1) The people who are nice to you, are nice to everyone.

2) When you're the first in the room, people don't sit down next to you.

3) Sometimes you hear people talking about whats going on in a group chat. But they never ask if you saw it.

4) The next time you're having a conversation mentally "turn the sound off" and look only at their body language. How are they posturing themself toward you?

5) Nobody asks what you did last weekend.

6) Sometimes people don't hear what you said. Your contributions to conversations are ignored.

7) If you bring something nice to the group (like donuts) hardly anyone takes one.

8) Someone else can do/say something and it's funny. But when you do/say it, it's awkward.

9) Circled conversations often "close up" as you try to enter. Walking in a line on the sidewalk, you are always the one on the end who gets bumped off.

10) You are never the leader of the group. It's always up to someone else to drive the group conversation/action.

11) You're a red on the Misc

It could just mean you are ugly.

I don't need subtle signs boyo

Thankfully there is absolutely zero requirement to have high social status.


I don’t want most people to sit down next to me.

Ded srs.

I spent my youth playing RuneScape. As an adult I will attend a social event out of obligation, but will quickly hide because I'm not sure how to behave like a normal person srs.

my grandpa won an Emmy and ive been to NBC Chicago 5 station and met a bunch of famous people and have held an actual Emmy.i think i win by default