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» One of my 4 best friends from uni just had a baby
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post 1699845693 03-28-2024, 12:28 PM
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One of my 4 best friends from uni just had a baby

This should make me happy but really it made me sad. I really only had 1 social circle with us 5 guys, but I lost contact with this one soon after graduating since he moved back to Japan, but he posted him holding his newborn baby on IG with his cute Japanese wife. He was slaying all ethnicities of girls in uni so this didn’t come as a surprise, but it highlights how big of a failure I’ve always been. So really, not a good week for my mental health as you know already.
post 1699845853 03-28-2024, 12:31 PM
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Your mental health has always been ****.

Be happy for your friends, current and past.
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post 1699846243 03-28-2024, 12:42 PM
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I know the feel. What's such a mess in your life though?
post 1699846313 03-28-2024, 12:44 PM
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post 1699846923 03-28-2024, 01:05 PM
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Stfu!
post 1699848123 03-28-2024, 01:28 PM
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thats life, think of yourself
and fuk u
post 1699848703 03-28-2024, 01:39 PM
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He's building a nice loving family and you're stalking Katy relentlessly posting about it on the misc. Shame
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post 1699849333 03-28-2024, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka
This should make me happy but really it made me sad. I really only had 1 social circle with us 5 guys, but I lost contact with this one soon after graduating since he moved back to Japan, but he posted him holding his newborn baby on IG with his cute Japanese wife. He was slaying all ethnicities of girls in uni so this didn’t come as a surprise, but it highlights how big of a failure I’ve always been. So really, not a good week for my mental health as you know already.
Your mental health was never good. All you do is spam a dead forum with pictures of an instathot and white knight the **** out of her.

Be happy for your friend having a family, stop being a selfish kunt making it about yourself. Do better.
Wort ew in th wold.
post 1699849533 03-28-2024, 01:58 PM
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Love this for him
post 1699849633 03-28-2024, 02:00 PM
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You have lost this friend but you are friends with Katy's ****** social media assistant
post 1699849943 03-28-2024, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Getter_done
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lol
post 1699850123 03-28-2024, 02:09 PM
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It’s over
post 1699850153 03-28-2024, 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted By legbroke
I know the feel. What's such a mess in your life though?
Everything about me is inadequate besides my looks. **** income, overwhelming debt, no close friends, permasingle, anxiety and autism thru the roof.
post 1699850173 03-28-2024, 02:10 PM
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lol you expect people to believe you have friends? Sad
post 1699850203 03-28-2024, 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Getter_done
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lol thanks. not your best work but i appreciate you trying to make me laugh.
post 1699850233 03-28-2024, 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie
Op don’t give up. Keep hunting. You’ll find a gal eventually
Thank you but I need to change myself big time before I’m ready for any girlfriend.
post 1699850283 03-28-2024, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted By xxAchillesxx
He's building a nice loving family and you're stalking Katy relentlessly posting about it on the misc. Shame
I would have had a wife and kids by now if I were back in the motherland. The US, particularly where I’m from, breeds neurotic people, especially Asians, like me.
post 1699850323 03-28-2024, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted By ClivesTriceps
Your mental health was never good. All you do is spam a dead forum with pictures of an instathot and white knight the **** out of her.

Be happy for your friend having a family, stop being a selfish kunt making it about yourself. Do better.
Thank you for giving it to me straight. You’re a real mf. I just congratulated him after seeing your post.
post 1699850403 03-28-2024, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted By MrSchons
You have lost this friend but you are friends with Katy's ****** social media assistant
Wouldn’t call him a friend. He doesn’t acknowledge my devotion to Katy by hooking me up with a VIP and he has been ignoring my last message for 2 days.
post 1699850453 03-28-2024, 02:16 PM
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People grow up, people get kids, people move on. Das life son
post 1699850473 03-28-2024, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Zelensky
lol you expect people to believe you have friends? Sad
I used to have a tight group of friends and we had some great adventures together. My autism and neurosis haven’t fully kicked in until I graduated.
post 1699850513 03-28-2024, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted By OffwhiteBrah
People grow up, people get kids, people move on. Das life son
I wish I were one of those people.
post 1699852003 03-28-2024, 02:54 PM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka
Everything about me is inadequate besides my looks. **** income, overwhelming debt, no close friends, permasingle, anxiety and autism thru the roof.
What do you spend time on? What's work like? Outside of work?
post 1699854183 03-28-2024, 03:33 PM
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Stop making excuses and get help if you need it.

Posting mindless crap on here is probably making your mental health worse.

My son also has autism but he is high functioning. He put in the work and graduated University and has a great job now with the Government.

Don't give up....be proactive.
post 1699854643 03-28-2024, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By legbroke
What do you spend time on? What's work like? Outside of work?
Don’t want to talk about my work for privacy and insecurity reasons but there’s little social interaction and it’s not a place to make friends or girls. Outside of work not much. I have a dog that I walk twice a day, sometimes more and it makes me more approachable but haven’t met any friends or girls intimately that way. I go to the driving range by myself like once a week but haven’t met any friends at the golf course. That’s pretty much it lol. Spend the rest of my time miscing I guess when I’m not banned.
post 1699854703 03-28-2024, 03:46 PM
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Ain't no way you have 4 friends
post 1699854753 03-28-2024, 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted By WetCoaster
Stop making excuses and get help if you need it.

Posting mindless crap on here is probably making your mental health worse.

My son also has autism but he is high functioning. He put in the work and graduated University and has a great job now with the Government.

Don't give up....be proactive.
Thank you sir and you’re probably right. I’m high functioning too and have an ok job, but nothing even close to what I dreamed about when I was in uni. How does he fare in the social and gf departments?
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