Well I wouldn't really call it a date. We went out three times, he is a good looking guy but just the personality vibes is just not there. Don't get me wrong he is not an *******, he is actually a complete gentleman. Is just that I feel like when I am with him there just no butterfly , something is missing. I can't pinpoint out what it is but we stay connected till he moved out to another country.

Few years passed. So I was out in a park after I do my normal jog. I usually feed some birds (lol) and this guy just suddenly come out of the blue with lil kid .

He said " Am I disturbing your feeding"

I said no you are not.

He said we forgot to bring some bird seed can we have some.

I said sure and hand the bird seed to the lil girl.


As I was walking away, I am like " I think I know that guy. he look familiar" ( he was wearing sunglasses , so I can't really tell)

I heard the girl call him daddy so I am like " It can't be him but maybe he had a kid , good for him" .


Still uncertain if its him . Next day I went to the same park. Did my usual routine Jog and fed some hungry animals lol. He was there again with the lil kid and this time with a lady. They are sitting on a table and when I was walking passby them. He said " there's the bird lady" and he said something else that I didn't understand so I just said " are you talking to me" then he said yes. He was asking me if I go jogged all around the park. I said yes .

Then I just walked away after that. Looking at him , is the same guy that I went out with.


Have you had this experience before where you used to date someone, then years later they bump into you and talked to you but pretend they don't know you?

How do you know he's pretending

Only the fat and ugly ones.

I am just guessing. lol

I guess I just find weird that he would come up to me , talked to me like he doesn't know me then again I wasn't even sure if it's really him not until later.

I am not sure what happened to my pics on my avatar. I uploaded it again but is not showing up.

You must have dated A LOT of people to have an experience like that.

Huh? What do you mean?

I actually don't ! I am very picky!

takes a bit to reset

Did you only do anal?

That could be the reason.

No, but I pretended I didn’t know them, and wouldn’t speak to them either.

Maybe you look really different?

it's tough to remember every single slampig srs

Am I disturbing your feeding?

No such thing as being picky. People choose the best among options

You've aged a lot, and lets face it - you have the body type that has to fight to keep every pound off.

He probably didn't recognize you with the bloat, elasticity loss and extra bodyfat.

Did you use to be a man?

disturbing your feeding?? as he randomly appears out of the blue, that sounds highly mysterious

I mean there are times I rather not speak to someone, but coming up to them in disguise with some random person and pretending not to know you while feeding birds with your bird stuff and then walking away into the distance like nothing happened, that is some mysterious level stuff, sounds like he's trying to make you think he's more interesting than he actually is, I bet he went home and cried for hours after that

This. Quit being so narcissistic. Sounds like a good guy that you passed on b/c he wasn't chad enough and now he's found someone and you're still alone and mad about it.

Not sure if mentioned but maybe he got so sh*tfaced on your dates that he completely forgot who you were

Def not narcissistic here. Way far from that. I am not mad as I didn't really wanted to date him and I am happy for him.

Is reddit down or something?