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» Reality check: if you have to "try" with a woman, it's over for you.
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post 1689817493 09-09-2023, 11:56 PM
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Reality check: if you have to "try" with a woman, it's over for you.

With women, if they like you, you will not have to "try", they will literally open every door for you to bang and all you have to do is walk through it, and sometimes not even that as they will literally do EVERYTHING to make sure you smash, up to inviting themselves to your house.

These women in 2023 ain't shy, they ain't playing "hard to get" if they want the D, trust me on that.

If you have to apply ANY effort it's because she has low interest. And if she has low interest she will take the FIRST better offer she gets.

If you are having to "use game" or thinking about what you say or wear, it's over for you.

Effortcels, time to accept it's over for you.
post 1689817593 09-10-2023, 12:00 AM
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When I was young, I never needed anyone.
post 1689817683 09-10-2023, 12:05 AM
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Getting laid is always easy, that's not to say it's always easy to get laid but jestermaxxing never works.
post 1689817963 09-10-2023, 12:12 AM
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It’s definitely a good general rule of thumb.

Going off my own experiences, I think 95% of the time when it’s felt like hard work it has fizzled into nothing.
post 1689818433 09-10-2023, 12:30 AM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka
When I was young, I never needed anyone.
And she a punk who rarely ever took advice
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post 1689818453 09-10-2023, 12:32 AM
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post 1689818493 09-10-2023, 12:33 AM
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How are you going to jestermaxx if you don't try?
post 1689818553 09-10-2023, 12:36 AM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
How are you going to jestermaxx if you don't try?
You’re being too literal.

You obviously have to make some kind of effort to get the ball rolling, but after that point if it becomes drawn out and / or feels like pulling teeth, it usually spells game over.
post 1689818613 09-10-2023, 12:40 AM
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most dudes make 95% of their life part of a big effort to get a woman...they ain't worth all that
post 1689818773 09-10-2023, 12:49 AM
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If you're straight up with her and speak your intentions straight away, she'll probably treat you the same way and if she does play then move along and find a higher value woman.
post 1689818883 09-10-2023, 12:54 AM
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Every girl I hooked up with was like this and there were hundreds more that I learned through failure

Don't stop trying
post 1689819783 09-10-2023, 01:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Doyoureallylift
I think being sincere is best. Just let them know if you're interested, if they don't show it back, move on.
This.

A large percentage of men feel like just because you've had some positive conversations with a girl that you're 100% in. Even if she's never dropping obvious hints or never initiating conversations/meetups with you. Girls usually make it blatantly obvious if they're interested.
post 1689819843 09-10-2023, 01:28 AM
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Manlets and fugs love to preach jestermaxxing cuz it’s their only hope, but reality is that 99.99% of the time it doesn’t work. If she wants you, you will know. No amount of conversation games are going to get a chick to suddenly change her opinion of you for the better.
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post 1689819913 09-10-2023, 01:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Condo41
Every girl I hooked up with was like this and there were hundreds more that I learned through failure

Don't stop trying
I’ve banged over 200 and conversation never moved the needle in either direction. She’s either in or out from first impression (looks). .001% of the time you can overcome bad first impression (looks) by being interesting or exceptionally personable but this is so rare that it is pointless to waste time on it.
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post 1689824683 09-10-2023, 07:05 AM
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The only reason I reply to these threads

Is cause I think you got a lot of "lost" guys and this just further puts them down

There's too many things to write about but if men 100% didn't try then I guess sex only happens through female rape?

And sex always happens when one party is 100% committed and the other party is 0%. Sounds right

It's always a little pull and tug both ways. You're crazy if you think you can't get women in the mood by toying with her
post 1689825673 09-10-2023, 07:46 AM
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She has to chase you a majority of the time or it wont work.
IF YOU DONT SQUAT, YOU AINT SQUAT
post 1689826653 09-10-2023, 08:24 AM
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Originally Posted By mryamamoto
This. Even if you get her after the games and trying, you'll have to accept that you weren't her first option and she didn't have that primal desire for you.

After the chase, she'll forever feel as the one who is adored. The chaser as the adorer.

Game over.
Idk man.. in order for your theory to work that would mean every man with a girl.. the girl thinks he's the best looking guy she can get?

Do you think that's the case? Do you think every female with a guy thinks their guy is the best looking? Both the best looking she can get and or the best looking in the world?

I don't. There's a lot more at play

I think some of yall want to twist it into genetics to make yourselves feel more special
post 1689828373 09-10-2023, 09:02 AM
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I agree 100% and have said that countless times on here. Do not be an acquired taste. She is into you or she isn't. You are Chad to her, or just a leftover that she might entertain if all the better options are not there at the moment. Have some self respect guys.

Every girl that I had any sort of relationship with (GF, LTR, FWB, etc), "IT" was there immediately after meeting or locking eyes. One super cute 1/2 Mexican, 1/2 White was introduced to me through a mutual friend on a group outing and within 2 minutes everyone thought that we were a couple that had been together for awhile by her mannerisms, the way that she looked at me and the affection that she showed to me. Her friends said that they had never seen her be that way with anyone, including her ex boyfriends.

When they are like this, they will notice and love your smell on items like clothing, they are willing do all the "anti-feminist" things like cook and clean for you enthusiastically, dress how you want them to look, etc.
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