1. Peacocking. You have to seperate yourself from the NPCs by standing out. A tophat, snake skin boots or neck tattoo are great ways to catch their eye.

2. Be sure to neg them. E.g if she's wearing a dress make a cringe face and say, 'Oh, where did you find that, do you go to charity stores a lot?'. This will pique her interest because you're not validating her.

3. When you've secured the date, make sure she's having a good time. The best way to do this is to ask her if she's enjoying herself and ask what you can do better. Ask multiple times to ensure it goes smoothly. At the end of the date ask if she wants a future with you. The feedback will allow you to grow and look even more attractive to her.