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post 1696436663 01-15-2024, 04:09 PM
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If you LDAR

It is on you.

"Muh society tho" - lol.
post 1696436683 01-15-2024, 04:09 PM
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Misc, fap, tv
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post 1696436813 01-15-2024, 04:11 PM
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thanks dad
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post 1696436933 01-15-2024, 04:13 PM
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LDAR is best lifestyle.

Brb no need to make effort planning dates and paying for dinner or getting rejected without even getting laid
Brb stay at home and game all day and save money from going out to bars and clubs
Brb never get disappointed by things not going your way because always have no expectations and just stay home all day
Brb brb
post 1696438453 01-15-2024, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted By resoog
thanks dad
Join Date: 2007.

Pretty sure you're almost as old as I am.

But are you as successful? Hrm.
post 1696438793 01-15-2024, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts
Join Date: 2007.

Pretty sure you're almost as old as I am.

But are you as successful? Hrm.
nah bro. most of us joined when we were teenagers.

you join as a 40 year old man
post 1696438883 01-15-2024, 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted By TCmaxxing
LDAR is best lifestyle.

Brb no need to make effort planning dates and paying for dinner or getting rejected without even getting laid
Brb stay at home and game all day and save money from going out to bars and clubs
Brb never get disappointed by things not going your way because always have no expectations and just stay home all day
Brb brb
What do you do with all that saved money and free time? "Invest it"? Don't think I've seen you in the moneymaxxing crew yet.
post 1696439043 01-15-2024, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts
What do you do with all that saved money and free time? "Invest it"? Don't think I've seen you in the moneymaxxing crew yet.
I pay over 4k for rent srs
post 1696439193 01-15-2024, 04:59 PM
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People respond to the incentives that are put in front of them

Not everyone is in the top tail of the distribution

If you are a below average underachiever in a welfare state, LDAR is the rational choice.

LDAR might relate to career (being a NEET) property ownership (living with parents or rentcucking) or relationships (being an incel)

You may have more choices available to you but not everyone does

Inb4 “cope” this and “cope” that
post 1696441473 01-15-2024, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
People respond to the incentives that are put in front of them

Not everyone is in the top tail of the distribution

If you are a below average underachiever in a welfare state, LDAR is the rational choice.

LDAR might relate to career (being a NEET) property ownership (living with parents or rentcucking) or relationships (being an incel)

You may have more choices available to you but not everyone does

Inb4 “cope” this and “cope” that
Not everyone responds to incentives put in front of them: e.g., those that fail out of college despite a free ride.

Not everyone who is an underachiever should LDAR in the welfare state, since that is a bottom of the barrel choice in life.

LDAR is never a "rational choice". It is the result of deeply traumatized folks who should read The Body Keeps the Score, and seek professional help. That alone would help dozens of the remaining regular posters on this forum.
post 1696441683 01-15-2024, 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts
Join Date: 2007.

Pretty sure you're almost as old as I am.

But are you as successful? Hrm.
i don't compare myself to you. anyways we both know you secretly feel guilty about the homelessness around you and ur coping for not donating 10% of ur income
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post 1696441813 01-15-2024, 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
People respond to the incentives that are put in front of them

Not everyone is in the top tail of the distribution

If you are a below average underachiever in a welfare state, LDAR is the rational choice.

LDAR might relate to career (being a NEET) property ownership (living with parents or rentcucking) or relationships (being an incel)

You may have more choices available to you but not everyone does

Inb4 “cope” this and “cope” that
post 1696444333 01-15-2024, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted By resoog
i don't compare myself to you. anyways we both know you secretly feel guilty about the homelessness around you and ur coping for not donating 10% of ur income
I know folks who donate more to charitable causes per year than you earn.

Should they feel guilty? Or should you, for pissing away your potential - where you could have made the world a better place if you tried harder?
post 1696467503 01-16-2024, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Onlinedatingcel
Weeding yourself out of the genetic pool. Guess that's the greatest contribution you'll achieve in your life.

Kudos.
post 1696467793 01-16-2024, 08:54 AM
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No matter what you do, it is on you


Rotting, achievements…..doesn’t matter.

It is on the individual.

So why make a thread about it as if you care what they do?

So we acknowledge it is on the individual, but we always give our opinion as if it is our concern…..


I have learned minding my own business makes my life better. I don’t do it for anyone else. I recommend doing the same.




Pro tip, all we have to do is exist. There is literally no reason to drain yourself reaching goals that literally serve no purpose.


That collective mindset is why we are all insane doing things all day we hate doing.


Turn off the noise and just exist.
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PS: Don't eat poop, just don't let the idea of it stop you from living life to its fullest.
post 1696478483 01-16-2024, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
No matter what you do, it is on you


Rotting, achievements…..doesn’t matter.

It is on the individual.

So why make a thread about it as if you care what they do?

So we acknowledge it is on the individual, but we always give our opinion as if it is our concern…..


I have learned minding my own business makes my life better. I don’t do it for anyone else. I recommend doing the same.




Pro tip, all we have to do is exist. There is literally no reason to drain yourself reaching goals that literally serve no purpose.


That collective mindset is why we are all insane doing things all day we hate doing.


Turn off the noise and just exist.
Why conflate "care" here? In fact, by your own philosophy, you shouldn't have posted in the thread at all.
post 1696478603 01-16-2024, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
No matter what you do, it is on you


Rotting, achievements…..doesn’t matter.

It is on the individual.

So why make a thread about it as if you care what they do?

So we acknowledge it is on the individual, but we always give our opinion as if it is our concern…..


I have learned minding my own business makes my life better. I don’t do it for anyone else. I recommend doing the same.




Pro tip, all we have to do is exist. There is literally no reason to drain yourself reaching goals that literally serve no purpose.


That collective mindset is why we are all insane doing things all day we hate doing.


Turn off the noise and just exist.
OP is a 45 year old man who loves to put others down lol.

says enough about who he is
post 1696478643 01-16-2024, 12:24 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts
Pretty sure you're almost as old as I am.

But are you as successful? Hrm.
always trying one up randoms on the internet.

"bUt aRe YoU aS SuCcEsSfuL??? hMmMmM????" lmao

you've never proven that you are successful. you just always love to talk about it though without helping others get there.
post 1696478873 01-16-2024, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted By TCmaxxing
LDAR is best lifestyle.

Brb no need to make effort planning dates and paying for dinner or getting rejected without even getting laid
Brb stay at home and game all day and save money from going out to bars and clubs
Brb never get disappointed by things not going your way because always have no expectations and just stay home all day
Brb brb
Agreed. Srs. No drama, life is enjoyable on my terms/not having to “make plans” w/flakes. Just doing my thing.
post 1696478953 01-16-2024, 12:35 PM
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LDAR used to be a niche acronym for Leak Detection and Repair. I hate how it’s been nuked for this silly expression. Can’t find a goddamn LDAR industry trace on Google b/c it’s filled with memes.
post 1696480023 01-16-2024, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted By NMS3
Agreed. Srs. No drama, life is enjoyable on my terms/not having to “make plans” w/flakes. Just doing my thing.
Hey now, flakes/folks who bail at the last second are universally lame.

Pruning those folks out of your social network is GOATed.
post 1696480493 01-16-2024, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts
I know folks who donate more to charitable causes per year than you earn.

Should they feel guilty? Or should you, for pissing away your potential - where you could have made the world a better place if you tried harder?
i think you should volunteer at the soup kitchen man
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post 1696481023 01-16-2024, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts
Hey now, flakes/folks who bail at the last second are universally lame.

Pruning those folks out of your social network is GOATed.
True that. I didn’t get my message across correctly. Was trying to emphasize that it’s more relaxing to keep to myself and do my own thing, rather than putting in the work and effort in maintaining relationships. It seems more of a hassle nowadays than it does genuine.
post 1696497273 01-16-2024, 07:27 PM
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Originally Posted By resoog
i think you should volunteer at the soup kitchen man
Is that post the most productive you have been this week? Be honest now.
Originally Posted By NMS3
True that. I didn’t get my message across correctly. Was trying to emphasize that it’s more relaxing to keep to myself and do my own thing, rather than putting in the work and effort in maintaining relationships. It seems more of a hassle nowadays than it does genuine.
Before going on my current career path I took a break, and a friend of mine in Geneva asked me if I wanted to come over for a while. His father is a 'dynasty' type - wife painting serenely in the winter garden, a cook preparing Sunday brunch, speedboats on Lake Geneva, that kind of thing.

We had a drink in the afternoon and he asked me about my life and so on. I was curious about his - I thought that he had 'made it' (I was young). I asked him how many friends he made along the way and his reply was, no joke: less than the fingers on this hand. 38 year career at that point.

100% ded fkn srs.
post 1696497723 01-16-2024, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts
Before going on my current career path I took a break, and a friend of mine in Geneva asked me if I wanted to come over for a while. His father is a 'dynasty' type - wife painting serenely in the winter garden, a cook preparing Sunday brunch, speedboats on Lake Geneva, that kind of thing.

We had a drink in the afternoon and he asked me about my life and so on. I was curious about his - I thought that he had 'made it' (I was young). I asked him how many friends he made along the way and his reply was, no joke: less than the fingers on this hand. 38 year career at that point.

100% ded fkn srs.
that's insane. at the same time, also not shocking! oh well, it is what it is. I am a firm believer that we meet the right people we need to meet along the way. I'm a big fan of the "find your crowd" idea, and not every relationship will always "work out" I guess
post 1696497773 01-16-2024, 07:39 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts
Is that post the most productive you have been this week? Be honest now.
you really think it stands out as productive?
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post 1696549673 01-17-2024, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted By NMS3
that's insane. at the same time, also not shocking! oh well, it is what it is. I am a firm believer that we meet the right people we need to meet along the way. I'm a big fan of the "find your crowd" idea, and not every relationship will always "work out" I guess
Not every relationship works out, true. Those that do make the pursuit worthwhile though.
post 1696550253 01-17-2024, 10:04 PM
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Originally Posted By NMS3
I am a firm believer that we meet the right people we need to meet along the way.
uhhh definitely does not always work out that way in reality.

most people probably dont.

for me, my entire friend group got jealous and wanted part ownership in the business i was starting. they couldn't handle the thought of me leveling up like that or something.

literally all my closest friends suddenly became my competitors and dropped me as a friend srs.

making new friends at 30 years old is a weird thing. its like starting over from scratch and no one really knows who you are...
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