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post 1691894723 10-18-2023, 10:02 AM
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Do the guys who complain about online dating being so hard here serious?

I do alright with it, and I'm in a dogchit area for it and not a turbo Chad.

I'm convinced that a lot of guys pissing and moaning about it here are either trolling, have really bad profiles, or are like 5'3" ****** or something.

It's a pretty easy way to meet sloots. Yeah you won't succeed all the time, but it really is a numbers game, and once you learn to embrace that, you'll notice you start doing better with it overall. Srs.
post 1691895513 10-18-2023, 10:17 AM
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Let this sink in: for the guys who complain that they can't even get 1 date on an online dating app, it's100%your doing. You have nobody else to blame but yourself. Quit making excuses and maybe things will change
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post 1691895663 10-18-2023, 10:20 AM
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The incels in here all want an 18-22 year old skinny blonde virgin with big titties and a trust fund.

It's that or bust.
post 1691895683 10-18-2023, 10:20 AM
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new & ground breaking. no one that gets girls complains
post 1691895813 10-18-2023, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By baldbrah
The incels in here all want an 18-22 year old skinny blonde virgin with big titties and a trust fund.

It's that or bust.
...but they're nice guys, though.
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post 1691896133 10-18-2023, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin
...but they're nice guys, though.
the main one is a larp
post 1691899363 10-18-2023, 11:28 AM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin
Let this sink in: for the guys who complain that they can't even get 1 date on an online dating app, it's100%your doing. You have nobody else to blame but yourself. Quit making excuses and maybe things will change
I honestly think these guys must just be really bad at making profiles/talking to chicks online. I'm not claiming to be swimming in endless seas of vagene with it, but it's a crazy easy way to meet women in general if you're not a total autist.
post 1691899793 10-18-2023, 11:36 AM
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If you're not getting matches, it's because you're ugly or your pictures suck.

If you're not getting dates, it's because your text game sucks and you have no idea how to polarize quickly.

If you're not getting laid, you suck in person.

Also, guys who are a 5 need to stop thinking they should be matching with 7's and above. Women date up, not down.
post 1691900833 10-18-2023, 11:54 AM
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Help me get unbanned on tinder brah
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post 1691901023 10-18-2023, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By baldbrah
The incels in here all want an 18-22 year old skinny blonde virgin with big titties and a trust fund.

It's that or bust.
You forgot virgin
I'm back, bitches!
post 1691901153 10-18-2023, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted By ArnoldLibCuck
if you're not a total autist.
This is the problem
post 1691903513 10-18-2023, 12:38 PM
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Nah those apps are rigged. I'm pretty sure my profile does not get shown to girls when I've gone on there in the past. You got dudes paying to get bumped to the top. The cute girls are getting swiped right by every single guy on the app. She doesn't sit there swiping through thousands of guys all day long. It's basically a game of chance you get shown to any of them especially if you're using the free version.

In b4 algorithm wizards who act like if you get swiped right you get shown more.... problem is if you're on the free version you don't get shown enough to influence that algorithm.


In b4 you're just ugly. I'm not that ugly. I see much uglier dudes getting more matches and dates and no I'm not delusional. I got no problem acknowledging dudes that look better no homo. I have friends who have gotten matches and dates on those apps. One got married to a girl he dated off Bumble. My friends are not ugly but they're not significantly more attractive either. None of them even workout. I usually get more attention on looks alone. Granted I have the social skills of a clown so I don't necessarily have more success, but from a purely physical perspective.

Those apps are complete bullsh*t when it comes to surfacing people properly. If you're attractive I would almost say you're better off sticking to the real world. You get cute girls who are far more receptive to speaking with you out and about than hoping you get displayed on their dating app.
post 1691904533 10-18-2023, 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted By lightsarefallin
...but they're nice guys, though.
false, nice guys go out and help others, do community service etc... incels are just poosies who still try to bully other incels
post 1691904623 10-18-2023, 12:56 PM
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It's not hard as much as it is a waste of time
post 1691904863 10-18-2023, 01:00 PM
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most of the dating sites are nothing more then a cock fest . its the same 2 woman sleeping with a hundred men
post 1691904903 10-18-2023, 01:00 PM
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Hard? No.

Does it take longer depending on your height/ethnicity? Yes, and it usually requires more effort along with lots of waiting.

A lot of you think the amount of effort to pull is equal among men, and that's wrong. A lot of you successful brahs don't have as much game as you think and it's more that you fit into a looks threshold that makes it less of a challenge for you personally. I also think incels who say it's impossible and the guys who can't at least admit it's a challenge are equally delusional. Fools on both ends.
post 1691905203 10-18-2023, 01:08 PM
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A lot of decent looking dudes have dogchit profiles. Zero artistic eye for what makes an attractive profile. You can see this on display on reddits tinder subreddit
post 1691906123 10-18-2023, 01:28 PM
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Nah it's true. You can barely swipe through 5 profiles before hitting a paywall. Back when Tinder first started you could swipe almost every girl in the city. I do phenomenal IRL as far as prime girls being initially attracted but only match with Sloths on bumble. The nature of online dating gives females all of the advantage. Real life is a numbers game too, but the odds are favorable to the point of online dating being a waste of time.

Overall it's weird, modern men would rather swipe and pray for a miracle over learning how to talk IRL. Society is cooked.
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