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» Do you view late 20s incels and late 30s unmarried,childless men as equally pathetic?

View Poll Results: What do you think?

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No, the incel is more pathetic
12 66%
No, the unmarried, childless 30 year old is more pathetic
2 11%
Yes
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post 1696785793 01-22-2024, 02:25 PM
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Do you view late 20s incels and late 30s unmarried,childless men as equally pathetic?

It is a tough one for me, but I would say the incel is slightly more pathetic. What do you think?
post 1696785933 01-22-2024, 02:28 PM
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Late 30s more pathetique ofc
post 1696786423 01-22-2024, 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka
Late 30s more pathetique ofc
The 30 year old could be in a serious relationship but just have other priorities than family/marriage... Same could be said for the 20 year old too of course, but in your 20s you should make relationships a priority.
post 1696786773 01-22-2024, 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted By johnsorrow
The 30 year old could be in a serious relationship but just have other priorities than family/marriage... Same could be said for the 20 year old too of course, but in your 20s you should make relationships a priority.
Incels by their very definition are involuntarily celibate. There are some bachelors well into their 30's and beyond by choice. You can make the argument that it's pathetic but at least it's by choice.. Incels seem more hopeless so I guess that seems like the worse option.
post 1696786853 01-22-2024, 02:45 PM
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Ya'll need to gain some fkin balls and stop worrying what others think of you

That's probably why you're an incel in the first place..

Change ur mindset and your life will change for the better brah
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post 1696786933 01-22-2024, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted By johnsorrow
The 30 year old could be in a serious relationship but just have other priorities than family/marriage... Same could be said for the 20 year old too of course, but in your 20s you should make relationships a priority.
No. The world doesn’t see them that way.
post 1696786993 01-22-2024, 02:47 PM
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The self proclaimed incel is the lowest form of life no matter how you slice it.
Ack...Ack
post 1696787013 01-22-2024, 02:48 PM
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The late 20s incel is more pathetic and it’s not even close. Unmarried childless 30 y/o could be that way for many valid reasons
post 1696787033 01-22-2024, 02:48 PM
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At least the incel is trying, can't knock them for that. The childless 30 year old is more of a wildcard. Could be a rotter or a mogger.
post 1696787063 01-22-2024, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted By baroni01
Incels by their very definition are involuntarily celibate. There are some bachelors well into their 30's and beyond by choice. You can make the argument that it's pathetic but at least it's by choice.. Incels seem more hopeless so I guess that seems like the worse option.
You make a good point. It only becomes pathetic for the incel if they actually have a choice, on the other hand if it is true what they are claiming, that they do not have a choice, then it is not pathetic (but sad).
post 1696787133 01-22-2024, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz
The late 20s incel is more pathetic and it’s not even close. Unmarried childless 30 y/o could be that way for many valid reasons
Yes this seems to be the common thought. No argument so far would suggest otherwise.
post 1696787223 01-22-2024, 02:51 PM
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Incels, since they tend to go on shooting sprees.
post 1696788183 01-22-2024, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Onlinedatingcel
At least the incel is trying, can't knock them for that. The childless 30 year old is more of a wildcard. Could be a rotter or a mogger.
It sure sounds like many of them are not really trying though? Many stuck in paralysis by analysis...
post 1696789393 01-22-2024, 03:30 PM
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I am pushing 50 and not married or have kids. You have to be ****ing delusional to have this as a goal. Even the one couple I knew as the perfect couple, "well at least they are still together", she separated from him last month and is now ****ing Tinder guys.

I play the cards as they were dealt and not as I wish they were. Marriage and kids would be great if it was 1949. In 2024? You are a just a ****ing sucker.
post 1696791363 01-22-2024, 04:12 PM
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there is a big difference between single 20-30 year olds and incels
post 1696791553 01-22-2024, 04:18 PM
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No not if they can get layed then they're awesome
post 1696791913 01-22-2024, 04:27 PM
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Depends how much money they have srs
post 1696801123 01-22-2024, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted By johnsorrow
It sure sounds like many of them are not really trying though? Many stuck in paralysis by analysis...
A few of them are like that, those are the rotters.
post 1696801423 01-22-2024, 07:55 PM
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I'm 40. My closest 4 friends I've known since college got married right out of college. Every single one of the wives gained massive weight after marrying and then especially after having kids. They married them because they were very attractive in their early 20's. They all tell me how unhappy they are in their marriage. I'll take being a childless incel any day over being married to some whale and having kids (never had a desire to have them)
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post 1696801723 01-22-2024, 07:59 PM
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Incels and simps are the two most pathetic type of men

A combination of the two is the height of futility for a male
See Shakebrah's sig
post 1696802823 01-22-2024, 08:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Pats2022SBwin
I'm 40. My closest 4 friends I've known since college got married right out of college. Every single one of the wives gained massive weight after marrying and then especially after having kids. They married them because they were very attractive in their early 20's. They all tell me how unhappy they are in their marriage. I'll take being a childless incel any day over being married to some whale and having kids (never had a desire to have them)
Brutal
post 1696803013 01-22-2024, 08:33 PM
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Op's dad shops at Macy's fuking *******.
post 1696803163 01-22-2024, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted By oldgrump
I am pushing 50 and not married or have kids. You have to be ****ing delusional to have this as a goal. Even the one couple I knew as the perfect couple, "well at least they are still together", she separated from him last month and is now ****ing Tinder guys.

I play the cards as they were dealt and not as I wish they were. Marriage and kids would be great if it was 1949. In 2024? You are a just a ****ing sucker.
gigabased gigapost gigamoggmaxxed the fuk out nig.ga
post 1696803233 01-22-2024, 08:37 PM
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I view Opie as pathetic if that helps
post 1696803283 01-22-2024, 08:38 PM
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I think its normal if you've done well in your 30's and actually have alot to lose to be ultra discerning on someone you're vetting for a marriage/children. You can ruin your life, if you're a 20 y/o incel you never had anthing to risk.
Live & Direct from rural Iowa- GBR
post 1696804053 01-22-2024, 08:57 PM
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Again, incel is just another woke shaming tactic. Nobody really cares about how much sex you are having, most people don't even care about getting sex. Grow up op
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