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Forum ยป Life makes so much more sense when you quit trying to be player and get a good girl
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post 1698021043 02-18-2024, 08:27 AM
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Life makes so much more sense when you quit trying to be player and get a good girl

- dating main girl since September
- really feeling her...she's asian 5'2 about 110 pounds ..smart , great business women , owns her own house
- kind of want to retire from the dating game and go all in ...marriage and kids

- was fuking around with some other side girls but on top on work and her...it just sucks all your remaining time and energy ...and not to mention none of the side girls even came close to the energy and respect I get from her.


Why do u think dudes like Justin Bieber get married ?

Dating all these mediocre randoms get old and stressful after awhile and you gotta recognize a good girl when you get one

Thoughts ?
post 1698022233 02-18-2024, 08:58 AM
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post 1698022453 02-18-2024, 09:02 AM
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agreed but how do i ever find one like that?

forever alone
post 1698022553 02-18-2024, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted By WasThaBestMan⏩
agreed but how do i ever find one like that?

forever alone
I got lucky dude

Had to go thru a whole lot of bs to get here

Juggling all these side girls just gets too stressful and time consuming

Especially when you spend about half the nights together with main girl

Good luck
post 1698022673 02-18-2024, 09:07 AM
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pictures?

also when you give up your side sloots, she is going to sense that your sexual market value dropped and she ll start being a fukin B!TCH. Hold out for now, make her beg for you.
IF YOU DONT SQUAT, YOU AINT SQUAT
post 1698023003 02-18-2024, 09:14 AM
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give it 5 years ....and she's gonna fck you over if you put a ring on it
post 1698023013 02-18-2024, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
pictures?

also when you give up your side sloots, she is going to sense that your sexual market value dropped and she ll start being a fukin B!TCH. Hold out for now, make her beg for you.
I can't deal with these side girls anymore bro

Last time one came over at 7 pm ...stayed in my crib the next day until like 2-3 pm

Unless the girl was outstanding or something


My point is I'm sick of wasting my time and energy on them just to smash when I ain't really feeling them on a personal lvl like I do my main girl ..which is rare
post 1698023093 02-18-2024, 09:16 AM
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Originally Posted By thatdude109⏩
I can't deal with these side girls anymore bro

Last time one came over at 7 pm ...stayed in my crib the next day until like 2-3 pm

Unless the girl was outstanding or something


My point is I'm sick of wasting my time and energy on them just to smash when I ain't really feeling them on a personal lvl like I do my main girl ..which is rare
who cares, just be more assertive before she comes. Let he know you need to wake up early and kick her arse out.

Pics of asian girl
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post 1698023273 02-18-2024, 09:21 AM
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Problem usually ends up when you find one that you feel is above your level she feels the same way.
post 1698023533 02-18-2024, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted By baldbrah⏩
Problem usually ends up when you find one that you feel is above your level she feels the same way.
Exactly

When I hang with her. .there's no lingering feeling of " I could be doing better right now "

Like I feel completely fairly matched up with her
post 1698023583 02-18-2024, 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
who cares, just be more assertive before she comes. Let he know you need to wake up early and kick her arse out.

Pics of asian girl
Yeah I hear you

And then that side girls thinks your legit dating now and tries to book plans for like 2 days later lol

On phone at work rn will upload pics in another thread later
post 1698024163 02-18-2024, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie⏩
pictures?

also when you give up your side sloots, she is going to sense that your sexual market value dropped and she ll start being a fukin B!TCH. Hold out for now, make her beg for you.
this. You get comfortable with a chick and her biological mechanisms alert her that she is your only option, and all of the sudden her desire for you drops.

You find nice chick
you slowly let go of side chicks since you really enjoy main chick
main chick is no longer competing for you
main chick loses interest
"we cannot be more sensitive to pleasure without being more sensitive to pain"
-Alan Watts
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post 1698024203 02-18-2024, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By thatdude109⏩
- dating main girl since September
- really feeling her...she's asian 5'2 about 110 pounds ..smart , great business women , owns her own house
Inb4 sex worker and stove-top fried purse posts.
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post 1698024423 02-18-2024, 10:01 AM
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True, chasing sloots will only lead to heartbreak. Men don't get a lot of options anyways so imma be happy with who I have.
post 1698024453 02-18-2024, 10:02 AM
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