Ask an actual 40 year old virgin anything

Test levels are fine

Never really had the desire and I guess can call it being asexual

Used to be ashamed/insecure about it until about my early 30s then kind of just got over it

The upside is it avoids a lot of drama since a lot of problems men deal with is from relationships

But I will admit it makes me lazy since a lot of what guys do is to attract women even if it's subconscious (lifting, looksmaxxing, careerism, nice clothes, alpha or charming personality, etc)

When you don't care about attracting women you have no problem with your standard outfit being sweat pants and an old faded t-shirt, a '95 VW Jetta, a 500 sq ft studio apartment, and a boring/unmotivated/non-adventurous personality

Basically things that are female repellants LOL