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post 1696647053 01-19-2024, 08:54 PM
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I really need advice about choosing between two women

So to make a long story as short as possible, I began talking to a Mexican-American girl who is 29 (I’m 27) She takes care of her sick mother, she is a virgin (saving for marriage) and she has the purest heart out of any female I’ve spoken to. Very traditional. Her innocence almost
makes me feel guilty. She lives in a different state than me but she was planning on visiting me in a few months and after that make the permanent move to NY to be with me.

I made sure to tell her until that point I am not considering us an item because I need to see how we vibe in person..a downside about this girl is she is very average looking and she’s 4’11 and petite and I don’t like short women. I’m not superficial but it’s important I am attracted if I am gonna be with her forever.

Meanwhile I met an Algerian woman who is 34, ex-Muslim and might possibly be the hottest woman I’ve ever seen. She looks like Winona Ryder and Angelina Jolie combined. She was gonna go to Canada to live with her brother, but we began talking, video calling, etc and she said she would come to me in NY. Issue with her is she is kinda damaged, she’s older, she seems a little crazy (do to an abusive relationship with her ex husband) and she’s extremely possessive (constantly says I’m hers, she is mine, made my pic her phone wallpaper etc) She doesn’t have the purity of heart or wholesomeness of the Mexican girl nor is she a virgin but she is much more attractive and I seem to like her better, I feel something for her. But I feel our chances of lasting is much slimmer.

Both women are obsessed with me and want marriage and kids with me..what do I do and can someone tell me what I can say to the one I don’t pick in a way that doesn’t make me look like a monster.
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post 1696647233 01-19-2024, 08:58 PM
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Way too much detail to be true.
post 1696647353 01-19-2024, 09:01 PM
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These women are obviously mentally ill if they want children and marriage with you. Go no contact with both
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post 1696647363 01-19-2024, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By radrd⏩
Way too much detail to be true.
It is true, my family says the Mexican girl is clearly the right choice but I can help if I don’t find myself super attracted to her but I feel I manipulated her like a POS and I know it’s not logical to pick someone because she looks attractive and her damaged personality turns me on. Like I am a hypocrite for saying I want a certain type of woman and yet I find women of a different type more appealing.

I need advice from some of the older miscers especially. Maybe people who have been in a similar pickle before.
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post 1696647433 01-19-2024, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By strenffgains⏩
These women are obviously mentally ill if they want children and marriage with you. Go no contact with both
Stfu Kocksucker.
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post 1696647553 01-19-2024, 09:06 PM
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Gonna need pics, but I will say go for the sexier chick.
post 1696647573 01-19-2024, 09:06 PM
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
Stfu Kocksucker.
Dude if you get your heart broken or knock up an insane Algerian remember misc said no contact

Also anabolecter is correct, we need pics
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post 1696647583 01-19-2024, 09:06 PM
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Didn't read. Try men.
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Originally Posted By radrd⏩
Way too much detail to be true.
Maybe. What is weird is that apparently the uber sweet Mexican girl will just leave her mother to go be with OP.

Anyways OP. The answer is, do you want looks for a few years and a guarantee of mental illness for life. Or do you want a good woman who will be loyal and respectful but won't do weird shyt with you.
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post 1696647843 01-19-2024, 09:14 PM
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Originally Posted By strenffgains⏩
Dude if you get your heart broken or knock up an insane Algerian remember misc said no contact

Also anabolecter is correct, we need pics
I won’t get heartbroken but I don’t want to break the heart of either of these women. I feel like the Algerian can handle it but the Mexican would be crushed. However one factor to add is the Mexican is so innocent that I feel I have to lower my level of animalisticness from a 10 to a 3 and even that seems to be a big difference compared to her and when I try to push her towards more filthy things I feel like I’m being manipulative and I become guilty.

And I’m not posting pics.
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post 1696647863 01-19-2024, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Maybe. What is weird is that apparently the uber sweet Mexican girl will just leave her mother to go be with OP.

Anyways OP. The answer is, do you want looks for a few years and a guarantee of mental illness for life. Or do you want a good woman who will be loyal and respectful but won't do weird shyt with you.
The Mexican girl lives with her brother and he would take care of the mom, she assured me everything would be in order as that was a concern of mine. Her mother wants her to go find the man she will marry, her mom has epileptic seizures.
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post 1696647893 01-19-2024, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
I won’t get heartbroken but I don’t want to break the heart of either of these women. I feel like the Algerian can handle it but the Mexican would be crushed. However one factor to add is the Mexican is so innocent that I feel I have to lower my level of animalisticness from a 10 to a 3 and even that seems to be a big difference compared to her and when I try to push her towards more filthy things I feel like I’m being manipulative and I become guilty.

And I’m not posting pics.
I called it. Damn I'm good.
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post 1696647903 01-19-2024, 09:17 PM
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sounds like you will never be happy with either choice. Enjoy your misery
post 1696647913 01-19-2024, 09:18 PM
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Nice girl probably make you happier in the long run.

Hot girl probably make you happier in the short run.
post 1696647943 01-19-2024, 09:20 PM
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Originally Posted By bicmane123⏩
Nice girl probably make you happier in the long run.

Hot girl probably make you happier in the short run.
I think the fact the Algerian was divorced before is a huge red flag. She said her husband basically didn’t let her leave the house and made her wear a hijab. It basically caused a feminist type reaction in her when she divorced.
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post 1696648123 01-19-2024, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
I think the fact the Algerian was divorced before is a huge red flag. She said her husband basically didn’t let her leave the house and made her wear a hijab. It basically caused a feminist type reaction in her when she divorced.
ok definitely go with the other one lol srs

but maybe smash this one first a few times
post 1696648343 01-19-2024, 09:31 PM
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Originally Posted By bicmane123⏩
ok definitely go with the other one lol srs

but maybe smash this one first a few times
The Algerian one isn’t gonna come to me just for sex. She’s not a slot she just has women empowerment mentality.
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post 1696648453 01-19-2024, 09:34 PM
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I like the Mexican but your kids are gonna be short with here 4’11 frame
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Originally Posted By Brommando⏩
I like the Mexican but your kids are gonna be short with here 4’11 frame
That’s another factor, I’m 5’7.5 at night with no shoes on. She is 4’11 I don’t want a son even shorter than myself..I’m taller than her brothers also so it seems there is no tall gene in her family. Also she is mixed race and I don’t really like that, the Algerian i know isn’t European but she is still fully Caucasoid so my kids will 100% look like me.
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How did you meet the Algerian girl if she doesn't live in NY?
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah⏩
How did you meet the Algerian girl if she doesn't live in NY?
Social media.
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
That’s another factor, I’m 5’7.5 at night with no shoes on. She is 4’11 I don’t want a son even shorter than myself..I’m taller than her brothers also so it seems there is no tall gene in her family. Also she is mixed race and I don’t really like that, the Algerian i know isn’t European but she is still fully Caucasoid so my kids will 100% look like me.
You should take a dna test. Also Algiers is in Africa. If you think she isn't mixed, well good luck with that.
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You’re 27…both women are too old for you. Look for 20-23 years old. 100% srs
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
You should take a dna test. Also Algiers is in Africa. If you think she isn't mixed, well good luck with that.
I’ve taken 5 DNA tests, I’m 99-100% European. I’m half Sicilian and half British Isles Mix.

She’s a Berber, she isn’t mixed.
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So much for all the white nationalist and white genocide posts from you, both girls nonwhite. Smh at our resident miscers.
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You're a brown non white manlet, since you're a north african yourself (sicilian browncel) you should get with the algerian since you have more in common with her since you have the same ancestors. You're probably a 4 yourself since your only choices are a divorced old sloot or an autistic virgin womanlet.

Go fuk yourslef either way you piece of chit. Try men instead you fuken p.ha.gg.ot
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go fuk yourself you little worm piece of chit choke on a dick you maggot CUCK
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Originally Posted By strenffgains⏩
These women are obviously mentally ill if they want children and marriage with you. Go no contact with both
Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
Stfu Kocksucker.
No seriously it sounds like you met these women online and
-they are already in love with and want family + kids + marriage
-You are already making wedding plans

I mean wtf
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My advice is to fist yourself.
Your schtick sucks and it screams insecurity.
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