So many people say you have to work on yourself first then look to date. It’s not gonna work, girls won’t date you anyway even after you work on yourself.

You’re not going to meet a girl to date outside of school, work, through friends or online. Most guys actually meet their wives when they’re older through work or friends or online but got no action prior to that and accept that they had to wait to find a girl to date cause they couldn’t get any in their 20s or early 30s.

Working on yourself is cope, anyone who gives that advice is only saying it cause they don’t know what else’s to say as “go to meet ups”
Or “just go to the park bro” doesn’t work.

Don’t work on youtself, this is cope. You have NO HOPE son.

I guess I should work in the zoo somehow, uhhh you’re not gonna work on yourself by going to the gym, dressing nicer, being more stable and then go to the zoo and meet a girl.