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post 1704896981 08-11-2024, 10:06 PM
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How many Miscers find themselves in this position? (video)



post 1704897451 08-11-2024, 10:25 PM
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post 1704897861 08-11-2024, 10:40 PM
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First 2 vids didn’t have to watch more than 3 seconds to understand.

3rd guy needs to live in the woods for 2 years and he’ll be alright.
See you tomorrow
post 1704898051 08-11-2024, 10:51 PM
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here is another one, lol:



Guy was pretty upfront about how autistic he is. He seemed kind of chill and totally self-aware. It was pretty entertaining.
post 1704898331 08-11-2024, 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
here is another one, lol:



Guy was pretty upfront about how autistic he is. He seemed kind of chill and totally self-aware. It was pretty entertaining.
Def brutal out there for thousands if not millions of guys. You see these guys making YouTube videos but there are so many more who suffer in silence. Check out some of the YouTube comments to see how many men are living the same if not worse.

post 1704898441 08-11-2024, 11:05 PM
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Seems like most of these dudes are wrapped up in their own self misery and have nothing of value to offer anyone.

Times have definitely changed since I was dating but man guys today just wallow in pity it seems
post 1704898491 08-11-2024, 11:07 PM
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I dated a bit when I was in my early 20s and got my heart broken at 25/26 and never fell in love since. I'm lucky to be perfectly happy alone, but I feel bad for the guys who feel lonely, etc.

I'm actually pretty good looking and it's usually weird if a girl DOESN'T like me, but since I'm a Christian I can't fornicate anyway or date like a regular westerner does - but it's not looking for for me either in terms of finding a mate.

Not sure about settling down with some hoe bag that has a massive body count, etc.
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post 1704898531 08-11-2024, 11:08 PM
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Wheres the OG incel Kent the black dude with the fitteds and eggman?
post 1704898611 08-11-2024, 11:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Paul
Seems like most of these dudes are wrapped up in their own self misery and have nothing of value to offer anyone.

Times have definitely changed since I was dating but man guys today just wallow in pity it seems
Or maybe these dudes have tried all they can, and have come to the conclusion that there is just no hope. Your line of thinking is no different than the fairy tale 'everyone has a soul mate' BS that we were told growing up.

What do you want them to do? It's probably therapeutic for them to be frank and have a conversation about the reality of their plight. Better than being 40 and still coping that that women they've been waiting on is just gonna waltz into their lives.
post 1704898671 08-11-2024, 11:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Islandboyo⏩
Def brutal out there for thousands if not millions of guys. You see these guys making YouTube videos but there are so many more who suffer in silence. Check out some of the YouTube comments to see how many men are living the same if not worse.

The problem with this guy is that he isn't HOT and no girl he likes is going to want to be with him, at least not the one that he probably wants to be with. He doesn't even look bad or anything, he just isn't hot.

Likewise, girls would rather be single these days or share one alpha who gets them excited than settle down.
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post 1704898681 08-11-2024, 11:11 PM
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post 1704899091 08-11-2024, 11:21 PM
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Eh, I pretty much fit the bill. Briefly had some success for one year in grad school but never wound up with any super official relationships anyway.
post 1704899411 08-11-2024, 11:35 PM
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Didn’t watch but if you’re that fking ignorant and don’t realize sloots gonna sloot , then there’s no help for you .
These guys are so fking cringe with their crying . Grow some balls or try men for fk sakes . Maybe even consider roping .
No one wants to hear you pout
Back with my Fam
post 1704909311 08-12-2024, 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
Didn’t watch but if you’re that fking ignorant and don’t realize sloots gonna sloot , then there’s no help for you .
These guys are so fking cringe with their crying . Grow some balls or try men for fk sakes . Maybe even consider roping .
No one wants to hear you pout
You think they should just stay locked up in their basements and never talk about their lives? I think it's fascinating to see what happens to all these aging single folks. I don't think there has ever been a time where so many men/women have been reaching past their 30's without having kids/wife/husband heck even a GF
post 1704909441 08-12-2024, 08:44 AM
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I lost my virginity late, working retail saved me because i was surrounded by sloots which gave ample opportunity.

The vast majority of dudes who don't get laid don't go out and socialize. That's the common theme. You have to go out and you have to socialize.
post 1704909671 08-12-2024, 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted By explosiveMidget⏩
They've no masculine energy or confidence nevermind the lack of depth in their voices (sound like their balls haven't dropped) they're hesitant effeminate and insecurity just radiates off them.

Most of them wont even reach the freind zone because the vibe they give off is creepy to women. Feminine men unless we're talking about flamvoyant f'aggots they can go shopping with disgusts them on a deep primal level whether they admit this or not it's true.

For guys like that u either pay for it or die a virgin. It's not because they're "too nice" or any of that **** they're really not even men. Their fathers failed them
I'd bet anything if these guys got a part time job at a bar they would be fine
post 1704909691 08-12-2024, 08:49 AM
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The thing they all have in common is winy low test beta behavior


Sloots are repulsed by wimpy dweebs
See Shakebrah's sig
post 1704909781 08-12-2024, 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
I'd bet anything if these guys got a part time job at a bar they would be fine
Yeah a bar would be great. Working at Walmart did a lot for me social wise. At some point I was asking for numbers with no problem. Now that I think about it, the last 2 years worked I had asked for 11 numbers and got most of em.


Ever since I've gotten my small office job I've lost all my social skills again and can barely hold eye contact with women now. Fukn LMAO. I need to start forcing myself to small talk and get a hobby, it's the only way.
post 1704912341 08-12-2024, 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Yeah a bar would be great. Working at Walmart did a lot for me social wise. At some point I was asking for numbers with no problem. Now that I think about it, the last 2 years worked I had asked for 11 numbers and got most of em.


Ever since I've gotten my small office job I've lost all my social skills again and can barely hold eye contact with women now. Fukn LMAO. I need to start forcing myself to small talk and get a hobby, it's the only way.
So you think all those 30+ year old guys can get a walmart job and then be swimming in pus
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Originally Posted By Islandboyo⏩
So you think all those 30+ year old guys can get a walmart job and then be swimming in pus
The point is to get a job where you'll be socializing and that will lead you to getting laid. Cleveland was right when he brought up working part time at a bar. Social skills builds your confidence which is needed with trying to get women. Not saying you'll be swimming in pussy working at walmart or at a bar, but the social skills you develop will definitely help you get laid.

When I worked at Walmart it helped me immensely with social skills, fear of rejection, and confidence. Now I work an office job full of 55 year olds and my social skills are non existent.
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
The point is to get a job where you'll be socializing and that will lead you to getting laid. Cleveland was right when he brought up working part time at a bar. Social skills builds your confidence which is needed with trying to get women. Not saying you'll be swimming in pussy working at walmart or at a bar, but the social skills you develop will definitely help you get laid.

When I worked at Walmart it helped me immensely with social skills, fear of rejection, and confidence. Now I work an office job full of 55 year olds and my social skills are non existent.
I def agree that it can help, but im speaking on the people who simply don’t have a chance based on how they look and their personality. By the time you’re in your 30’s its near impossible to change in many ways.

The first two guys in the OP don’t stand a chance. 3rd guy can def get some girls based on his looks alone. There are TONS of men out there with friends and social networks who still can’t land a chick, and it’s often based on their loooks.

A decade or two ago these same men would already by married
post 1704916151 08-12-2024, 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Islandboyo⏩
I def agree that it can help, but im speaking on the people who simply don’t have a chance based on how they look and their personality. By the time you’re in your 30’s its near impossible to change in many ways.

The first two guys in the OP don’t stand a chance. 3rd guy can def get some girls based on his looks alone. There are TONS of men out there with friends and social networks who still can’t land a chick, and it’s often based on their loooks.

A decade or two ago these same men would already by married
Looks can be upgraded to a certain extent. Personality can be maxed out.

And it's very possible to change in your 30s, 40s, and 50s. Look at the people who lose massive amounts of weight in those age groups.
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Dudes should go abroad/10
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when I was 30 my life was OK, I had good friends but I had come off of a layoff and was contracting, so I was still looking. Anyhow, I picked up a new job and moved to Saudi Arabia and two years later I was married. Get out of your comfort zone and put yourself out there and experience life. Wallowing in self pity is not attractive, going forth and trying stuff is.
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Originally Posted By Islandboyo⏩
Or maybe these dudes have tried all they can, and have come to the conclusion that there is just no hope. Your line of thinking is no different than the fairy tale 'everyone has a soul mate' BS that we were told growing up.

What do you want them to do? It's probably therapeutic for them to be frank and have a conversation about the reality of their plight. Better than being 40 and still coping that that women they've been waiting on is just gonna waltz into their lives.
You don't deserve to be with anyone unless you can offer value to that person. Simply "wanting" to find a woman is not going to cut it. I haven't dated in 20 yrs, but still get hit on..and I am not even veru good looking..you have to at least seem like you have something going for you..otherwise..why tf should a woman care to be with you..just because you are lonley? Please GTFO
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