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post 1696127923 01-09-2024, 01:54 PM
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Do girls want you more when they see you with other girls?

There's this girl who I got with one time, we message each other on social media from time to time. I know she has a thing for me and I do too but she's in another country right now. When I went on a date with her she asked if I had a gf cause she saw a pic of me with another girl on IG, I just played it off saying it's nothing

I've been meaning to post a pic of me with another girl simply because it's a really good pic. Would this make her jealous and want me more or would this repel her?
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Well that's the primal instinct for sloots, they see a guy with other women it = high value desirable male. Pretty much the opposite of how men see sloots.
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Obviously lol
post 1696128083 01-09-2024, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted By JayJ350⏩
Well that's the primal instinct for sloots, they see a guy with other women it = high value desirable male. Pretty much the opposite of how men see sloots.
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post 1696128203 01-09-2024, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted By JayJ350⏩
Well that's the primal instinct for sloots, they see a guy with other women it = high value desirable male. Pretty much the opposite of how men see sloots.
Yeah some girls would end it if they know you're married though, for example. She's also very traditional (Ukranian) so I wonder if this mindset still applies to her a much as western girls
post 1696129133 01-09-2024, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted By RiceBrah93⏩
Yeah some girls would end it if they know you're married though, for example. She's also very traditional (Ukranian) so I wonder if this mindset still applies to her a much as western girls
E. European women like their western counterparts value guys who are wanted by others. Ukrainian ladies are pretty interesting. Sweet, loveable, and traditional but also very strong willed. I know a few and have a 4 year relationship with one that started when she played ice hockey at her university (a mens team) and needed some training help as well as competing with men in a contact sport (my daughter played American Football so I know something about young women playing men's contact sports). I've filled more of a coach/father/trusted adult advisory role in her life. It's complicated but she's a great gal. They do have a pretty good BS meter built in so be careful what you say. Go over to Europe and meet up with her (in Romania, Poland, or somewhere she can get to). Have fun
post 1696129343 01-09-2024, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted By sowilson⏩
E. European women like their western counterparts value guys who are wanted by others. Ukrainian ladies are pretty interesting. Sweet, loveable, and traditional but also very strong willed. I know a few and have a 4 year relationship with one that started when she played ice hockey at her university (a mens team) and needed some training help as well as competing with men in a contact sport (my daughter played American Football so I know something about young women playing men's contact sports). I've filled more of a coach/father/trusted adult advisory role in her life. It's complicated but she's a great gal. They do have a pretty good BS meter built in so be careful what you say. Go over to Europe and meet up with her (in Romania, Poland, or somewhere she can get to). Have fun
So this girl would like me even more if I post another girl with me on social media? Lol. Me and her met overseas and we still stay in touch, I've hinted going to Europe eventually and meet up with her but I try not to really talk to her because it would kill attraction since we're not seeing each other
post 1696130763 01-09-2024, 03:01 PM
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It would be risky she might like you more. Of course it depends what you post and what you two are doing in the picture. I talk with my friend 2-3 times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. I get to practice my Russian she get's to practice her English.
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Originally Posted By sowilson⏩
It would be risky she might like you more. Of course it depends what you post and what you two are doing in the picture. I talk with my friend 2-3 times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. I get to practice my Russian she get's to practice her English.
Yeah their accent is so gorgeous, I frkn love how they pronounce certain English words. Do you see her in person often or just talk to her over the phone?
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I don't think they like the player thing

So basically telling them you're serious but you're not

But I do think it's true about the pre selection.

There's a difference. One is leading others on and the other attracts a lot

They go hand in hand most of the time, but not always
post 1696132873 01-09-2024, 03:46 PM
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The old school PUA community from 20 years ago called it 'Social Proof.'

Women want the men that other women want.
post 1696171123 01-10-2024, 11:15 AM
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Short answer, yes.

But if you flaunt it too hard or are even actively thinking about doing this to make someone else jealous, it will probably backfire and not work.

Lots of time women just love the thrill of being able to take your attention away from another woman.

If you're out and about and can demonstrate attractive women feel comfortable around you or w/e then it's a big checkmark for the other women who notice.
post 1696171633 01-10-2024, 11:26 AM
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No they want you less

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The hotter the woman they see you with, the hotter you become in their eyes. It's the pete davidson effect. Once he was publicly linked with one hottie, he got loads of other hotties.

It's the same as with jobs, if you are fielding offers from multiple employers, you are judged to be more valuable.
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My question is how would you feel if she posted a picture with another guy? How did you meet this girl? was she on vacation where you live and she returned home?
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
The old school PUA community from 20 years ago called it 'Social Proof.'

Women want the men that other women want.
This srs. Women determine the value of things such as people and objects based on other women.
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Originally Posted By RiceBrah93⏩
Yeah their accent is so gorgeous, I frkn love how they pronounce certain English words. Do you see her in person often or just talk to her over the phone?
I went over to Bulgaria on vacation and to look for a violin in fall 2022. She's in Sofia so we spent quite a bit of time together. We mainly chat on ******** and do video calls via ********.
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Yes, women want things that other women want or have. They have the mindset of a child. Look at that fukn Stanley thermos as a prime example of their behavior. They treat men the same way.
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Miscers say this but when im honest with potential GF’s about my sexual past they say they are disgusted by the amount of sloots i smashed.

If you are attractive, outgoing, good physique, charisma, tall, on tren getting alot of sloots is a GIVEN.

Being honest about it has been nothing but negative for me.
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Yes, of course. Have you noticed that there's a reciprocal feedback cycle with both succeeding and failing with women? When you are getting women, they just keep coming and coming and coming. When you're an incel, it becomes progressively more difficult to break that cycle, too.


It's simple economics and evolutionary psychology. This is where you can really, really turn the tables on sloots since they operate according to these economical and evolutionary principles. Their behaviour can be anticipated and manipulated to your ends.

This is the greatest realization and weapon a guy can have, brahs. Always remember this:You're more intelligent than sloots.
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Originally Posted By 4everalone⏩
Miscers say this but when im honest with potential GF’s about my sexual past they say they are disgusted by the amount of sloots i smashed.

If you are attractive, outgoing, good physique, charisma, tall, on tren getting alot of sloots is a GIVEN.

Being honest about it has been nothing but negative for me.
Exactly.. I'm pretty positive it's cause they think of the emotional manipulation. Not the sex itself
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Of course. Women are every bit as competitive as they accuse us men of being. They all want to be the alpha female of the group or at the very least ahead of whoever they see as beneath them. Just as they want to be the woman all the guys are after they want the guy all the other women are after. It's especially true if the ones pursuing you are hotter than them. They see it as a status thing and feel that if they can get with you, it would elevate them over the other women around them. It's why you often hear about how so many women are in a hurry to get married and have kids before all the other women in their circle.
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Yes. It's standard human psychology.



Imagine walking through a fruit market. You see this woman walk by to a box of apples, she picks two up and puts them in the bag. She picks up the third, examines it, and puts it back.

You're less likely to pick that third apple. Evolution means you just used her thinking to help you make a decision.

Say you're in a room with 20 people looking at a stage. All the sudden, 10 people look back towards the back of the room. You'll probably look back also, their interest influenced you to think something is there. We're herd animals and easily influenced. A woman with you means she's vetted you, you're a suitable partner, so more attractive to her.
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