I have an older female cousin who went to stay at my parents' house for a week. She's got two children. One's 3 years old and one's a couple months.

My mom spent the entire week blasting me with baby pictures. Now she is shopping on FB messenger (I gave her my login), and I see her talking to sellers about baby onesies and Dr. Seuss books.

She wants grandkids, and she's giving up hope on me or my brother ever coming through. Feels pretty bad, man.

You're young still, and I'm pulling for you (nh).

My uncle came out to stay with my parents last week to visit my grandpa who lives in assisted living by us. My mom has 4 kids, and her younger brother has 4 kids. Several times I've been around him he's been pretty open about wanting grandkids. He and his wife would make great grandparents. I'm not completely sure what's going on with his kids but I think one has never been married, one got married and divorced with no kids, another is married and really wants kids, but can't. I think the last one is married, and they want to stay childless. His youngest daughter is probably around 37 and his oldest is a son that's around 45. He comes and visits my mom or is with us at a big family get together and she has 16 (plus or minus, I lose count). He might get one yet, but it's certainly up in the air. Just how life is sometimes, but they volunteer at church and keep busy with other things, and seem to be happy.

Damn... so your mom is hoping you'd be hooking up with your cousin to give her grandkids?

That's some serious Deliverance chit.

honestly be fuken real.. examine whether you need to change

i KNOW for a fact women are out there that would date you cause youre talking women in the 1-10 range. the whole range

stop trying for the they need to love me for me bit and try to find out what works. use your brain on a curiosity, inquisition, exploration tour

shortly after high school i talked to SO many girls. i was going out all the time hitting on most girls. i was just trying to get laid. i stopped seeking one out (as in going after a particular one) and would just try to have a good time everywhere

i honestly dont know how many girls ive talked to in my life. i wouldn't want to know. i know its in the 1000's. now everything is easy cause i know what i want and how to get it

i know my lil bro did the same too. the biggest illusion dudes will tell you is how little they do. the only guys i believe are guys with girls from high school and college cause that chit is easy mode being inherently surrounded by them

Yeah op time to kick it into high gear. Get serious about lifting and self-improvement. If you're not fat and have a decent amount of muscle you're doing much better than most. No matter what anyone tells you, it does matter and makes a difference. Make this **** your mission; I know I am.Or go this route, I dunno

I just know what makes women click

I'm good at it

Keep in mind women's fantasy is a good erotic novel as opposed to fingerblasting themselves to Victor's secret

Op the guys I see with gfs and wives are often average and below average looking at the obesity rate.


Go out and have a good time.