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post 1690077313 09-14-2023, 06:18 PM
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Rejected from first ever “cold approach” outside supermarket

Thought I’d try “cold approach” cause if you read online people say this is the best way to meet a woman (or man if you’re a woman) because online dating sucks.

I haven’t been with anyone since my ex-girlfriend left me early this year.

Went to the supermarket to buy eggs and saw a nice looking blonde lady (probably mid 30s) in those black tights and a bright green top.

I didn’t approach her in the supermarket but saw her again outside on her phone so I thought why not.

I chatted to her for about a couple of minutes about the weather and plans for the day (yes I know boring) and then said I had to go and asked for her number. She said she was flattered but was too old for me and married said she was 46.

First time ever doing that and it is a warm morning so I was a bit sweaty when I went back to my car but it wasn’t like I got brutally rejected so maybe I’ll try again another time if I see someone I’m attracted to.
post 1690077433 09-14-2023, 06:20 PM
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How does it feel?
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post 1690078223 09-14-2023, 06:38 PM
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Get back in the ring and approach another. Chits a numbers game.
Drop the small talk with sloots 30+ and go direct AF. They know why you're approaching and you can save yourself a lot of time.
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post 1690079163 09-14-2023, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
How does it feel?
Feels normal, nothing changed and the world didn’t end lol. Heart was beating fast when talking to her and knees weak palms sweaty etc, but nothing too crazy.
Originally Posted By multiplemiggs⏩
Get back in the ring and approach another. Chits a numbers game.
Drop the small talk with sloots 30+ and go direct AF. They know why you're approaching and you can save yourself a lot of time.
Yeah I guess it’s just a numbers game but it was 8:30am in the morning so I don’t think being straight forward and direct would’ve worked for me (not a “Chad”).
post 1690079293 09-14-2023, 07:02 PM
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Originally Posted By SEVIN123⏩
Feels normal, nothing changed and the world didn’t end lol. Heart was beating fast when talking to her and knees weak palms sweaty etc, but nothing too crazy.



Yeah I guess it’s just a numbers game but it was 8:30am in the morning so I don’t think being straight forward and direct would’ve worked for me (not a “Chad”).
Pretty legit response.

Some people take rejection a little harder, understandably, but it is unnecessary suffering.

Doesn’t seem like you have that problem.

It would be okay if you did, but I am glad you don’t.

Cool man, as been stated, go try again. Experiment with different approaches and pay attention to subconscious body language.

Hers and yours.

GL.


Also, don’t worry about being a chad. The misc is retarded when it comes to women.
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post 1690079433 09-14-2023, 07:05 PM
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Good for you. More exposure just maked you better assuming you're not off-putting at baseline.
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post 1690079553 09-14-2023, 07:07 PM
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post 1690079723 09-14-2023, 07:11 PM
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No approach crew
post 1690079813 09-14-2023, 07:12 PM
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“Hey mis, stop me if you’ve heard this before - but you wanna grab a coffee? And by coffee I mean martini”.

There you go. Rinse and repeat.
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post 1690079853 09-14-2023, 07:13 PM
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It happens to everyone. If they say it hasn't they are either lying or never had the guts to even approach and say hello to a hot chic.

If you get shot down shrug it off and try again. Even the hottest chips get shot down at some time or another.

Keep trying. Trying is the fun part of it anyways
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post 1690080303 09-14-2023, 07:21 PM
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Nice job man. Keep it up so you can get the skills up. I'd have probably been too nervous to do it in that situation (supermarket lot)
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