The only thing coffee shops are good for are to have failed first meetups with hinge/tinder/pof sloots who decide you're boring after what seemed like a great conversation with them so they ghost you promptly afterwards

Hnnnnng I know that game

conversation is easy, and if you had good convo before, on the phone... it will translate.


its not that women find them boring, its that being in person has a whole different vibe... the way you move, walk, etc... its important, and you may not have accurately transmitted this in your convos... maybe you faked confidence in convos on the phone/text... and when you are in person, she can smell your lack of confidence and masculinity, etc. most men are huge fakers and will simp and do anything, including pretend to be something they aren't, and pretend to have views they don't have, in order to get something from a pretty girl. it's sad.


who knows.

but women who actually show up to meet you, were interested in you. perhaps men need to stop putting up fronts and just be who they are, so it translates in reality as well.

Olga quiet quitting