11:51 AM
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Yea I feel this. I wanna settle down before I hit 35

Problem is finding a woman that won't ruin you long term
post 1687521653 07-31-2023, 11:54 AM
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100%

I think most people that say they don't want kids are afraid of the commitment and fail to see the bigger picture or look to the future.

There is a reason we only elect family men into office, despite what the "anything goes", lib types say.
post 1687521973 07-31-2023, 12:00 PM
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Idiots today who don't want kids or into that LGBT123 garbage are gonna pay the price.

When they're old, govt will just offer them MAID to put themselves out of misery. I want ot have a kid soon. I can't even fathom growing old without a kid at least. Life would suck hard.
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post 1687522323 07-31-2023, 12:05 PM
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True. Family is the best

My problem is I get bored of same girl really quick and it leads to bedroom problems. Doesn’t happen with new sloots

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post 1687522423 07-31-2023, 12:07 PM
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OP you still have nicklol and Invictus in Toronto to keep you company if you ever feel lonely
America is the number one clown show

India > China

Stay home, save lives.....UNTIL THE END OF TIME

Come for the sloot threads, stay for the riveting social commentary
post 1687522633 07-31-2023, 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Manglet⏩
OP you still have nicklol and Invictus in Toronto to keep you company if you ever feel lonely
No problem w those posters but imagine being 50-60 and posting with miscers on a forum w no family

Jesus Christ man … legit terrifying
post 1687522643 07-31-2023, 12:11 PM
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subtle gordo attack thread
post 1687522763 07-31-2023, 12:13 PM
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Yup.

At least as a man you can usually always father children. Many women wake up to this reality once they no longer can.
post 1687522793 07-31-2023, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted By RollTideBrah⏩
subtle gordo attack thread
I didn’t mean anything by it or to attack Gordo

I just think that guy is wired different mentally…I’m defn not and need to think about settling down in the next 5 years max srs
post 1687523083 07-31-2023, 12:20 PM
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go to a senior home if you cant imagine

only time most families comes around is when their dying so they can convince em to sign the money and assests over

SAD!
post 1687523123 07-31-2023, 12:22 PM
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Family or rope in the next 5 years

Dfs.
post 1687523493 07-31-2023, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
I didn’t mean anything by it or to attack Gordo

I just think that guy is wired different mentally…I’m defn not and need to think about settling down in the next 5 years max srs
That Crupea guy aswell. Pretty sure he's a bachelor with no kids. Some people are just built differently and are perfectly fine on their own

Not sure if thats me tho.
post 1687523723 07-31-2023, 12:33 PM
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Was at the cottage this weekend . My sister , her husband and 1 year old were there too.

I wouldn't say that I was jealous ...but I kept imagining and envisioning that being me with the ex gf I lived with for 3 years

It was a tough pill to swallow

It's amazing how my own thoughts can do me in so badly
post 1687523743 07-31-2023, 12:34 PM
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grass is always greener.

i'm sure the guys who've went through divorces feel at least a little differently.
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
Problem is finding a woman that won't ruin you long term
I'm at a point now where I'm considering making concessions on what I won't tolerate. I got a bro married to a woman who is kind of a piece of **** but they have two kids together and the kids are awesome. He's tiptoeing the line in hopes she doesn't divorce him and fuk him over but obviously in less than a decade the kids will be grown up and a divorce won't sting so bad.

Maybe we are just at a time when the **** that comes from a separation is just the new normal, and it might be more worthwhile to get into a potentially bad relationship and try and mitigate it as much as possible rather than hope you find someone that allows you to avoid it completely. Just a thought...women aren't going to get better anytime soon
post 1687523943 07-31-2023, 12:37 PM
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if worst comes to worst, you can always marry a latina,asian,south american chick ... theyll be more than happy to settle
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post 1687524153 07-31-2023, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted By andrepmeet⏩
grass is always greener.

i'm sure the guys who've went through divorces feel at least a little differently.
I think the love for their kids would outweigh the divorce

At least you have a solid purpose in life which is to raise good kids instead of just aimless at 50
post 1687524263 07-31-2023, 12:41 PM
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this will be the story of most men with the pro woman world we live in now
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you live in toronto OP?

god help you. Liberal lgbt crazy city. Most single women are fat, gay or psycho. The good ones grabbed by age 25.
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post 1687524423 07-31-2023, 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted By RocknRollMuscle⏩
you live in toronto OP?

god help you. Liberal lgbt crazy city. Most single women are fat, gay or psycho. The good ones grabbed by age 25.
I don’t live in Toronto anymore.
post 1687524493 07-31-2023, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
I think the love for their kids would outweigh the divorce

At least you have a solid purpose in life which is to raise good kids instead of just aimless at 50
what I'm saying is there is a probably a lot more drama involved. Typically ex-wives aren't letting their kids be heavily-influenced by someone they don't get along with. Plus finances plus other conflicts.

Whats going on in your mind is that you are envisioning the best of all circumstances. Of course ANYBODY would love that and think it would be great..... but life doesn't always work out like that.
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Originally Posted By RocknRollMuscle⏩
you live in toronto OP?

god help you. Liberal lgbt crazy city. Most single women are fat, gay or psycho. The good ones grabbed by age 25.
Seems like the best way to find a good women is thru a non-liberal traditional church and one who likes volunteering and doing wholesom stuff in her spare time, and gardening, baking, etc

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Some men try and avoid long term commitment & kids in their twenties, maybe to their mid 30's. They rightly or wrongly wish to remain 'free'.

You could argue that doing a swticheroo when age starts kicking in, is a grim form of cope.
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