because of over a decade of indoctrination here, I never will put myself into a position 90% of men do. I will never let a woman, who 70% of the time initiates it, divorce me and steal half the things she didn't earn while complaining about the patriarchy and how awful men are while she lounges around all day enjoying the fruits of my labor. I will never let her use the government as her tool to come at gun point and rob me of over a quarter of my income for almost two decades of prime life, while the child is raised to believe I'm a deadbeat who abandoned the family. This is a mistake that wrecks so, so many men. All the old miserable people you see in your workplace, they didn't get there by accident. Most likely, they have a story very similar to this. You see the Chad 50 year olds? The ones who still look phenomenal and still have a glistening radiance coming from their eyes? They didn't make this mistake.

I appreciate all of you DED SRS

marry a woman with a career, problem solved?

If the misc is the best thing thats ever happened to you, thats pretty sad OP. Srs.

99% of normal people dont even consider or worry about the chit the people on here do.

They are hardly problems or even remotely realistic concerns if you are just put enjoying life with normal, well-adjusted people. Srs.

well adjusted people think love is real and that there's a strong chance they can stay together and raise a child, or even worse, they think they can just have a child without getting married and still live a happy life LOL

I rather not be well adjusted. When you look to those older people and have angst about getting old because they're all living miserable lifes.. they were all 'well adjusted' at one point, were normal, had life figured out just like every one else.

Few and far between are the mid 50s dudes with great physiques, millions in their accounts but are still plebs and not high flying finance bros, happiness... I bet they were not 'well adjusted' in the typical sense