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post 1700169023 04-20-2024, 08:53 PM
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I have quit trying to have sex with my wife

We are both early 50s, married over 25 years. We are both very physically active and in shape. We had an amazing sex life for about the first 5-8 years. The last 20 has been almost non-existent. She has been a stay at home mom the whole time. I’ve had a very stressful, time-demanding career. We used to argue a lot about sex because she would say no almost every time. I would say that for the last 15 years we have had sex less than 50 times, including zero in the last 11 months. it came to a head about 18 months ago when I told her that I just wouldn’t ever ask her again and if she felt like it, then fantastic. Since then, I haven’t asked at all and we have done it exactly once.
I don’t plan on leaving her and certainly not looking elsewhere for sex (I’m just not that guy). I don’t even know if I’m asking for advice. I just thought it might be cathartic to anonymously get this off my chest.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes..._with_my_wife/
post 1700169253 04-20-2024, 09:03 PM
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lol @ the comments reccomending couples counseling. All she has to do is lie there. Truly a useless lazy kunt and a beta ass dude for putting up with it.
post 1700169553 04-20-2024, 09:20 PM
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if you think anything on reddit is legit then i have a some bad news for ya
post 1700169843 04-20-2024, 09:33 PM
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Im not saying i agree with what OJ did.....im just saying i understand.
post 1700169903 04-20-2024, 09:37 PM
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lol at the Reddit cucks “have you tried couples therapy”
Have you tried slapping some sense into that bitch

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post 1700170043 04-20-2024, 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted By swole-striation⏩
if you think anything on reddit is legit then i have a some bad news for ya
I definitely take the AITA and similar reddits less seriously. Lots of fiction writers on there lol.
post 1700170333 04-20-2024, 10:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
I definitely take the AITA and similar reddits less seriously. Lots of fiction writers on there lol.
Yeah but the chucks with there bull**** advice are being serious they are actually that stupid and pathetic
post 1700170353 04-20-2024, 10:01 PM
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The guy probably has a micro . I’ve turned a few sloots into lezbos myself, and had more than a few saying they’re not even sure if they even like sex anymore
Back with my Fam
post 1700170583 04-20-2024, 10:13 PM
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After so many years of marriage your basically banging a family member. Wait, what
post 1700170923 04-20-2024, 10:37 PM
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Originally Posted By swole-striation⏩
if you think anything on reddit is legit then i have a some bad news for ya
What makes you think that scenario doesn't happen though? I mean have you seen the average guy?


Id have gotten a divorce after the sex stopped. Would happily pay child support and alimony.
post 1700170953 04-20-2024, 10:39 PM
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Literally sitting on the couch with my wife of 14 years next to the wood stove waiting for our 3 fuk trophies to fall asleep so we can fuk next to the fire. God damn cock blocks just won’t fall asleep
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post 1700171003 04-20-2024, 10:42 PM
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I never understood this, if sex is that important to you and your wife ain't putting out get it from someone else.
post 1700171053 04-20-2024, 10:45 PM
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Originally Posted By alain⏩
I never understood this, if your wife ain't putting out get it from someone else.
Hmmmm

I think cheating is wrong, but if it keeps the family together.....
post 1700171143 04-20-2024, 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Hmmmm

I think cheating is wrong, but if it keeps the family together.....
Make it clear to the wife, if she isn't going to put in the effort then you'll go somewhere else for it. Dude just needs to get a vascectomy so it doesn't get complicated.
post 1700171213 04-20-2024, 10:58 PM
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Can't imagine. If your wife doesn't wanna have sex, there's something wrong there.
Lack of respect and attraction IMO
Poor redditors
post 1700172303 04-21-2024, 12:19 AM
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He's in a better position than some. One time I wandered into the dead bedrooms subreddit. It was a depressing experience. There were married people whose spouse had completely shut down sex for years on end. It wasn't always a guy. Sometimes it was a woman whose husband had stopped sleeping with her.
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