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post 1699011783 03-10-2024, 12:46 PM
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Married Misc Brahs (srs)

My fellow married misc brahs, how do you fight the urge to entertain young, beautiful women, that are obviously flirting with you. Especially if you’ve been married awhile and your life has become pretty monotonous. How do you do it? I feel like a terrible husband for even feeling the urge.
post 1699011863 03-10-2024, 12:49 PM
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not married so shouldn't be posting but will post anyways.

It's natural to feel the urge; it goes to show you haven't completely castrated yourself by getting married, which is good. The only bad comes when you act upon it. Let these homewreckers flirt with you, take in the boost in confidence, and go about your day. Get into the mindset that these women especially want to fuk up your relationship/marriage due to sexual marketplace competition, and nothing else.
post 1699012033 03-10-2024, 12:55 PM
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Don't do anything you wouldn't want her to do.

If you're okay with her being kind to a man, be kind to a woman

If you're okay with her having a conversation with a man. Have a conversation with a woman.

You're not dead to the world man. I'm fine stretching my flirting muscles when the time arises.
post 1699012063 03-10-2024, 12:56 PM
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It's all about intent.

You can look at a lamborghini and think "that's a great looking car, I bet it would be a nice ride" without ever having the intent of even taking it for a test drive, let alone buying it.

You can look at a woman and think "that's a great looking woman, I bet she would be a nice ride" without ever having the intent of even taking her for a test drive, let alone dating her.

If you had the intent, but didn't act on it due to fear or lack of opportunity, then your rmarriage is in trouble, even though you didn't cheat.
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post 1699012153 03-10-2024, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
not married so shouldn't be posting but will post anyways.

It's natural to feel the urge; it goes to show you haven't completely castrated yourself by getting married, which is good. The only bad comes when you act upon it. Let these homewreckers flirt with you, take in the boost in confidence, and go about your day. Get into the mindset that these women especially want to fuk up your relationship/marriage due to sexual marketplace competition, and nothing else.
Great advice.

Yeah feels badman missing on so much pussy but my love for my gf is greater.
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post 1699012733 03-10-2024, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
not married so shouldn't be posting but will post anyways.

It's natural to feel the urge; it goes to show you haven't completely castrated yourself by getting married, which is good. The only bad comes when you act upon it. Let these homewreckers flirt with you, take in the boost in confidence, and go about your day. Get into the mindset that these women especially want to fuk up your relationship/marriage due to sexual marketplace competition, and nothing else.
That’s the mindset I carry. I will say it is distracting AF, given 90% of my coworkers are women.
post 1699018923 03-10-2024, 04:27 PM
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Every guy has that urge. You just don't do it. One day at a time.
post 1699019073 03-10-2024, 04:30 PM
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post 1699019873 03-10-2024, 04:48 PM
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Either you have morals and suppress your animal instincts

Or you don’t have morals and do whatever you want

If you have full control over your urges and act based on morals there is no temptation in enjoying someone’s beauty, because you reserve sexual acts for your wife.
post 1699020203 03-10-2024, 04:57 PM
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It's definitely hard to resist

but you have to put yourself in your partners shoes and just remember how it would make you feel if it happened to you.

If you don't care than you're not with the right person
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