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08-17-2024, 11:11 PM
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Has anyone noticed this concept when you know someone is abusing or dominating you…
But you do nothing to fight back?
For example I was once talking to a psychologist and he said something to bolster my ego and open up more, and I could tell exactly what he was doing as he was doing it in the moment, but i couldn't help but be manipulated and talk more sh*t and divulge more info than I ever will to another person.
In more extreme cases this manifests as a victim (girl, boy, or grown women) freezing when she's getting raped and not fighting back and letting it happen and not understanding why.
Does anybody know what I mean and how to stop this from happening?
For example I was once talking to a psychologist and he said something to bolster my ego and open up more, and I could tell exactly what he was doing as he was doing it in the moment, but i couldn't help but be manipulated and talk more sh*t and divulge more info than I ever will to another person.
In more extreme cases this manifests as a victim (girl, boy, or grown women) freezing when she's getting raped and not fighting back and letting it happen and not understanding why.
Does anybody know what I mean and how to stop this from happening?
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08-18-2024, 12:14 AM
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Yes I know exactly what you mean.
08-18-2024, 01:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
If you are the real SS, what are your favourite books?
Yes I know exactly what you mean.
Originally Posted By MidAugust⏩
When this happens to someone, it doesn't matter how big they are. I think it's somebody who knows they have power over you and they do things, 'under the implication' that things will go wrong if you don't comply and there's nothing you can do about it. This happened to that big black gorilla looking dude who played the tyrant in friday 2 - (
https://www.tiktok.com/@gziltchi/vid...521414?lang=en
). Some jew twink grabbed his package like he was his b*tch and he just froze.
for a guy who's supposedly 6'2" 220lbs of solid muscle, you sure do get bullied a lot
I've watched rape victims say the same thing when they get raped by someone they trust - they just freeze.
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08-18-2024, 01:18 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Stillness Speaks by Eckhart Tolle
If you are the real SS, what are your favourite books?
When this happens to someone, it doesn't matter how big they are. I think it's somebody who knows they have power over you and they do things, 'under the implication' that things will go wrong if you don't comply and there's nothing you can do about it. This happened to that big black gorilla looking dude who played the tyrant in friday 2 - ( https://www.tiktok.com/@gziltchi/vid...521414?lang=en ). Some jew twink grabbed his package like he was his b*tch and he just froze.
I've watched rape victims say the same thing when they get raped by someone they trust - they just freeze.
When this happens to someone, it doesn't matter how big they are. I think it's somebody who knows they have power over you and they do things, 'under the implication' that things will go wrong if you don't comply and there's nothing you can do about it. This happened to that big black gorilla looking dude who played the tyrant in friday 2 - ( https://www.tiktok.com/@gziltchi/vid...521414?lang=en ). Some jew twink grabbed his package like he was his b*tch and he just froze.
I've watched rape victims say the same thing when they get raped by someone they trust - they just freeze.
08-18-2024, 01:19 AM
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Anyway yes I think it is based on primal fear.
I have been in many situations where my life was literally in danger and I did nothing. I could not speak and I could not act.
I have been in many situations where my life was literally in danger and I did nothing. I could not speak and I could not act.
08-18-2024, 01:48 AM
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Originally Posted By MidAugust⏩
No, I said it was aa psychologist doing it to me - he was manipulating me and it worked even though I was fully aware of what was going on.
so at a job and ur manager fked with u?
yea tours over for wagie sheep
yea tours over for wagie sheep
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08-18-2024, 01:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
What are you thoughts on books in general? Do you think that they give you great and original ideas? Apparently you love to read according to misccord
Stillness Speaks by Eckhart Tolle
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08-18-2024, 01:58 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
No I never read books.
What are you thoughts on books in general? Do you think that they give you great and original ideas? Apparently you love to read according to misccord
That was the last book I read and it was over a decade ago.
I used to love reading and read a lot of books when I was younger but I lost interest in it. I have realized the truth is not in books. Books are just random people’s opinions and stories and fantasies. I have no further interest in it.
08-18-2024, 02:05 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
I can't understand a word you're saying brah. You raped someone?
But you do nothing to fight back?
For example I was once talking to a psychologist and he said something to bolster my ego and open up more, and I could tell exactly what he was doing as he was doing it in the moment, but i couldn't help but be manipulated and talk more sh*t and divulge more info than I ever will to another person.
In more extreme cases this manifests as a victim (girl, boy, or grown women) freezing when she's getting raped and not fighting back and letting it happen and not understanding why.
Does anybody know what I mean and how to stop this from happening?
For example I was once talking to a psychologist and he said something to bolster my ego and open up more, and I could tell exactly what he was doing as he was doing it in the moment, but i couldn't help but be manipulated and talk more sh*t and divulge more info than I ever will to another person.
In more extreme cases this manifests as a victim (girl, boy, or grown women) freezing when she's getting raped and not fighting back and letting it happen and not understanding why.
Does anybody know what I mean and how to stop this from happening?
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08-18-2024, 02:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
So you are the real SS.
No I never read books.
That was the last book I read and it was over a decade ago.
I used to love reading and read a lot of books when I was younger but I lost interest in it. I have realized the truth is not in books. Books are just random people’s opinions and stories and fantasies. I have no further interest in it.
That was the last book I read and it was over a decade ago.
I used to love reading and read a lot of books when I was younger but I lost interest in it. I have realized the truth is not in books. Books are just random people’s opinions and stories and fantasies. I have no further interest in it.
Originally Posted By swordplay76⏩
I don't have it in my to lie to a girl to make her sleep with me, let alone rape her - the only times I've been laid is when the girl couldn't help herself due to my dashing good looks and musculature.
I can't understand a word you're saying brah. You raped someone?
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08-18-2024, 02:09 AM
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Originally Posted By swordplay76⏩
No he is saying people react to attacks by more powerful people with surrender due to survival instinct.
I can't understand a word you're saying brah. You raped someone?
08-18-2024, 02:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
I've seen multiple news reports of women getting raped and not even fighting back - they just freeze.
No he is saying people react to attacks by more powerful people with surrender due to survival instinct.
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08-18-2024, 02:59 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
But you do nothing to fight back?
For example I was once talking to a psychologist and he said something to bolster my ego and open up more, and I could tell exactly what he was doing as he was doing it in the moment, but i couldn't help but be manipulated and talk more sh*t and divulge more info than I ever will to another person.
In more extreme cases this manifests as a victim (girl, boy, or grown women) freezing when she's getting raped and not fighting back and letting it happen and not understanding why.
Does anybody know what I mean and how to stop this from happening?
For example I was once talking to a psychologist and he said something to bolster my ego and open up more, and I could tell exactly what he was doing as he was doing it in the moment, but i couldn't help but be manipulated and talk more sh*t and divulge more info than I ever will to another person.
In more extreme cases this manifests as a victim (girl, boy, or grown women) freezing when she's getting raped and not fighting back and letting it happen and not understanding why.
Does anybody know what I mean and how to stop this from happening?
Of course he was trying to get you to open up, that's his damn job, and that's why you're paying him.
And the reason why you gave in to his manipulation was because you WANTED TO OPEN UP AND TALK… Why else would you have paid money to be his patient?
In this scenario, I'm not even sure if the word "manipulation" is appropriate, I think the word "encouragement" is more fitting, he was just giving you encouragement to open up and start talking because he could tell you wanted to talk but just needed some coaxing…. I mean, obviously, because, again, why else would you be paying him if you didn't want to talk?
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08-18-2024, 03:15 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Yes I am sure I would freeze too.
I've seen multiple news reports of women getting raped and not even fighting back - they just freeze.
My ex strangled me actually and I froze and surrendered. I did not do anything afterwards either.
When faced with lethal danger by someone more powerful your survival instinct as a woman is just to surrender to survive. He put me in many other life threatening circumstances too and I never did anything.
08-18-2024, 03:20 AM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
I used to trust psychologists but I don’t anymore. When I was being abused I saw a counselor weekly for two years and he did nothing.
Of course he was trying to get you to open up, that's his damn job, and that's why you're paying him.
And the reason why you gave in to his manipulation was because you WANTED TO OPEN UP AND TALK… Why else would you have paid money to be his patient?
In this scenario, I'm not even sure if the word "manipulation" is appropriate, I think the word "encouragement" is more fitting, he was just giving you encouragement to open up and start talking because he could tell you wanted to talk but just needed some coaxing…. I mean, obviously, because, again, why else would you be paying him if you didn't want to talk?
And the reason why you gave in to his manipulation was because you WANTED TO OPEN UP AND TALK… Why else would you have paid money to be his patient?
In this scenario, I'm not even sure if the word "manipulation" is appropriate, I think the word "encouragement" is more fitting, he was just giving you encouragement to open up and start talking because he could tell you wanted to talk but just needed some coaxing…. I mean, obviously, because, again, why else would you be paying him if you didn't want to talk?
He was literally the only person I could talk to and that could have helped me stop the abuse. Instead he did nothing and just gave me basic self care advice like yoga and meditation and journaling etc. Which was BS because I needed a restraining order not a yoga class.
08-18-2024, 03:20 AM
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I know yeah i feel everyone is always against me srs
I just want a good time srs
I just want a good time srs
08-18-2024, 03:21 AM
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Originally Posted By buwbs⏩
* m8 her sausage chops look bang reyt srs
I know yeah i feel everyone is always against me srs
I just want a good time srs
I just want a good time srs
08-18-2024, 04:35 AM
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Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
They're just random people tbh - who tf studies psychology anyway except people whose life is a mess.
I used to trust psychologists but I don’t anymore. When I was being abused I saw a counselor weekly for two years and he did nothing.
He was literally the only person I could talk to and that could have helped me stop the abuse. Instead he did nothing and just gave me basic self care advice like yoga and meditation and journaling etc. Which was BS because I needed a restraining order not a yoga class.
He was literally the only person I could talk to and that could have helped me stop the abuse. Instead he did nothing and just gave me basic self care advice like yoga and meditation and journaling etc. Which was BS because I needed a restraining order not a yoga class.
I saw Candace Owens reporting on Freud and his compatriots, stating they were a bunch of homosexual kiddie diddlers.
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08-18-2024, 04:41 AM
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don't think i've ever been abused or dominated by anyone, so no..
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08-18-2024, 04:50 AM
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08-18-2024, 04:50 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
this thread and your other thread above it (women and BPD) are you talking about psychology
They're just random people tbh - who tf studies psychology anyway except people whose life is a mess.
I saw Candace Owens reporting on Freud and his compatriots, stating they were a bunch of homosexual kiddie diddlers.
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08-18-2024, 04:57 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
I studied biological science at uni. Psychology and understanding how the mind works is just a past-time for me.
this thread and your other thread above it (women and BPD) are you talking about psychology
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08-18-2024, 06:13 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
I like psychology in the sense of understanding the human mind.
this thread and your other thread above it (women and BPD) are you talking about psychology
I just don’t like psychologists because I think they often misunderstand situations and give bad advice. They are also generally not sufficiently aware of personality disorders like ASPD and NPD and BPD.
08-18-2024, 06:26 AM
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Fight flight freeze fawn
Are the 4 reactions to conflict. Seems like you chose fawn
If your in a situation like this again where you know your being manipulated and don't know what to do, the best thing is to just shut your trap while you figure out what to do
Are the 4 reactions to conflict. Seems like you chose fawn
If your in a situation like this again where you know your being manipulated and don't know what to do, the best thing is to just shut your trap while you figure out what to do
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08-18-2024, 06:32 AM
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Originally Posted By SaviorSelfJT⏩
That's the point - you know what's going on and you can't control it.
Fight flight freeze fawn
Are the 4 reactions to conflict. Seems like you chose fawn
If your in a situation like this again where you know your being manipulated and don't know what to do, the best thing is to just shut your trap while you figure out what to do
Are the 4 reactions to conflict. Seems like you chose fawn
If your in a situation like this again where you know your being manipulated and don't know what to do, the best thing is to just shut your trap while you figure out what to do
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08-18-2024, 06:32 AM
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Lol, the OP wasn't evactly what I was expecting.
But seriously, I've reached a point in life where there is no person who can have power over me without direct consent. As soon as anybody tries childishh abusive nonsense, I get up and walk away and never speak to them again. Had to do this to a best friend earlier this year, and it was a great decision. Feels like a massive weight has been lifted.
But seriously, I've reached a point in life where there is no person who can have power over me without direct consent. As soon as anybody tries childishh abusive nonsense, I get up and walk away and never speak to them again. Had to do this to a best friend earlier this year, and it was a great decision. Feels like a massive weight has been lifted.
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08-18-2024, 06:36 AM
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Originally Posted By SaviorSelfJT⏩
Yeah with my ex I always did freeze or fawn.
Fight flight freeze fawn
Are the 4 reactions to conflict. Seems like you chose fawn
If your in a situation like this again where you know your being manipulated and don't know what to do, the best thing is to just shut your trap while you figure out what to do
Are the 4 reactions to conflict. Seems like you chose fawn
If your in a situation like this again where you know your being manipulated and don't know what to do, the best thing is to just shut your trap while you figure out what to do
Now looking back I regret not fighting.
But maybe if I did fight I would be dead rn
08-18-2024, 06:39 AM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Yes I am also at the point where I just drop everyone who disturbs my peace from my life.
Lol, the OP wasn't evactly what I was expecting.
But seriously, I've reached a point in life where there is no person who can have power over me without direct consent. As soon as anybody tries childishh abusive nonsense, I get up and walk away and never speak to them again. Had to do this to a best friend earlier this year, and it was a great decision. Feels like a massive weight has been lifted.
But seriously, I've reached a point in life where there is no person who can have power over me without direct consent. As soon as anybody tries childishh abusive nonsense, I get up and walk away and never speak to them again. Had to do this to a best friend earlier this year, and it was a great decision. Feels like a massive weight has been lifted.
As a result I only talk to like eight people lmao
08-18-2024, 06:41 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Because they already obtained mind control over you.
That's the point - you know what's going on and you can't control it.
Mind control is very real srs. My ex got me to do a bunch of things I would never do without his control.
08-18-2024, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
You don't have to control it. Just stop talking. The room should be like this
That's the point - you know what's going on and you can't control it.
"So why don't you tell me more about your childhood hood?"
"…"
"Well?"
"…"
"Why aren't you saying anything?"
"…"
Then get up and leave
You can do the same thing for other conflicts
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