But if you're a girl it's empowering and admirable


Seriously if you lift and talk about it as a man people just label you as a douchebag. It's even worse if you actually look like you lift too. You have to be humble and never talk about it. I only engage in lifting conversations when other people bring it up. You cannot be the one to bring it up if you look like you lift otherwise people just assume you're a self-absorbed ass hold.

But for a woman it's totally ok, and in fact celebrated, to have them flaunt how they went to gym to do hip thrusts and squats for 20 minutes 4 days a week before spending another 20 minutes taking gym selfies for social media and then bounce.


Like.... why the f*ck are men always looked down upon for everything they do in our world today?

Never talk about the gym unless someone brings it up crew

It’s like an unwritten law

It’s a double standard tbh. With men we look narcissistic and meathead’ish, with women they are seen as healthy and fit

Never talk about the gym to non-lifters. And if anyone makes any comments just tell them you don't workout. You just play a few games of basketball in the park per week and do a few sets of pushups in the morning to get your blood flowing.

It's not just men. As a woman who has been lifting for over 30 years people think I'm weird for lifting and loving it.

This is bitter incel thought...
Why be so sensitive and insecure about something that makes you better than the average person?
I enjoy people judging me because I lift, or look like a douche, because I have a better college degree and better job than most people
Chicks get judged for going to the gym too, brb you look like a dude and its not attractive, brb why do you dress like a total sloot at the gym

in on miscs daily "I wish I was a woman' thread.