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Retired Amazon VP admits that his boss cucked him with his wife (brooooootal)
08-22-2024, 11:25 AM
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08-22-2024, 11:32 AM
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A CEO I worked for seduced my wife in retaliation for my pushback on him at work. He won. I got divorced and left the company. When I say I truly understand how some executive teams can be political snake pits, I trust you will believe me. Learn from my pain - do the following:
1) When you have a good manager, lean in and take advantage of it. 2) Spot the snakes. 3) Do excellent work, even for nasty leaders. 4) Don’t confront the snakes directly 5) Don’t become a snake
1) When you have a good manager, lean in and take advantage of it. While I “survived” bad bosses, most of my career progress came while working for good, honest, and helpful managers.
Hold on to these managers as much as you can. Help them grow and succeed so that you can stay together, and you can grow and succeed with them. See success as a partnership with the people you can trust.
Ultimately, the key to my career success was excelling when I had good managers and just surviving in the periods when I did not. Also, notice I say take advantage of “it”, not “them”. Take advantage of and benefit from having a good manager.
Don’t become dishonest and take advantage of someone else for your benefit. I recognized early on that my CEO in the divorce story was unethical and dishonest. My mistake was letting fear of a tough economy convince me to try to stay in the job and "win" by pushing back.
It cost me far more than I ever thought it could. Action: Do whatever you need to get to a good manager! Leave before the snake bites.
2) Spot the snakes. Generally, it doesn’t take long to figure out who is a good person and who is only looking out for themselves.
There are many ways to see through the dishonest people: – See if their actions match their words –Talk to others who have been there longer - they know! – Investigate their pasts - talk to someone who used to work for them but is now safely away
A smooth talker may fool you in person, particularly if you give people the benefit of the doubt. Observing carefully and doing your research can help you not fall for the charm of someone you shouldn’t trust.
Being cautious is important, but there is a big difference between being watchful and skeptical and being cynical and untrusting. Extend some trust in case your leader is a good person, but do not make yourself fully vulnerable until you know.
With the CEO I talk about, I had "spotted the snake" - my mistake was staying too long and getting bitten. To read about why you need to do excellent work for nasty execs, why you shouldn't confront them, and about not becoming a snake yourself, subscribe to our newsletter.
All the details can be found there:https://t.co/VxdoNlpWgr
Readers- What is the most stunning display of unethical leadership you have seen from the “snake pit?”
1) When you have a good manager, lean in and take advantage of it. 2) Spot the snakes. 3) Do excellent work, even for nasty leaders. 4) Don’t confront the snakes directly 5) Don’t become a snake
1) When you have a good manager, lean in and take advantage of it. While I “survived” bad bosses, most of my career progress came while working for good, honest, and helpful managers.
Hold on to these managers as much as you can. Help them grow and succeed so that you can stay together, and you can grow and succeed with them. See success as a partnership with the people you can trust.
Ultimately, the key to my career success was excelling when I had good managers and just surviving in the periods when I did not. Also, notice I say take advantage of “it”, not “them”. Take advantage of and benefit from having a good manager.
Don’t become dishonest and take advantage of someone else for your benefit. I recognized early on that my CEO in the divorce story was unethical and dishonest. My mistake was letting fear of a tough economy convince me to try to stay in the job and "win" by pushing back.
It cost me far more than I ever thought it could. Action: Do whatever you need to get to a good manager! Leave before the snake bites.
2) Spot the snakes. Generally, it doesn’t take long to figure out who is a good person and who is only looking out for themselves.
There are many ways to see through the dishonest people: – See if their actions match their words –Talk to others who have been there longer - they know! – Investigate their pasts - talk to someone who used to work for them but is now safely away
A smooth talker may fool you in person, particularly if you give people the benefit of the doubt. Observing carefully and doing your research can help you not fall for the charm of someone you shouldn’t trust.
Being cautious is important, but there is a big difference between being watchful and skeptical and being cynical and untrusting. Extend some trust in case your leader is a good person, but do not make yourself fully vulnerable until you know.
With the CEO I talk about, I had "spotted the snake" - my mistake was staying too long and getting bitten. To read about why you need to do excellent work for nasty execs, why you shouldn't confront them, and about not becoming a snake yourself, subscribe to our newsletter.
All the details can be found there:https://t.co/VxdoNlpWgr
Readers- What is the most stunning display of unethical leadership you have seen from the “snake pit?”
08-22-2024, 11:34 AM
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Ask his ex wife what lessons she's learned, too
08-22-2024, 11:41 AM
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"Do excellent work, even for nasty leaders"
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This is a loser's mindset and he rightly deserves to be cucked... I proudly do ZERO work for anyone whether they're a good or bad, and I proudly proclaim that my goal in life is to leech off my employer.
"never take advantage of other people for your own benefit."
^^^
Maybe I'm too soft, but I kinda agree. I personally don't like to take advantage of other people, although I have zero qualms about taking advantage of the employer.
If work needs to be done and there's no way around it, then I'll do a piss-poor job and then "sell" it to the executive team as stellar work, and since I'm master of slipery salesmanship, I know I can get them to buy it.
So yes, I agree there's no need to take advantage of people.
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This is a loser's mindset and he rightly deserves to be cucked... I proudly do ZERO work for anyone whether they're a good or bad, and I proudly proclaim that my goal in life is to leech off my employer.
"never take advantage of other people for your own benefit."
^^^
Maybe I'm too soft, but I kinda agree. I personally don't like to take advantage of other people, although I have zero qualms about taking advantage of the employer.
If work needs to be done and there's no way around it, then I'll do a piss-poor job and then "sell" it to the executive team as stellar work, and since I'm master of slipery salesmanship, I know I can get them to buy it.
So yes, I agree there's no need to take advantage of people.
Everything I post is satire.
Tricknology Grand Master.
08-22-2024, 12:02 PM
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Send me money for my kids or I will neg you
08-22-2024, 12:26 PM
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anyone found pics of the ex wife yet?
08-22-2024, 12:33 PM
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Did he delete the post?
08-22-2024, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted By coast2coastam⏩
lmao looks like he did. His substack about it is still up:Did he delete the post?
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08-22-2024, 12:52 PM
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08-22-2024, 12:53 PM
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Bro idc care what anyone says Jeff Bezos is a fuggin MOGGER SUPREME
08-22-2024, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
probably thought he would get sympathyGood, never should have posted that to begin with. Not sure why people feel the need to publicly embarrass themselves like that.
08-22-2024, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
I don't know... now he's poor and divorced but still a cuck whereas he could have been a blissfully ignorant cuck while married and rich. At some point you probably are just better off embracing being a cuck.Kinda did him a favor didn't he?
08-22-2024, 01:32 PM
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This is part and parcel of being a wageslave.
08-22-2024, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Mischiavelli⏩
Yea 100%. Dude was a VP at Amazon so not only high up but making bank himself. However, winning the rat race just makes you a fatter rat. Guy debased himself likely several times for his 'career' (see his ****g advice of doing great work for bad leaders). Live by the cuck, die by the cuck. Contrary to what corporate strivers will try to tell you, there is very little alpha in being a corporate drone. Rising to the top just means you are willing to put your powerpoint deck ahead of your family, friends, and yourself - congrats!This is part and parcel of being a wageslave.
08-22-2024, 02:32 PM
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He probably had a **** ton of amazon stock, it doesnt even matter he can just get another wife. 99 percent of women are trash, who even cares, even if they have a millionaire they still want a higher status man. Look at scottie pippens wife, he had 6 championship rings, millions of dollars, super tall, assume massive BBC based on his height and she still left him for a younger tyrone and Michael Jordons son to really rub it in.
all the people roasting the amazon VP have to pay the rent every 1st and have to go to work every monday. He could literally never work again in his life if he wanted to. that is ultimate freedom
all the people roasting the amazon VP have to pay the rent every 1st and have to go to work every monday. He could literally never work again in his life if he wanted to. that is ultimate freedom
08-22-2024, 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
whatever, how many guys with trad wives that they met in highschool still got cucked. there is no winning in it.Yea 100%. Dude was a VP at Amazon so not only high up but making bank himself. However, winning the rat race just makes you a fatter rat. Guy debased himself likely several times for his 'career' (see his ****g advice of doing great work for bad leaders). Live by the cuck, die by the cuck. Contrary to what corporate strivers will try to tell you, there is very little alpha in being a corporate drone. Rising to the top just means you are willing to put your powerpoint deck ahead of your family, friends, and yourself - congrats!
this is a society wide cultural issue in the west now. This is not something that is really in control of individual men at this point. There is only so much you can do. you can do all the right things and still get cucked.
08-22-2024, 03:28 PM
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The guy is just saying he should have left before his vindictive boss retaliated.
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08-22-2024, 03:42 PM
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Honestly, if you're some C Suite guy and you're getting cucked by a coworker around your same level, he did you a favor. You also can probably get out of paying any spousal support in that case. Win-win.
08-22-2024, 03:59 PM
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Lol @ bringing your wife around other men like that. It's not about insecurity, it's about drawing a line between your work and social life. The guys I work with are a mixture of nerds and wild animals. Why tf would I take my woman near them? They don't deserve to breathe the same air as her.
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Originally Posted By Zelensky⏩
Reminds me of deadwoodgregg
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