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05-03-2024, 03:00 PM
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Dealing with loss

So it's been a while since I lost my grandad. He raised me for clarification from a baby. I still see jokes, news headline and movies that I want to show him. Every night I have those bittersweet dreams in which we chill and then I wake up and he's gone. How do you deal with this?
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05-03-2024, 03:26 PM
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How do you deal with this?
"time heals all wounds"


RIP to your gramps brah
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05-03-2024, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted By renaissancebro⏩
"time heals all wounds"


RIP to your gramps brah
pretty much this brah

honor him by being the best man you can become
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05-03-2024, 03:35 PM
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05-03-2024, 03:43 PM
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pretty much this brah

honor him by being the best man you can become
you'd think that but I wake up every morning so depressed and I have to spend half an hour convincing myself its a dream and am no *** and it's draining.
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05-03-2024, 03:50 PM
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I am sorry for your loss

Keep him alive in your memory, honor his legacy

Not much you can do except your best in life going forward

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05-03-2024, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted By brahnotah⏩
you'd think that but I wake up every morning so depressed and I have to spend half an hour convincing myself its a dream and am no *** and it's draining.
you can still talk to him in your head, or out loud - you can guess what he would respond with. unfortunately you have to go through the process of grieving. at least you will always have him in your thoughts

he sounds like a good brah
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05-03-2024, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted By brahnotah⏩
So it's been a while since I lost my grandad. He raised me for clarification from a baby. I still see jokes, news headline and movies that I want to show him. Every night I have those bittersweet dreams in which we chill and then I wake up and he's gone. How do you deal with this?
You'll have thoughts you don't like until the day you die

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05-03-2024, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted By renaissancebro⏩
"time heals all wounds"


RIP to your gramps brah
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I have dreams pretty often too
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05-03-2024, 04:23 PM
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You never get over it. You just learn to cope and remember the good things.

My Mom passed away in 1999 and my Dad 3 years ago. I still have dreams about them and they are still alive.

My son's best friend was my Dad. He still won't talk about him.

My sister and her husband lost my nephew to cancer when he was 14. I cant even imagine losing a child.
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05-03-2024, 04:28 PM
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I am sorry for your loss

Keep him alive in your memory, honor his legacy

Not much you can do except your best in life going forward

What would he wanted for you?
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05-03-2024, 04:35 PM
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The loved ones live on forever in your hearts.
Nothing can ever take away a love your heart holds dear.
Those who touch your lives, stay in your hearts forever.
Greatly loved, deeply missed.

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05-03-2024, 05:23 PM
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This

I have dreams pretty often too
I just want them back or to stop dreaming lol. No dustinahuss
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05-03-2024, 05:41 PM
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you just do

lost all my aunts and uncles

the most pressing to me is my moms feelings

she appears strong but i know how she feels

lost my dad not physically but mentally. imho its not something you deal with but just get used to
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05-03-2024, 06:26 PM
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My grandad died 8 years before I was born and my grandma died in 06.

All I know about him was he was a good salesman and ironically, my dad was in sales and I'm currently in sales..



My grandma was overseas when she died and I was in complete shock when it happened. The last time I saw her was 2 years before and I was in denial for a long time. I couldn't believe she was gone but have come to terms over time.

I thank God every day both my dad and mom or in complete good health and pray for protection each day.



For your grandad, I'm really sorry for your loss and I hope the best for you and your family.

You might feel lost since your grandfather raised you from childhood and not sure where your parents fit in the picture but I hope and pray that at this point you will look to God for help and guidance through the Lord Jesus Christ.



The Psalms are good place to start then learn about Christ in the New Testament.

Psalm 27:10-14

"When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up.

Teach me thy way, O Lord, and lead me in a plain path, because of mine enemies.

Deliver me not over unto the will of mine enemies: for false witnesses are risen up against me, and such as breathe out cruelty.

I had fainted, unless I had believed to see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.

Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord."
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