Asked me to either join as a free agent or join a team already built. Picked a team that had a roster with a lot of girls names on it. Hope they're not fat or johnny will be disgusted.

Was probably supposed to pick the free agent option but thought f*ck it. Hoping it's not a team where they all know each other or gonna be awkward.

100% chance this will be the case

It might be currently. Roster only had like 8 people on it. Need to have 15 total to create a team so would have to be adding more one way or another. Just hoping they didn't know more people that haven't bothered to sign up yet then yeah could be awkward lol

I'm bailing on the season if this is the case though haha

You’re not going to meet a girl to date by joining a co-ed kickball (or any sports) team.

I’ve already been over this.

You’re only doing this to try meet girls (obviously, hence picking my a team with girls on their list).

It is not gonna work. Girls especially hate that guys do this (unless Chad of course).

There’s 99% chance that everyone on the team already knows each other as friends that have played for years or went to school together or met at work and formed the team.

Majority of those girls already have boyfriends or husbands most likely. Even if they are single and on the slight chance they’re open to random kickball strangers to date, only really good looking kickball strangers will be an option.

Also if there are random single girls on the team. They’ll easily either make friends with the others quickly or they’ll show up maybe like once a month to play and go home due to being busy with work and social lives. Then most likely after showing up once every month for a few months they’ll eventually stop playing and maybe if the team is lucky they’ll get a text saying they’re busy with work to play.

I get what you’re trying to do, I know you probably read on a thread or another forum or reddit that co-ed sports and activities is a good way to meet girls to date.

But it’s not going to work. Take a hike to the zoo, you can meet girls there (like every miscer and redditor does) and yes I already know lots of random miscers will come in here and make up fake fairy tale stories about how they joined a co-ed softball team or tennis club and banged some hot sloot on the pitchers mound with their massive cawk while everyone watched…zzzz don’t care don’t write to me write to Penthouse Forum.

I'm jacked and athletic at least so they might welcome me on the team. Also not trying to necessarily date a girl on the team. The main goal is to make friends but I don't want a bunch of other male incel friends who have no social circle. Better off trying to wedge my way into an already formed group of male/female mix of friends. Then can branch from there and hopefully find cute girls to date in a more normal/acceptable dating environment. You're right, no one is looking for a date playing kickball. It's a two step process.

I'm gonna be one of the better players on whatever team I'm on. Even if the social part being an outsider is awkward and maybe I don't get included I'll still be a net positive on the results for whatever team I join.

Kickball is goat. Sounds like a ton of fun!

op showing up

There's a world where this works. But OPs isn't one of them. Him saying he specifically found a team with a bunch of girls indicates that. It's like that guy showing up to a yoga class. Girls will know if you're there to do yoga or to look at their ass.