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08-14-2024, 01:35 PM
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Women forming secret "Are we dating the same guy?" groups in every major city

These groups are in every city. They post the guy's photo and all of his whereabouts to keep track of the possibility of him dating multiple women.

Damn it seems like dating is getting more and more brutal. I can't agree with this at all.



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She had cut off contact with her ex, put a thousand miles between them and started therapy. Still, Jocelyn — a 30-something in the Pacific Northwest — couldn’t shake the feeling that his abuse was her fault.

Her therapist suggested she seek out other women who had experienced something similar to what she’d described: A fairy-tale romance that led to a quick engagement. A slide into violence. A cycle of broken promises.

When Jocelyn heard about city-specific ******** groups called “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” she thought she had found that support. She logged into the social network using a fake account to shield her identity and posted several paragraphs about the relationship. She imagined other women would chime in with similar experiences, saying they understood.

“I didn’t get any of that,” said Jocelyn, who spoke on the condition that her last name be withheld to protect her safety. “Instead, I got him brought right back in my life.”

The secretive “Are We Dating the Same Guy” network exploded into public view in January, when an Illinois man filed a defamation lawsuit against its founder, ******** and its parent company Meta, a woman who had allegedly posted about him and dozens of others he says are involved in the groups.
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08-14-2024, 01:41 PM
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i've seen these locally but didn't seem too active. imagine the reactions when they find out 30 other women "know" chad lol.
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08-14-2024, 01:53 PM
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i've seen these locally but didn't seem too active. imagine the reactions when they find out 30 other women "know" chad lol.
Women going after Chad? They want their cake and want to eat it too.
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08-14-2024, 02:03 PM
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Women going after Chad? They want their cake and want to eat it too.
i think we are moving towards more acceptance of 5+ women having sex with/"dating" the same chad. humans sorta reverting back to their natural states.
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08-14-2024, 02:06 PM
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lmao i had some broad tell me she was going to post me in some bookface group once
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08-14-2024, 02:08 PM
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Forming? More like formed. This has been going on for years. It's pretty funny. It's basically women finding yet another way to gossip, feel victimized, and waste time accomplishing nothing.
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08-14-2024, 02:11 PM
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sloots are gonna be sloots, what you gonna do about it?
bang dudes?
they should make one about banging the same sloot, but dudes would be proud of it.
I'm all for this, lets shame everyone regardless of gender for sleeping around and being dirty… Lets go back to being faithful and morally correct
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08-14-2024, 02:30 PM
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Welcome to 2014 OP - where you been.
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08-14-2024, 02:32 PM
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08-14-2024, 02:41 PM
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i think we are moving towards more acceptance of 5+ women having sex with/"dating" the same chad. humans sorta reverting back to their natural states.
They don't want that.

1)Chad doesn't make enough to house and feed them

2)They get jealous if Chad gives more attention to another

3)Chad doesn't want to deal with their bs. Just fuk and Chuck.

Multiple wives will never happen. Westernized women can't take it
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08-14-2024, 02:47 PM
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Incel epidemic nationwide

Yet Stacies dating the "same guy."
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08-14-2024, 02:49 PM
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I don’t see a problem with this.
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08-14-2024, 02:51 PM
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Parent company of meta. Jfc its over for chad.

Theyre gonna figure out theyre all screwing the same guy, and then realize theyd rather that then have a beta.
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08-14-2024, 02:53 PM
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Not sure what the point of it is, really. Guaranteed when women find out her boyfriend is dating/fuking other women she'll get mad but stick with him anyway. Makes no difference.
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08-14-2024, 02:54 PM
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I don’t see a problem with this.
There are F acebook groups for women to complain about men they met on dating apps.

I'm sure some complaints are legit, like the dude is married, but I also imagine there is an echo chamber of salty biased bitchy posts as well.

Supposedly I have not been posted about on the Chicago site, but the last time I had someone to check for me was 2 years ago, and she acted like she was violating some sloot code of ethics to tell me that.
I'm just a whit guy frm the future, I completely out of touc

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08-14-2024, 02:55 PM
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not surprising because they only go for 1% of men
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08-14-2024, 02:56 PM
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Forming? More like formed. This has been going on for years. It's pretty funny. It's basically women finding yet another way to gossip, feel victimized, and waste time accomplishing nothing.
This. Only trashy thots would concern themselves with such a group

If the guy you're" dating " is dating 5 other girls then you were hardly " dating " that guy in the first place
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08-14-2024, 02:56 PM
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Imagine if dudes started forming "is the girl I am dating a sloot?" groups to see if a sloot has been sleeping around with a bunch of dudes in the city? There would be a huge outrage, news coverage, etc.
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There are F acebook groups for women to complain about men they met on dating apps.

I'm sure some complaints are legit, like the dude is married, but I also imagine there is an echo chamber of salty biased bitchy posts as well.

Supposedly I have not been posted about on the Chicago site, but the last time I had someone to check for me was 2 years ago, and she acted like she was violating some sloot code of ethics to tell me that.
One of my best friends, a 6’3” Tyrone, was posted on one of those groups. He actually had girls he’s smashed on there defend him because he’s always been honest about what he’s there for and what he’s lookin for.

This is only a problem for shady dudes.
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08-14-2024, 03:01 PM
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One of my friends got busted on the London version of this.
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08-14-2024, 03:04 PM
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They stole this idea from Two and a Half Men with charlie sheen srs
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08-14-2024, 03:08 PM
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Imagine if dudes started forming "is the girl I am dating a sloot?" groups to see if a sloot has been sleeping around with a bunch of dudes in the city? There would be a huge outrage, news coverage, etc.
You would be better off assuming it to be so
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08-14-2024, 03:14 PM
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Well it's no secret how about 80% of women only date the same pool of the top 10% of men on dating apps.
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08-14-2024, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By tendies⏩
Imagine if dudes started forming "is the girl I am dating a sloot?" groups to see if a sloot has been sleeping around with a bunch of dudes in the city? There would be a huge outrage, news coverage, etc.
they're out there too
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08-14-2024, 03:17 PM
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They don't want that.

1)Chad doesn't make enough to house and feed them

2)They get jealous if Chad gives more attention to another

3)Chad doesn't want to deal with their bs. Just fuk and Chuck.

Multiple wives will never happen. Westernized women can't take it
This. Ultimately every woman wants to be the alpha female that gets all the attention from Chad and has him providing everything for them.

It's the reason why women all wind up hating each other, they have a natural passive aggressive tendency to compete with each other for title of top female who gets all the attention.
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08-14-2024, 03:17 PM
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Well it's no secret how about 80% of women only date the same pool of the top 10% of men on dating apps.
Half these girls probably had a date or 2 or just a hook up and feel entitled to more out the dude

If it was all a legit serious relationship you'd know if he was dating 5 other women at the same time without a bs fb group
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Yeah most online dating sloots are in those groups

Messed up that some disgruntled sloot can make anything up and post anonymously in the FB group and slander a guy in front of 10s or 100s of thousands of people.

If men were doing this at the same scale, Meta/bookface would take the groups down so fast for harassment/bullying/slander/doxxing.

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Yeah most online dating sloots are in those groups

Messed up that some disgruntled sloot can make anything up and post anonymously in the FB group and slander a guy in front of 10s or 100s of thousands of people.

If men were doing this at the same scale, Meta/bookface would take the groups down so fast for harassment/bullying/slander/doxxing.

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yeah it would be called sloot shaming and feminist would rage. a tightly wound ball of hypocrisy
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08-14-2024, 03:30 PM
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yeah it would be called sloot shaming and feminist would rage. a tightly wound ball of hypocrisy
Yep. Feminist are better at operating as a group. They would raise hell and apply pressure to get the groups taken down, but men aren't doing that and just let it slide
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