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Ex wife contacted me after 3 years being divorced
Ex wife contacted me after 3 years being divorced
05-29-2016, 10:14 PM
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Things didn't work out so she's going to a sure thing since you guys had history together. She probably also assumes you are single and ripe for picking based on said history.
Entertain her if you want by catching up if you truly want to know what she's up to lately, but just know that by getting involved you're instantly high on the scale of getting back together at some point, especially since you already admitted of having a history.
Entertain her if you want by catching up if you truly want to know what she's up to lately, but just know that by getting involved you're instantly high on the scale of getting back together at some point, especially since you already admitted of having a history.
05-29-2016, 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted By freuddcoco⏩
My reply was srs as fuk mang.guys plz be srs and think it out completely before typing. this is a srs decision and me and OP will rep srs answers
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05-29-2016, 10:15 PM
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this is so dumb, provided op isnt a trolling. It's simple can op see her just once (for curiosity sake) and move on with his life as he has for the last 3 years? Does he want to see her more than once? Their past relationship obviously didnt work out, and people do change, what has happened here?
anyway if the answer to the first question is no, politely decline.
if the answer to the first question is yes, and the second unsure, just say youd like to meet up with her, but not her kids.. and make it clear you are not sure on meeting them now or any point in the foreseeable future.
anyway if the answer to the first question is no, politely decline.
if the answer to the first question is yes, and the second unsure, just say youd like to meet up with her, but not her kids.. and make it clear you are not sure on meeting them now or any point in the foreseeable future.
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05-29-2016, 10:16 PM
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05-29-2016, 10:18 PM
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A meet up wouldn't hurt. Just be cordial and make sure to keep it professional and if she tries to trap you with her vag then politely decline, then ride off to the sunset like an alpha male. Much ragrets will go through her and wished she had been with you the entire time instead.
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05-29-2016, 10:18 PM
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05-29-2016, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted By SRTEvan⏩
him and itouchyou back in the same week.. cant handle.in on mystery lifter thread and all the unawares lel
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05-29-2016, 10:19 PM
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very subtle trolling, if you did it under a different username you'd have us all by the gabber
05-29-2016, 10:22 PM
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If you have an interest to meet her again you should do it. What is life but a series of opportunities ? I however would suggest you make to clear you only want to meet her and get to know her. It's destructive / manipulative to be introduced to the kids because you're not a sure thing. She should understand that and want to protect her kids just as much as you should want to protect yourself emotionally and financially. Agree to a meet up with strictly her, if you find yourself interested after meeting her continue to see solely her and play the field just like you would with any woman. There's a lot you need to know about her now. (Also people never change.) Play the long game until you either decide you want something with her(meet the kids) or you'll be passing.
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05-29-2016, 10:23 PM
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05-29-2016, 10:31 PM
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I am confused as to how you broke up 3 years ago, and yet she now has kid(S) and is already broken up with the new guy? How does all that happen in 3 years?
05-29-2016, 10:32 PM
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05-29-2016, 10:33 PM
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I'd say just meet up and see where it takes you. As of right now, your assuming things and most of the replies in this thread are also filled with assumptions. You should meet up with her to find out real facts and go from there. It's not like if you meet up with her your going to be forced to get back together and live with her or anything like that. As another miscer has said, go in with a clear head and go in with intentions to simply catch up exchange about where you guys are in life right now.
05-29-2016, 10:33 PM
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You probably want to meet with her out of curiosity and maybe old feelings (chit I mean 9 years brah). Be real with yourself and the situation, and be a man not a fukkin beta cuck - you have that choice. Take a step back and realize what she did and the fact that she's really just looking for some beta bucks.
I would not suggest meeting up unless you have your emotions absolutely in check as in you're over her 100%. If that's the case go for the bang otherwise (and you need to be honest with yourself) don't go because she may suck you back into the memories and old feelings and you make a cuck out of yourself.
Being me, I'd probably go meet with her once to fulfill the curiosity but draw the line there and from there go back to NC. This takes some discipline if you're able to be sucked back in cuz of feels so tread carefully.
I would not suggest meeting up unless you have your emotions absolutely in check as in you're over her 100%. If that's the case go for the bang otherwise (and you need to be honest with yourself) don't go because she may suck you back into the memories and old feelings and you make a cuck out of yourself.
Being me, I'd probably go meet with her once to fulfill the curiosity but draw the line there and from there go back to NC. This takes some discipline if you're able to be sucked back in cuz of feels so tread carefully.
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05-29-2016, 10:34 PM
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05-29-2016, 10:37 PM
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Her value has gone down because nobody wants her baggage, so she's falling back to you. It'll be a sweet deal for her because she'll be getting child support from her ex and an additional source of income from you + you being cucked in to raising those kids.
If this is a traditional ML, thread then I'm obviously reading too much in to this lol. I want to believe.
If this is a traditional ML, thread then I'm obviously reading too much in to this lol. I want to believe.
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05-29-2016, 10:37 PM
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Heres my thoughts,
Whether you agree to meet up or not is completely up to you, the divorce was civil and theres no reason not to continue being civil. Now I am no expert on relationships, but from other peoples experiences and my knowledge of human nature let me tell you this; perish the thought of giving your relationship a second go. These things almost never work out. You both may savor the memories of the good times, but when the hang ups start to occur again the unhappiness will resurface with great speed and severity. You already have the experience and familiarity of a separation and it will make the second time around that much more feasible. I do not know of a single couple who successfully remarried and had it workout. You need to make a rational, logical decision right now that no matter how you feel you know that it will not work out. The end
Good luck
Whether you agree to meet up or not is completely up to you, the divorce was civil and theres no reason not to continue being civil. Now I am no expert on relationships, but from other peoples experiences and my knowledge of human nature let me tell you this; perish the thought of giving your relationship a second go. These things almost never work out. You both may savor the memories of the good times, but when the hang ups start to occur again the unhappiness will resurface with great speed and severity. You already have the experience and familiarity of a separation and it will make the second time around that much more feasible. I do not know of a single couple who successfully remarried and had it workout. You need to make a rational, logical decision right now that no matter how you feel you know that it will not work out. The end
Good luck
05-29-2016, 10:39 PM
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If I was horny and in need of some loving, yes. But then no contact after that. And I would explain to her that it'd be just that before so there were no other expectations.
05-29-2016, 10:58 PM
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Originally Posted By ThePumpmaster⏩
This guy nailed it.She wants you to be her beta provider.
"Meet my kids"... just LOL.
"Meet my kids"... just LOL.
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05-29-2016, 11:21 PM
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05-29-2016, 11:25 PM
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Originally Posted By KingRexxxy⏩
Pm me to remind me to rep u when im off rctook 3 years off from you to try something new(black guys) ended up with a couple kids to different baby daddies and now she wants the responsible guy(you) to take care of them. Run op
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