Which Red/Black Flags would be deal breakers for you?

These are the red flags that you are not willing to negotiate on, or the type of red flag which is very unlikely to be resolved.

These are mine.

01. History of depression/anxiety taking medication or mental health issues, such as Bipolar, BPD.

This one should be self explanatory, you cannot fix a girl with mental health issues, you will likely end up with trauma yourself trying fix or save a broken woman like this.

02. More male friends than females. This type of chick who has LOTS of male friends is a LIABILITY for an LTR. I believe it is USELESS asking her to get rid of the dudes in her life.. You have to look at the deeper reason, on why this girl likes to be around dudes alot.

This type of girl will likely continue to use men for attention & validation throughout your relationship with her.

03. Masculine traits. Has masculine traits, has a combative attitude, tries to take the leadership position in the relationship, or has high conflict tendencies.

04. Was raised by a single mom & the father was never in the picture. This type of girl is likely to have daddy issues, is likely to have started having sex very early on in her life & likely has a high body count.

This type of girl is likely to have trauma, and finds it difficult to bond with a masculine man. They tend not to know how to treat men well, and they likely to hate having to abide to boundaries.

When we’re infatuated with a love interest, and they’re putting their best foot forward, we can easily ignore or not even see big-ass red flags. There are important arenas to keep an eye out for. What exactly do we need to be on the lookout for? 21 red flags have been outlined below to guide you in making good choices.

Plastic surgery

1. Not white

1) Has a dog that sleeps in her bed.
2) Has 16 credit cards.
3) Carries a huge bag everywhere.

1) has a roommate
2) wants fwb’s
3) “not rn I’m shedding”
4) “It hasn’t made me gag since HS”
5) “the eye contact was so refreshing”

People who are unsure about what they want.

Too old for that ****

Rounded red nose, green hair and looong squicky shoes. Big turn off.

Is there a specific age you have to hit to stop being confused about what you want ? asking for a friend.