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Thread: Girl from Tinder blocked me, what did I do wrong?

post 1687888843 08-06-2023, 02:34 PM
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Girl from Tinder blocked me, what did I do wrong?



I didn't reply for a few hours because I didn't know what to say and she blocked me

post 1687888963 08-06-2023, 02:36 PM
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Oops wrong section
post 1687889003 08-06-2023, 02:37 PM
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6 texts in already apologizing....fuken brutal mate.
post 1687889373 08-06-2023, 02:44 PM
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When she wrote "why is it fun texting me?" she was looking for compliments and you completely dropped the ball getting all defensive. The correct response was something like "because you're very funny and you're not afraid to speak your mind" or something like that.

This will happen a lot, if you tell her "I like that picture" she'll likely ask "really? what do you like about it???" and you're meant to tell her how pretty her face is or whatever, DO NOT go with "well what's wrong with me liking a picture??? ARE YOU QUESTIONING MY TASTE???"...
post 1687889403 08-06-2023, 02:44 PM
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There’s a thin line between being creepy and being funny in text messages. Keep the sarcasm and jokes to a minimum unless you’re Chad top 20% but by the looks of your match you’re obviously bottom 80% so watch your role
post 1687890413 08-06-2023, 02:59 PM
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Dude seriously? How desperate are you?
post 1687890603 08-06-2023, 03:02 PM
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Bruh, I am no Casanova but you really suck at talking to women. Like for real.
post 1687893213 08-06-2023, 03:49 PM
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Good Lord, son. Wtf was that?

Fukking kids today don't realize that text is to set up a date in as few texts as possible, not for making sarcastic jokes or having deep conversations.

So let's break this down:
Ahoy
Don't fukkin say that, but not a big deal.
I was just thinking, it's really fun texting you haha but maybe we should someday meet up just to say hi in real life
What's this? Just fukking ask her out and be specific. Don't sound like a chickenshiit beta. Something like, "I'm just reaching out because I've got two tickets to [insert shiitty indie band she likes] for next Friday and thought you'd like to go."
Oh I didn't realize you're going to micro-analyze everything I say :P I just mean you're a pretty girl..
Surely you could have thought of something more light and playful than this response, eh, son?
Uhm that's v weird of u to say I'm micro analyzing u when I literally just asked u a question
Time to bail. Don't respond. If she texts you back later or the next day, then proceed appropriately.

So... were the other "fun" text exchanges you had with her just as terrible? Post them.
Deepfat: "I guarantee I beat you by at least 6 strokes. Afterwards, I'll slide my thick conservative cawk in your old lady just to finish the job."

z4: "So when are you available in September to play?"

Deep: "On second thought, I don't play golf with broads. You're such a scumbag that I'd be much more inclined to just slap the chit out of you."

z4: "MMA match works, too. So when are you available this month?

Deep: "I won't subject myself to being in the presence of a scumbag."
post 1687894273 08-06-2023, 04:04 PM
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