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post 1543836761 02-14-2018, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur
Absolutely absolutely true!
You'll make it brah.
why do you find that to be the case though?

i always find a girl i have a connection with and tell myself to try it out. but then there is always something about them that turns me off completely, its discouraging to say the least because "my best self" wont be for another few years.
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post 1543837021 02-14-2018, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted By NEXTEPICBULG91
why do you find that to be the case though?

i always find a girl i have a connection with and tell myself to try it out. but then there is always something about them that turns me off completely, its discouraging to say the least because "my best self" wont be for another few years.
are you talking LTR? Because if so, that cant be rushed. On the other hand you can have a crappy interaction in about 15 minutes from now, just get on Tinder
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post 1543837211 02-14-2018, 08:13 PM
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Originally Posted By NEXTEPICBULG91
why do you find that to be the case though?
Quality women are intuitive. They can smell lies and narcissism.
If you hook up with a woman and she is not intuative, beware. She may be an emo sucker and needs to feed.
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post 1543837731 02-14-2018, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur
So there may be times when you have a family that you have to work 2 jobs (65 hours a week) just to keep the family taken care of. If you are not ready to display this kind of effort and integrity, don't start the family. Stay single and stay the master of you time.

But do not forget, an awesome family is worth every bit of effort and strain you have to go through. Stay strong.
This is gold.

Im sorry to say i really didnt get the advice in the original post. Which bothers me slightly because im around op age when he joined bb.com
post 1543843441 02-14-2018, 09:27 PM
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will take this advice to heart, kind of needed that
post 1543845281 02-14-2018, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted By GravityLee
This is gold.
repped, thx
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

Screenwriter- u mad brah?
post 1544528041 02-21-2018, 10:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur
Well guys, I hit 50 years old this year.
I have had good years and not good years. But if I had the opportunity to go back and talk to 20 year old me, and have 20 year old me listen, this is what I would say:

-Figure out early what is important; you cannot do this early enough
-Don�t spend so much money on liquor. I could have bought a brand new SUV by now
-Pick a few things and do them well and stick with them, quit chasing random crap
-Select a career you love regardless of the money, cause you never know when you will be kicked to the curb, unless you want to be self-employed.
-You treat people like crap, you will get treated like crap. Expect it, and no cryin
-Eat right.
-What�s outside (aesthetic) is important, but what�s more important is who you are inside (no whiteknight, just reality, deal with it)
-Insecure people always have to have someone/something else to blame. Don�t be that guy.

(More later, and BTW no amount of rage on your part will change the validity of my words):
I like the way you think about Life my man repped
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post 1544528181 02-21-2018, 10:54 PM
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Originally Posted By kennyreid95
I like the way you think about Life my man repped
likewise
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

Screenwriter- u mad brah?
post 1544824001 02-25-2018, 10:23 AM
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Don't be a hypocrite. Draw lines, take stands, be authentic.

Even if everyone else in the world are acting like trolls, don't be that guy.
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

Screenwriter- u mad brah?
post 1544829621 02-25-2018, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Deenur
Don't be a hypocrite. Draw lines, take stands, be authentic.

Even if everyone else in the world are acting like trolls, don't be that guy.
I agree with not drinking alcohol
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post 1544830681 02-25-2018, 12:04 PM
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because Life couldn't find you
because you were hiding in a box
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post 1545072171 02-27-2018, 08:57 PM
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because you were hiding in a box
waiting for your extraordinary destiny

profundity on the MISC?

Much wow.
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

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post 1545073641 02-27-2018, 09:12 PM
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My advice to the 20 year old me is this:

Stop smoking so much weed and finish school dumbass.

I have a good career now but i dread going to work. Never found a passion that could support me but thats life i guess. Man the phuck up.
LOL @ people who follow politics
post 1545074261 02-27-2018, 09:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Miked1978
My advice to the 20 year old me is this:

Stop smoking so much weed and finish school dumbass.
repped
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

Screenwriter- u mad brah?
post 1545761311 03-07-2018, 09:57 AM
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Oldbrah,

do you think people are Mostly Good or Mostly Bad?
Any way of identifying yourself based on something you've done rather than what you have or are?
No?
Then I'm not surprised you're unhappy.
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Originally Posted By codefreeze
Oldbrah,

do you think people are Mostly Good or Mostly Bad?
As it is written: “There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks God.
All have turned away, there is no one who does good, not even one.”
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

Screenwriter- u mad brah?
post 1545767331 03-07-2018, 10:50 AM
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probably has been said already but give brief advice on:

Investing
Girls

Im 27
post 1545767591 03-07-2018, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted By tunafish01
probably has been said already but give brief advice on:

Investing
Girls

Im 27
The more you put away now, the faster it grows. Do anything, do something. drink 2 less beers at the pub and put in savings.
Girls: dont waste time on randos. Concentrate on career/goals and you will find the one.
If you have no desire for LTR, I can't help. Most people that dont want LTR are immense energy/time suckers.
They give very little and take take take. Narcissism rules their paradigms. When you are dried up, they move on.
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

Screenwriter- u mad brah?
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Originally Posted By Deenur
As it is written: “There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks God.
All have turned away, there is no one who does good, not even one.”
That's allusive, but I'll take it

Reminds of:

"No man is clever enough to know all the evil he does." - Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Any way of identifying yourself based on something you've done rather than what you have or are?
No?
Then I'm not surprised you're unhappy.
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Originally Posted By Deenur
The more you put away now, the faster it grows. Do anything, do something. drink 2 less beers at the pub and put in savings.
Girls: dont waste time on randos. Concentrate on career/goals and you will find the one.
If you have no desire for LTR, I can't help. Most people that dont want LTR are immense energy/time suckers.
They give very little and take take take. Narcissism rules their paradigms. When you are dried up, they move on.
Thanks. Im always putting money away. Have way more invested than 99% of my friends/people my age. Being a loser in college paid off haha.

As far as girls, Im a 7.5 but just havent found the one yet.
post 1545768761 03-07-2018, 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted By tunafish01
Thanks. Im always putting money away. Have way more invested than 99% of my friends/people my age. Being a loser in college paid off haha.

As far as girls, Im a 7.5 but just havent found the one yet.
you will, there is "the one" for each person.
be smart enough to recognize when she comes along.
just celebrated my 30th year with my sweetie.
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Originally Posted By Deenur
The more you put away now, the faster it grows. Do anything, do something. drink 2 less beers at the pub and put in savings.
Girls: dont waste time on randos. Concentrate on career/goals and you will find the one.
If you have no desire for LTR, I can't help.Most people that dont want LTR are immense energy/time suckers.
They give very little and take take take. Narcissism rules their paradigms. When you are dried up, they move on.
Take note, misc.
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Originally Posted By DCutch
Take note, misc.
repped
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what is car salesman doing in this thread cottdam?

OP: great thread, thx for the gems provided here.

can you give more insight about career and goals in general?

thx
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Originally Posted By Sternentreue
what is car salesman doing in this thread cottdam?

OP: great thread, thx for the gems provided here.

can you give more insight about career and goals in general?


thx
Do what you have passion for. If passion is actually money, find that career that can give you the most money asap.
But DO NOT do something you hate just for the money. I spent 10 years at a company doing just for the money, and in 2010 when all the layoffs hit, I lost my position. Its just business, and I am not upset with them. But I should have been building somethin else on the side.
Delayed gratification bro, all the fun can come later.
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Screenwriter- u mad brah?
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On that 5 year old film project, I finally got a hold of a current pro wrestler that I wanted to talk to for the lead role. I talked with him today, he emailed me this:

"Thank you for the call today. It was great talking with you. I was very excited to hear some of the developments thus far. Please consider this my confirmation 100% that I am committed to this project. I’m very excited for it and really looking forward to it. Please let me know when we can move forward and finalize my participation. I look forward to hearing from you and working with you. I will give you 1000% of my effort on production. Thanks again and talk soon. Take care my friend."

2018 gonna be a stellar year brahs. Believe in yourself, and go out and crush it!
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

Screenwriter- u mad brah?
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Originally Posted By Deenur
On that 5 year old film project, I finally got a hold of a current pro wrestler that I wanted to talk to for the lead role. I talked with him today, he emailed me this:

"Thank you for the call today. It was great talking with you. I was very excited to hear some of the developments thus far. Please consider this my confirmation 100% that I am committed to this project. I’m very excited for it and really looking forward to it. Please let me know when we can move forward and finalize my participation. I look forward to hearing from you and working with you. I will give you 1000% of my effort on production. Thanks again and talk soon. Take care my friend."

2018 gonna be a stellar year brahs. Believe in yourself, and go out and crush it!
Good $hit, bro.
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Go crush it! Believe in you, even when no one else will. Dont quit!!!
Dont quit!!!
Dont quit!!!
Dont quit!!!
Dont quit!!!
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

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post 1546474211 03-15-2018, 02:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Deenur
Go crush it! Believe in you, even when no one else will. Dont quit!!!
Dont quit!!!
Dont quit!!!
Dont quit!!!
Dont quit!!!
All hail Deenur. Those who succeed are those who do not quit. Best advice on the misc.
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And don't suck. There is that.
The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government. Thomas Jefferson

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