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03-08-2024, 01:56 PM
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Should I flake on my date tonight? (Half latina half Asian)

Been talking to this girl through text for a few days. We set up a date for tonight she’s driving an hour to see me (me driving 20 min her 1 hour). However I feel pretty apathetic about it right now and also do not want to spend the money lmao.

5’2” like 120LBS. She has a really pretty face and sexy legs/feet which I find hnnng. Should I flake? I hate flaking srs getting flaked on is one of my biggest peeves which is why I never do but idk feel like fapping and staying home and sticking to my diet might be equal fun.




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03-08-2024, 02:05 PM
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03-08-2024, 02:05 PM
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Been talking to this girl through text for a few days. We set up a date for tonight she’s driving an hour to see me (me driving 20 min her 1 hour). However I feel pretty apathetic about it right now and also do not want to spend the money lmao.

5’2” like 120LBS. She has a really pretty face and sexy legs/feet which I find hnnng. Should I flake? I hate flaking srs getting flaked on is one of my biggest peeves which is why I never do but idk feel like fapping and staying home and sticking to my diet might be equal fun.




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03-08-2024, 02:09 PM
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She looks very…artificial and high maintenance. I'm not impressed.
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03-08-2024, 02:09 PM
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5'2? Yeah I'd stay home too
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03-08-2024, 02:13 PM
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1hr drive?

is this to fk or what
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03-08-2024, 02:16 PM
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no thanks jack
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03-08-2024, 02:18 PM
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small tits and long flat butt

no thanks jack
she could drive the extra 20mins and watch the boxing if she bring snacks
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03-08-2024, 02:20 PM
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She's hot . If it's the money just try to cheap out or go casual
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03-08-2024, 02:21 PM
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What’s your financial situation? Do you want to just smash or see her again?
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03-08-2024, 02:23 PM
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Troll thread. Go suck on your boyfriends penis
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03-08-2024, 02:23 PM
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think about all the misc incels and how lucky you are to have this opportunity
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03-08-2024, 02:28 PM
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What’s your financial situation? Do you want to just smash or see her again?
This OP. We need more financial info to help you.

Any high interest credit card debt you could pay off first? Student loans? What's your employers 401k match %?

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03-08-2024, 02:30 PM
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You could, idk, be an adult and tell her you're not gonna make it.
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03-08-2024, 02:31 PM
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Go on the date and report back.
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03-08-2024, 02:33 PM
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This OP. We need more financial info to help you.

Any high interest credit card debt you could pay off first? Student loans? What's your employers 401k match %?

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03-08-2024, 02:34 PM
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Op has mood swings, after someone makes a 1 hour drive to see him.
Is he serious?
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03-08-2024, 02:34 PM
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Latina? She'll look like a half Asian oompa loompa by age 30, maaaaybe age 35 if you're really lucky. At 5'2", she has virtually zero shot at beating the odds

You can already see the early signs of it in her arms and waist in those pics. I'd pass



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You could, idk, be an adult and tell her you're not gonna make it.

Meh. Sloots ghost guys with absolutely zero remorse or bad feelings about it all the time. Ghosting is part of the game
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03-08-2024, 02:36 PM
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You could, idk, be an adult and tell her you're not gonna make it.
This.

Also wouldn't you have a better chance at rescheduling (assuming you were genuinely interested at all) if you decide to communicate? Seems more like common sense than dating experience is required to come to such a conclusion.
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03-08-2024, 02:43 PM
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Meh. Sloots ghost guys with absolutely zero remorse or bad feelings about it all the time. Ghosting is part of the game
Ghosting is weak and spineless. Men are supposed to have integrity, thats what separates men from women
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This.

Also wouldn't you have a better chance at rescheduling (assuming you were genuinely interested at all) if you decide to communicate? Seems more like common sense than dating experience is required to come to such a conclusion.
I definitely wouldn’t ghost that’s fuked up. We still have a lot of time I’d just call/text ahead saying I can’t make it. Def would try to reschedule but from what I’ve noticed at least recently is with the dating scene now, a lot of times if you cancel or or try and reschedule with a woman before you guys have a bit of rapport it’s pretty much over. 1 chance early on, it’s too fast paced
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03-08-2024, 02:56 PM
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Ghosting is weak and spineless. Men are supposed to have integrity, thats what separates men from women

Don't care. I've seen so much ghosting, I just don't give a chit. This chick wouldn't hesitate to ghost OP if she decided she got bored with him or found one thing she didn't like about him. The idea of showing them more respect than they would show you in the very early stages of meeting/dating is just silly.

I don't make the rules, brah. That's just dating in 2024. No sense in trying to be especially honorable about ghosting in a dating world that has absolutely zero of it.

Lastly, and most importantly, if he hasn't even met her yet, going NC on her doesn't count as ghosting. Cutting ties abruptly with someone you've never met IRL is far, far different than doing it to someone you've been seeing for months.
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03-08-2024, 02:59 PM
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Don't care. I've seen so much ghosting, I just don't give a chit. This chick wouldn't hesitate to ghost OP if she decided she got bored with him or found one thing she didn't like about him. The idea of showing them more respect than they would show you in the very early stages of meeting/dating is just silly.

I don't make the rules, brah. That's just dating in 2024. No sense in trying to be especially honorable about ghosting in a dating world that has absolutely zero of it.

Lastly, and most importantly, if he hasn't even met her yet, going NC on her doesn't count as ghosting. Cutting ties abruptly with someone you've never met IRL is far, far different than doing it to someone you've been seeing for months.
While I wouldn’t ghost this is also very true. No doubt this girl has ghosted tons of dudes without ever giving it a second thought. Chit I could even get ghosted tonight if something else for her comes up, and she would not hesitate to do it
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03-08-2024, 03:00 PM
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Latina? She'll look like a half Asian oompa loompa by age 30, maaaaybe age 35 if you're really lucky. At 5'2", she has virtually zero shot at beating the odds

You can already see the early signs of it in her arms and waist in those pics. I'd pass
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you must be low T without your injections to pass for no real good reason srs
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Don't care. I've seen so much ghosting, I just don't give a chit. This chick wouldn't hesitate to ghost OP if she decided she got bored with him or found one thing she didn't like about him. The idea of showing them more respect than they would show you in the very early stages of meeting/dating is just silly.

I don't make the rules, brah. That's just dating in 2024. No sense in trying to be especially honorable about ghosting in a dating world that has absolutely zero of it.

Lastly, and most importantly, if he hasn't even met her yet, going NC on her doesn't count as ghosting. Cutting ties abruptly with someone you've never met IRL is far, far different than doing it to someone you've been seeing for months.
You don't ghost after you already set up the date, that is an objectively chit thing to do, and it makes you a pos in dating and in any other context

Takes 2 seconds to send a text

If you want to ghost afterwards where you both aren't bound by any commitments, then yea fine go ahead
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03-08-2024, 03:06 PM
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i hate the charade lmao

whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy do i need to take you out and play pretend when 675 guys are messaging you and some whove undoubtedly banged you despite nothing and you pretending like they haven't

something sooo much sexier about a good girl finally opening her legs
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Too fat with little boobs, pass
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If you don't like people flaking on you then you shouldn't do it to someone else. If you decide to cancel make sure you do it in enough time that she doesn't waste time getting ready or driving there.
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