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post 1689562993 09-05-2023, 10:23 AM
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Getting approached and flirted with more in my 30’s than in my 20’s.

I legit do not look as good, am in good shape but not as good as before and I have a receding hairline.

Yet somehow I am approached more often in public than ever before. Usually by younger sloots.

Just curious why a hollowed out shell of my former self receives much more attention than the much more studly version of myself from my twenties.
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post 1689563123 09-05-2023, 10:26 AM
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post 1689563553 09-05-2023, 10:36 AM
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What do you mean you get 'approached in public' ? Where and how? Girls don't randomly walk up to a guy on the street and start talking so I don't know what you mean.
post 1689564323 09-05-2023, 10:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Incelsavior
Girls don't randomly walk up to a guy on the street and start talking so I don't know what you mean.
Personal experience to user name checks out. They absolutely will cold approach a guy that they are physically attracted to. Had it happen many times before and its great. Big ego boost for sure.
post 1689564523 09-05-2023, 10:59 AM
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Younger Zoomies do not approach anything, they can't even make a phone call or talk to people without stuttering like a socially deranged retard



The females approaching you are most likely late 20's+; their maternal instinct is on fire & they're desperate

It's not you, it's them; that's why women settle post-glow w/ fugly men w/ beards & fhag face
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post 1689564723 09-05-2023, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted By TomPaine
Personal experience to user name checks out. They absolutely will cold approach a guy that they are physically attracted to. Had it happen many times before and its great. Big ego boost for sure.
Please boomer.

If you are approached by a girl out in public during the day (not at night on the street around club area by drunk girls), you are getting approached by 3s and 4s. No 7+ girls are approaching men during the day on the street out in public.

But then you only go for ricepussy majority of the time from what I've heard so makes sense why you'd live in delusion.
post 1689566533 09-05-2023, 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted By blissful88
Younger Zoomies do not approach anything, they can't even make a phone call or talk to people without stuttering like a socially deranged retard



The females approaching you are most likely late 20's+; their maternal instinct is on fire & they're desperate

It's not you, it's them; that's why women settle post-glow w/ fugly men w/ beards & fhag face
Exactly. If the girl is desperate enough to approach a dude during the day out in public, she's a solid 3/10 on a Havoc scale.
post 1689566973 09-05-2023, 11:48 AM
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post 1689566983 09-05-2023, 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Incelsavior
Please boomer.

If you are approached by a girl out in public during the day (not at night on the street around club area by drunk girls), you are getting approached by 3s and 4s. No 7+ girls are approaching men during the day on the street out in public.

But then you only go for ricepussy majority of the time from what I've heard so makes sense why you'd live in delusion.
Bruh I’ve had several random target sloots ask to have play dates with our dogs, or tell me I look very familiar and even after telling them we’ve never met they still try to continue convo. One of the sloots at my barber shop always calls me papi and just a few days ago my college aged Uber driver said I better be careful wearing that cologne.

About a month ago while walking my dog some college sloot ran up to me while I was walking my dog and sat down with her legs wide open to the point I could almost see one of her lips hanging out the side of her shorts and proceeded to play with my dog for like 5 minutes before asking me what I was doing later.

Nobody is saying random sloots walk up and ask to fuk. Obviously it’s more subtle but still. I get random eye fuks on a daily basis and sloots in general just seem to be more social with me now than when I was younger.
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post 1689567133 09-05-2023, 11:51 AM
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post 1689567203 09-05-2023, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Devin459
Bruh I’ve had several random target sloots ask to have play dates with our dogs, or tell me I look very familiar and even after telling them we’ve never met they still try to continue convo. One of the sloots at my barber shop always calls me papi and just a few days ago my college aged Uber driver said I better be careful wearing that cologne.

About a month ago while walking my dog some college sloot ran up to me while I was walking my dog and sat down with her legs wide open to the point I could almost see one of her lips hanging out the side of her shorts and proceeded to play with my dog for like 5 minutes before asking me what I was doing later.

Nobody is saying random sloots walk up and ask to fuk. Obviously it’s more subtle but still. I get random eye fuks on a daily basis and sloots in general just seem to be more social with me now than when I was younger.
So let me get this straight. The only times you've been approached by a girl out on the street is when you were walking your dog. So the lesson is you become more approachable when you are out with your dog (not cause you got older). Logic much?
post 1689567213 09-05-2023, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Devin459
Bruh I’ve had several random target sloots ask to have play dates with our dogs, or tell me I look very familiar and even after telling them we’ve never met they still try to continue convo. One of the sloots at my barber shop always calls me papi and just a few days ago my college aged Uber driver said I better be careful wearing that cologne.

About a month ago while walking my dog some college sloot ran up to me while I was walking my dog and sat down with her legs wide open to the point I could almost see one of her lips hanging out the side of her shorts and proceeded to play with my dog for like 5 minutes before asking me what I was doing later.

Nobody is saying random sloots walk up and ask to fuk. Obviously it’s more subtle but still. I get random eye fuks on a daily basis and sloots in general just seem to be more social with me now than when I was younger.
You better be treating that doggo like a king considering how much pussy he's bringing you m8

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post 1689567373 09-05-2023, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Incelsavior
Please boomer.

If you are approached by a girl out in public during the day (not at night on the street around club area by drunk girls), you are getting approached by 3s and 4s. No 7+ girls are approaching men during the day on the street out in public.

But then you only go for ricepussy majority of the time from what I've heard so makes sense why you'd live in delusion.
IncelLoser:

Not a boomer, my parents are barely even old enough to be considered them. So this is the first L for you.

The second one is that you are not attractive enough to have been approached by females. I've had it happen a lot since I was about 15 (when women in their 20s - 40s would openly approach and hit on me in public, yes there is a huge double standard). I know an incel can't think that this is possible because its never happened to them, and admitting that they are the problem will shatter their world view.

The 3rd L for you in your post is thinking that I only go for Asians. I have been with almost all types of attractive women (yes certain "types" have less attractive ones than others, but there are great ones of every type). As you are new here (probably just another alt though), I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you just don't know. Just don't let it happen again son, or I'll tell your mom next time I'm over and she will ground you from the WiFi again.
post 1689567433 09-05-2023, 11:58 AM
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Because you were trying to impress ghey bbers in your 20's
post 1689567553 09-05-2023, 12:01 PM
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I’m in my 30s, and have noticed the same. Although I look better now than I did in my 30s.

Reasons:
1. I spend a lot more time out in public solo now than with a group. Obviously a girl is more likely to make conversation with a solo guy than a group of guys.

2. Zoomer girls are way more likely to be interested in older guys. Back when I was in college, girls acted like even late 20s guys were ancient, and the only exceptions would be if the guy were a good looking doctor or something. Nowadays, most girls are dating guys 3-4+ years older as a minimum, so they weren’t immediately turned off by the idea of dating an older guy like girls in the past.

Also, they’re way more open to casual relationships. So while they might be less likely to actually seriously date you, they might still fuk you.
post 1689567873 09-05-2023, 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted By TomPaine
IncelLoser:

Not a boomer, my parents are barely even old enough to be considered them. So this is the first L for you.

The second one is that you are not attractive enough to have been approached by females. I've had it happen a lot since I was about 15 (when women in their 20s - 40s would openly approach and hit on me in public, yes there is a huge double standard). I know an incel can't think that this is possible because its never happened to them, and admitting that they are the problem will shatter their world view.

The 3rd L for you in your post is thinking that I only go for Asians. I have been with almost all types of attractive women (yes certain "types" have less attractive ones than others, but there are great ones of every type). As you are new here (probably just another alt though), I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you just don't know. Just don't let it happen again son, or I'll tell your mom next time I'm over and she will ground you from the WiFi again.
Come on brah. We've all seen pics of girls you smashed. They are all below average or average AT BEST. You are not fooling anyone here.
post 1689568123 09-05-2023, 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Incelsavior
Come on brah. We've all seen pics of girls you smashed. They are all below average or average AT BEST. You are not fooling anyone here.
4th L bro. Keep trying. So which alt are you, if you say that you've seen them with them being posted long before your join date?

Please post one that isn't attractive. Please try. Was it the actual Ukrainian ballerina? The print models? Which ones?

LOL, no wonder you strike out with females. You have the inbcel mentality down to a tee.
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Originally Posted By TomPaine
4th L bro. Keep trying. So which alt are you, if you say that you've seen them with them being posted long before your join date?

Please post one that isn't attractive. Please try. Was it the actual Ukrainian ballerina? The print models? Which ones?

LOL, no wonder you strike out with females. You have the inbcel mentality down to a tee.
imagine having a serious convo with incelsavior lol
post 1689568833 09-05-2023, 12:24 PM
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Originally Posted By bicmane102
imagine having a serious convo with incelsavior lol
I get that point, obviously they're an idiot, but it's fun to mess with them sometimes.

Like with most posts, you're not necessarily responding to the person but putting an idea out there were others can see it.
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Originally Posted By Devin459
Bruh I’ve had several random target sloots ask to have play dates with our dogs, or tell me I look very familiar and even after telling them we’ve never met they still try to continue convo. One of the sloots at my barber shop always calls me papi and just a few days ago my college aged Uber driver said I better be careful wearing that cologne.

About a month ago while walking my dog some college sloot ran up to me while I was walking my dog and sat down with her legs wide open to the point I could almost see one of her lips hanging out the side of her shorts and proceeded to play with my dog for like 5 minutes before asking me what I was doing later.

Nobody is saying random sloots walk up and ask to fuk. Obviously it’s more subtle but still. I get random eye fuks on a daily basis and sloots in general just seem to be more social with me now than when I was younger.
interesting, i barely do anything outside besides wageslave
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Originally Posted By TomPaine
4th L bro. Keep trying. So which alt are you, if you say that you've seen them with them being posted long before your join date?

Please post one that isn't attractive. Please try. Was it the actual Ukrainian ballerina? The print models? Which ones?

LOL, no wonder you strike out with females. You have the inbcel mentality down to a tee.
Literally no girl in your pic was above average. Just a typical average sloot you wouldn't notice while walking down the street. And lol at only going for Asians and Ukranians. You obviously don't have the personality or looks to pull hot chicks in NA.
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace
In my experience women don't directly approach like that. When they do, it's very subtle to the point where many men could miss it completely as a come-on.

Also it looks like your dog is doing the pulling for you.
how do i escalate it. i get asked stupid questions like where something is and its clearly right in front of us. idk what to do.
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Originally Posted By Incelsavior
Literally no girl in your pic was above average. Just a typical average sloot you wouldn't notice while walking down the street. And lol at only going for Asians and Ukranians. You obviously don't have the personality or looks to pull hot chicks in NA.
Again, burden of proof was given to you. Prove it. You can't. Such is the life the of the incel (every girl is just meh, I could have better if I wanted.)

Also, LOL that pretending that a literally world known, light haired, green eyed Ukranian HBB high paid ballerina who has been on TV and radio shows around the world is not a score. This is the type of girl that you would stand in line with to take a photo with and get an autograph (she did that at times and had actual long lines). Just one example.
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