And she’s ready to settle down.

You won’t meet this girl at a supermarket or on the street or at a park or at the food court.

I REPEAT: even when settling for an older used up woman. You WON’T meet her out of chance in public. It will be through work or friends or online.

You’ll meet her through work or maybe through friends or maybe online dating.

She’ll be 40+ and had many relationships and casual encounters while you’ll have very low (if any experience), she may have already been married-divorced with children.

This is where your actual life will begin, eg: taking kids to doctors, sports, school etc. this is when you can tell your coworkers about some crappy kids movie or crappy zoo exhibit you took your/her kids too on the weekend. Now your coworkers won’t think you’re a total shut in loser that has thousands of posts on web forums.