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» Has anyone actually ever dated someone they met randomly while out
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post 1688312823 08-13-2023, 11:29 PM
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Has anyone actually ever dated someone they met randomly while out

Any here ever seriously dated someone they met while out and about randomly through “cold approach”/“warm approach” whatever you want to call it. Such as at a supermarket, cafe, library etc. Meet someone exchange numbers and then date.

Not talking about hooking up from a bar or club, talking about dating seriously.

Everyone in relationships I know met at school, work or through friends with a small amount meeting on an app. The only girlfriend I’ve ever had I met at work.
post 1688313013 08-13-2023, 11:32 PM
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i dated a girl I met at a party that I didn’t hook up with at first. approached her at party got her # went on date later that week dated 4ish years on off

also dated a girl i cold approached at the gym. saw her maybe twice before, third time I went up to her flirted got her IG, asked her out a few days later. dated for a couple months

never really tried raw absolute stranger cold approach before tho, like first time seeing them at a store or something
post 1688313093 08-13-2023, 11:34 PM
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Yes
post 1688313193 08-13-2023, 11:35 PM
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Yeah, summer romance, good times.
post 1688313313 08-13-2023, 11:40 PM
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Yeah all 3 of my gfs were when I was out and about and randomly hit off.
post 1688313343 08-13-2023, 11:40 PM
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I met a chick at the pool while traveling, and we ended up dating for 3 months. Turned out to be totally crazy and a manipulator.
post 1688313383 08-13-2023, 11:41 PM
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nope. banged a couple of people like that though recently and made me realize i can bang/date people i meet in real life too and not just the apps. i tend to lean into compartmentalizing.
post 1688314733 08-14-2023, 12:14 AM
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Of course. A girlfriend I dated for two years I met at the state track meet my senior year. All the athletes from my area were in one hotel, so after dinner a bunch of us went bouncing around hanging out in others' rooms. I noticed her and started talking to her, ended up talking to her for hours, and it went from there.

I dated one chick 4-5 months who approached me at a black tie event. While not a serious relationship, I dated one for a short while that I met while filling out a job application when I was in college. She never ended up working there but we went out several times, not just a hookup. Of course a few I met at parties, random event social events. Some hookups, some I dated for short stints. I met my wife in a bar. Now we have a house, kids, minivan, etc.
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post 1688338223 08-14-2023, 10:38 AM
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Up until about 20-30 years ago, everyone did this.
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post 1688338433 08-14-2023, 10:42 AM
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Has anybody ever met their girlfriend while out socializing in the real world?

lol
post 1688338553 08-14-2023, 10:44 AM
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I met my now wife randomly. I was out playing disc golf, she was taking a child she was watching out for at a walk at the same park. I heard her speaking zulu, which I know a bit of, so I said hi and started chatting and then we hit it off.

If men didn't fear rejection their lives would be much better.
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post 1688338573 08-14-2023, 10:44 AM
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I only know of 1 person who got with, stayed with, and married someone random they met while out....

Everyone else is like, friend of friend, classmate, coworker, employed within the same industry, etc etc etc.
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