Is it beta to enjoy foreplay more than your gf/wife?

Every gf I had, I enjoyed kissing more than her. I could do it for hours if they let me. With my most recent ex, we'd be rolling around kissing and touching each other for 3 mins at most, she'd start suckin me off for another 2-3 mins, and she'd say to put it in. I'd ask if she wanted to get eaten out (lul). While she found it cute at first, she started to get annoyed and just wanted to get smashed. I'd be suckin on her boobs and she'd say to put it in and i'd tell her wait lemme enjoy these and she'd let out subtle sighs.