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post 1693958573 11-26-2023, 03:58 PM
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How many sexual partners should a single man in his mid 30s have?

What would you expect as normal?
post 1693958683 11-26-2023, 04:01 PM
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~8 (btw 4-15 sounds normal)
post 1693958713 11-26-2023, 04:01 PM
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at least age/2.

so if 36 at least 18. if you dont have those numbers you arent at least normie
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post 1693958763 11-26-2023, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
at least age/2.

so if 36 at least 18. if you dont have those numbers you arent at least normie
Not a normie if you aren't at least three times the average lmao.
post 1693958783 11-26-2023, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
The aim should be one.
Most people would consider that very weird tbh
post 1693958963 11-26-2023, 04:07 PM
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If you're asking questions like this, you haven't grown up yet. Your goal should be to find a wife and make babies, not just accumulate notches. You can do that if you want, but it's a dead end.
post 1693958973 11-26-2023, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By TryingMen⏩
Most people would consider that very weird tbh
His point is you find someone and have the relationship last ideally. That's kind of the entire point.
post 1693959083 11-26-2023, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted By BrownPaperBag⏩
Men are biologically wire to spread their seed, fuk outta here with that bodycount of 1 chit

Chads like me will bang all the girls
Betas will starve
How many kids do you have? Did you spread your seed?
post 1693959133 11-26-2023, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted By brooootal⏩
His point is you find someone and have the relationship last ideally. That's kind of the entire point.
But that's not a single man.
post 1693959183 11-26-2023, 04:13 PM
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None if not married, super ded srs
post 1693959223 11-26-2023, 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway⏩
But that's not a single man.
Fair point, but ideally you'd have had a good relationship. Then maybe it failed because she died or something.
post 1693959233 11-26-2023, 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted By brooootal⏩
If you're asking questions like this, you haven't grown up yet. Your goal should be to find a wife and make babies, not just accumulate notches. You can do that if you want, but it's a dead end.
The reality is women will view too low or too high as red flags in 2023. So it directly impacts your ability to find a wife. In b4 girl suitable for wife wouldn't care (yes she would). In b4 just don't tell them a number (easier said than done if they feel like it's important to know cause not answering can also backfire on you).

Just saying it's a part of relationships now. I can always lie, but what's a normal range normal wife material girls would not be weirded out by is the whole point.
post 1693959243 11-26-2023, 04:14 PM
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post 1693959253 11-26-2023, 04:14 PM
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I’d say anywhere from 4-10 is a chill number for the avg man

-Teenage / late teen girlfriend

-College girlfriend

-A sloot or a few when you get heartbroken from college gf

-Girl you end up wifing up

That seems like a selection where the guy won’t wonder too much about what he’s missing / be satisfied, but nothing crazy
post 1693959363 11-26-2023, 04:18 PM
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100+ easily

thats not even 1 girl a month since teen dating
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Originally Posted By TryingMen⏩
The reality is women will view too low or too high as red flags in 2023. So it directly impacts your ability to find a wife. In b4 girl suitable for wife wouldn't care (yes she would). In b4 just don't tell them a number (easier said than done if they feel like it's important to know cause not answering can also backfire on you).

Just saying it's a part of relationships now. I can always lie, but what's a normal range normal wife material girls would not be weirded out by is the whole point.
Yeah they will absolutely freak out if it’s too high, and be weirded out if it’s too low

Once after smashing a chick I had her ask what my number was (hers was 2 srs). I lied and came up with something semi realistic because I do look like a player, said maybe 20ish-25. She absolutely freaked out damn near had a panic attack thinking I slept with that many people. It was a really big deal

My real numbers like 60+ LOL
post 1693959423 11-26-2023, 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Should be already married by then.

O30 and still unmarried is too old. Men should settle down by 30 max.
once you are over 30 and still unmarried/no kids, people just start to assume you are gay (ded fkn srs)
post 1693959433 11-26-2023, 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted By TryingMen⏩
The reality is women will view too low or too high as red flags in 2023. So it directly impacts your ability to find a wife. In b4 girl suitable for wife wouldn't care (yes she would). In b4 just don't tell them a number (easier said than done if they feel like it's important to know cause not answering can also backfire on you).

Just saying it's a part of relationships now. I can always lie, but what's a normal range normal wife material girls would not be weirded out by is the whole point.
The vast majority of decent women will not care if your number is low. People care if it is too high because it implies you are a player, unable to form lasting relationships, and may have STDs. Your number being 0 may imply something is wrong with you and that you will be bad in bed, but if you go and look at surveys on the topic, a lot of women don't mind if you're low count. I'd say just be honest and direct. If she likes you, she'll still like you regardless of your count. You shouldn't open up about that chit until after an emotional bond exists and she has the feels tho.

Wife material girls probably prefer something from 2-6 as your count. But if you're Chad, she'll accept any number.
post 1693959443 11-26-2023, 04:18 PM
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post 1693959483 11-26-2023, 04:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz⏩
Yeah they will absolutely freak out if it’s too high, and be weirded out if it’s too low

Once after smashing a chick I had her ask what my number was (hers was 2 srs). I lied and came up with something semi realistic because I do look like a player, said maybe 20ish-25. She absolutely freaked out damn near had a panic attack thinking I slept with that many people. It was a really big deal

My real numbers like 60+ LOL
You should have gone with 6. And left it there.
post 1693959533 11-26-2023, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz⏩
Yeah they will absolutely freak out if it’s too high, and be weirded out if it’s too low

Once after smashing a chick I had her ask what my number was (hers was 2 srs). I lied and came up with something semi realistic because I do look like a player, said maybe 20ish-25. She absolutely freaked out damn near had a panic attack thinking I slept with that many people. It was a really big deal

My real numbers like 60+ LOL
Thanks this is helpful
post 1693959553 11-26-2023, 04:21 PM
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I'd expect around 20 to be normal these days with how easy girls are and how many people engage in sex just for numbers or filling the void. Though, growing up in the church, I thought 10 was the max any socially adjusted guy should have, 3-5 max for girls up to 25.
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