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post 1700998723 05-12-2024, 05:44 AM
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So one of my best mates got a divorce and his wife

Was pretty hot.

He met here while we were out one night she originally tried to talk to me but I declined and my friend jumped on her. They got married had a kid all that good stuff.

Well this friend would always try and talk to my girlfriends and try and talk chit behind my back to them. They would always tell me. The next Day he would always apologize and say it was the booze that made him do it. I always forgave it. No big deal

Well the ex wife wanted to come hang out at my place one night. I was iffy on if I should do it. They were divorced but he was my friend so I didn't think it was the right thing to do. But he pulled that chit again on another chic I had when we all three went out one night so I said fuk it. And had his ex wife come hang out

Do you think I was in the wrong for doing that?
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post 1700998783 05-12-2024, 05:50 AM
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If you still considered him a friend and still want to be a friend to him, then yes that was wrong of you to bang his ex-wife. It's the epitome of breaking bro code.

However, if he was routinely chitting on you while getting drunk and using drunkeness as an excuse all the time, I'd have written him off as a friend years ago by now. So if you fall into that category, then bang his exes all you want, as he's no longer your bro, thus not deserving of bro code considerations.
post 1700998803 05-12-2024, 05:51 AM
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post 1700999013 05-12-2024, 06:01 AM
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Originally Posted By FelixTheCat1919⏩
If you still considered him a friend and still want to be a friend to him, then yes that was wrong of you to bang his ex-wife. It's the epitome of breaking bro code.

However, if he was routinely chitting on you while getting drunk and using drunkeness as an excuse all the time, I'd have written him off as a friend years ago by now. So if you fall into that category, then bang his exes all you want, as he's no longer your bro, thus not deserving of bro code considerations.
Well I didn't bang her we just hung out. But she came over for that reason. I just couldn't do a friend that way. I felt guilty even letting her come to my place without him knowing it but after so many times he would try and take one of my grlfriends I got a little fed up and told my self let's see how he feels but I couldn't seal the deal at the end of the day

But yeah when he was going through divorce I'd ask him out with me and my girlfriend just cause I felt sorry for him and when I'd go to the restroom or to the bar to get a drink he would tell her 'why are you with him, I make 100k a year and own my own house, get rid of him:"

Doesn't feel too good when your friend pulls that chit just to get layed.

But you are right I should have cut him off years ago but to his credit when my life started to take a turn into craziness he was the only one who did not try to throw me under the bus. He distance himself cause I was an addixt at the time and he had a great career and no decent person wants to he around or hang out with an addict so I didn't blame him if anything I respected him for it.

Good friends are hard to come by.
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post 1700999073 05-12-2024, 06:02 AM
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Not sure if it’s because I grew up in a small town where we had less options, or if it’s because me and my friends weren’t a bunch on insecure phaggots, but no one ever gave a fukk if you smashed their ex. It’s their EX girlfriend. Why would I could if someone banged my ex? To me that’s sounds like something only females would get worried and cause drama over. If you end a relationship with someone then either disregard and move on, or still be friends and move on. Either way it doesn’t make sense to think you can dictate who they can and can’t smash at that point.
post 1700999103 05-12-2024, 06:04 AM
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Originally Posted By jtaylor2010⏩
Not sure if it’s because I grew up in a small town where we had less options, or if it’s because me and my friends weren’t a bunch on insecure phaggots, but no one ever gave a fukk if you smashed their ex. It’s their EX girlfriend. Why would I could if someone banged my ex? To me that’s sounds like something only females would get worried and cause drama over. If you end a relationship with someone then either disregard and move on, or still be friends and move on. Either way it doesn’t make sense to think you can dictate who they can and can’t smash at that point.
As Felix said. Bro code. That's not a line you should cross. Ex or no ex he's your friend and feelings are still there sometimes. It's just not a cool thing to do
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post 1700999143 05-12-2024, 06:06 AM
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From your description it doesn't sound like he's your friend at all, so I wouldn't have a problem with it. He's just a guy you hang out with, not somebody who you can rely on or would ask for serious help.
post 1700999153 05-12-2024, 06:06 AM
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Lol, who cares about all of this. This guy clearly is just an acquaintance of yours, so you should have fuked his girl if you wanted to.
post 1700999193 05-12-2024, 06:07 AM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
Well I didn't bang her we just hung out. But she came over for that reason. I just couldn't do a friend that way. I felt guilty even letting her come to my place without him knowing it but after so many times he would try and take one of my grlfriends I got a little fed up and told my self let's see how he feels but I couldn't seal the deal at the end of the day

But yeah when he was going through divorce I'd ask him out with me and my girlfriend just cause I felt sorry for him and when I'd go to the restroom or to the bar to get a drink he would tell her 'why are you with him, I make 100k a year and own my own house, get rid of him:"

Doesn't feel too good when your friend pulls that chit just to get layed.

But you are right I should have cut him off years ago but to his credit when my life started to take a turn into craziness he was the only one who did not try to throw me under the bus. He distance himself cause I was an addixt at the time and he had a great career and no decent person wants to he around or hang out with an addict so I didn't blame him if anything I respected him for it.

Good friends are hard to come by.
Wait, so this dude would hang out with your girlfriends/exes? Dude wasn't supportive of you when you had an addiction you were trying to overcome?

He was never your friend, just an assshole who used you at his convenience. Fuk him, you have nothing to feel bad about.
post 1700999203 05-12-2024, 06:08 AM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Lol, who cares about all of this. This guy clearly is just an acquaintance of yours, so you should have fuked his girl if you wanted to.
No we were good friends since our teens bro.
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post 1700999323 05-12-2024, 06:13 AM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
As Felix said. Bro code. That's not a line you should cross. Ex or no ex he's your friend andfeelings are still there sometimes. It's just not a cool thing to do
Like I said…guys should get over it and quit being insecure little bitches. So you’re telling me you can’t be with anyone any of your friends ever dated or fukked??

Also, he used to straight up trash you around lots of people. Doesn’t sound like he’s much of a friend, and doesn’t care about this “bro code” you’re talking about.
post 1700999383 05-12-2024, 06:15 AM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
No we were good friends since our teens bro.
He didn't act like a friend based on anything you described. Dude sounds like a weasel and a snake.
post 1700999423 05-12-2024, 06:18 AM
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Originally Posted By FelixTheCat1919⏩
Wait, so this dude would hang out with your girlfriends/exes? Dude wasn't supportive of you when you had an addiction you were trying to overcome?

He was never your friend, just an assshole who used you at his convenience. Fuk him, you have nothing to feel bad about.
No, he would just try and convince them that I was not worthy of them but he was cause he made so much money an owned a house etc etc. They would always tell me what he would say.

As fat as being supportive no, his exact words to me were "you are 1 step away from a felony and I can't be around it" I was really bad off at that time. I was addicted to everything under the son. So I can't blame him how can I? It's been years since I've used any illicit substances though. My son freed me of that . You could not pay me a million dollars to ever put a drug in my body again.

I've tried to reach out to him but guess he is weary of talking
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post 1700999433 05-12-2024, 06:20 AM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
No, he would just try and convince them that I was not worthy of them but he was cause he made so much money an owned a house etc etc. They would always tell me what he would say.

As fat as being supportive no, his exact words to me were "you are 1 step away from a felony and I can't be around it" I was really bad off at that time. I was addicted to everything under the son. So I can't blame him how can I? It's been years since I've used any illicit substances though. My son freed me of that . You could not pay me a million dollars to ever put a drug in my body again.

I've tried to reach out to him but guess he is weary of talking
A man who tells your woman to leave you for him while you've stepped away to take a piss is a snake, not a friend.
post 1700999443 05-12-2024, 06:21 AM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
No, he would just try and convince them that I was not worthy of them but he was cause he made so much money an owned a house etc etc. They would always tell me what he would say.

As fat as being supportive no, his exact words to me were "you are 1 step away from a felony and I can't be around it" I was really bad off at that time. I was addicted to everything under the son. So I can't blame him how can I? It's been years since I've used any illicit substances though. My son freed me of that . You could not pay me a million dollars to ever put a drug in my body again.

I've tried to reach out to him but guess he is weary of talking
Lold at turning down pussy because of a guy who always talked sh!t about you, wrote you off at your lowest point, and now won’t even talk to you anymore. He’s not the “friend” you think he is, and you are acting incredibly cucked.



Either that or this is a roll bread. I really hope it’s the latter.
post 1700999493 05-12-2024, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted By FelixTheCat1919⏩
A man who tells your woman to leave you for him while you've stepped away to take a piss is a snake, not a friend.
Deep down I know you are right. I just always chalked it up to the booze and he always did apologize the next day. Many times he woundbhelp me out like if I needed to borrow money or something he was always there.. I'm just not one to hold a grudge. Probable should be but I'm not
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Originally Posted By jtaylor2010⏩
Lold at turning down pussy because of a guy who always talked sh!t about you, wrote you off at your lowest point, and now won’t even talk to you anymore. He’s not the “friend” you think he is, and you are acting incredibly cucked.



Either that or this is a roll bread. I really hope it’s the latter.
Never been cucked in my life bro. I'm just a rather easy going chap. It takes a lot to really rub me the wrong way and I always Tru to put my self in other people's shoes and understand both sides.

If one fails to do that they generally act irrationally and that never leads you to a good place.
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Originally Posted By jtaylor2010⏩
Lold at turning down pussy because of a guy who always talked sh!t about you, wrote you off at your lowest point, and now won’t even talk to you anymore. He’s not the “friend” you think he is, and you are acting incredibly cucked.



Either that or this is a roll bread. I really hope it’s the latter.
latverian doesn't strike me as a troll, not even a little bit
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He sounds like a pretty bad friend. Gotta watch out for that.
Still though, don't think you should sleep with his ex wife. Ex gf is one thing, but ex wife is another. Plus you don't wanna be like him.
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