Lmao she's lying. She's good at it but doesn't want you to realise that. It maybe makes her feel slutty especially if he ex used the fact that we was good at it to make her feel easy or slurry.

So she's temporarily turned off by the idea of bjs. But trust me she's good at it. Give her time, she doesn't want to me pressured into it. She'll do it when she's ready.

This is true,dont believe thats on you, a girl will blow you, and continue to blow you..until she gets your attention and thinks her blow is control ...it's happened in 5 of 5 serious relationships, my nuts smell like axe spray met a wave of honey, it's bc they know...that's all..I like BJ's but if your going to withhold...I kick you to curb and replace with new mouth...redraider? Marry me

ex gf

Let your gfs bring her previous relationship problems to your own brahs

Maybe she really has had past issues being abused or something like that?

Thats gonna be a no dawg

Id be out of there faster than OLd dirty bastard at a child support arraignment

That's not a gf

That's insane OP because actually my gf doesn't like going down on me, which sucks, this being my first relationship, it was a new experience and an amazing one at that. She sat down with me one day and told me she didn't like it, saying how she felt sick after a while. I dug deeper into the problem and I found out it was really to do with a previous relationship where she was forced into doing things and it essentially brought back bad memories of that. Plus she says she didn't like the taste of a dink.

Now at the time I made it very clear that it wasn't an issue and it was completely understandable, but now I've realized that I do want it in our relationship. I always give oral to her as I know she enjoys it, it's not exactly eating tasty strawberry shortcake but I still do it for the sake of her pleasure. Which makes me think why doesn't she do the same for me?

I want to talk to her about it, maybe reassure her that it can be done at her pace and how she likes and I wont interfere like her previous bf did. Whats everyone's opinions on this? Worth trying to persuade her or should I just accept that it wont be a part of our relationship?

Are blowjobs that important to you, that you would seriously consider ruining or ending a relationship?

If she doesn't want to do it, I would leave it be. But if blowjobs really arethatimportant to you... End it.

I think the middle ground is to talk to her about it. Tell her it's important to you and that you'd like to try to find a way to get her past her past abusive relationship issues. Honestly, if she doesn't work on her issues, they're going to affect every future relationship she tries to get into. If she still tries to just say that it's the taste, then I'd guess she's full of chit about the past relationship and just doesn't want to do it. If you're clean and don't smell or something, then the skin on your dik is going to taste like the skin on any other part of your body.

if she loves you, who cares

> GF who gives BJ
> ex-GF who didnt give BJs


Pick 1.

agreed

Wtf brah. Wash yourself. Dinks aren't supposed to have a "taste".

it means that you are not her Chad, srs

all of the girls that were really into me wanted to pretty much be featured in my private facial abuse episode

You should talk to her tho, maybe you are just a filthy animal and don't wash your dink or maybe some other weird health issue that you don't notice

She does not see a future with you bro.

Do you know the Chris Hemsworth rule? Imagine if CH ran into your girl in a mall or something, and he asked her out. This is a fictional world bro i know that could never happen as he cant simply walk around regular people but just pretend he did in this scenario. He's the fukin guy from Thor and one of the sexiest MFers alive. Then they go out, have a wonderful time, dude is actually very charismatic and funny, very flirty as well. Just the fukin perfect dude. Now imagine they even get together, and the sexy fuk starts treating your girl good and giving her the respect she deserves, her place. Chris Hemsworth brings her to his family for a dinner, then excuses himself and ask your girl to join him in the kitchen, then he pulls out his 9" cock and tells her to give him a BJ.

I mean, its Chris Hemsworth, do you really think shes going to pull out her bull**** ass abuse story about why she doesnt want to give BJs? You think shes going to let CH think shes a boring ass stuck up bitch? No bro, you bet your fukin ass she is going to blow the **** out of that dick while his family is on the next room, and she will enjoy every second of it. She will get hornier by it, shes sucking a great looking guy off while his family is on the other room. The last thing that CH would hear in that universe is "oh i dont do BJs honey" lmao.


But yeah bro, trust me on this one when a girl really loves you and wants to be with you, and values what she has with you and wants to keep it that way, she will do anything to please you as long as it doesnt hurt her or endanger her or whatever. Sucking a dick for ten minutes, even if the girl isnt horny at that time, its a small price to pay for being with the love of your life, just as if you love a woman and she asks you to get up on sunday to go to church, even if you dont want to you will go just to make her happy.


Dont do Bjs is the biggest bull**** out there, do not be a victim of it bro. Do not. Ive met super goody good girls that do not sleep around, super shy and whatever that are AT LEAST WILLING to suck the dick, may be a bit shy at first because they dont know how to but if you teach them they will be like ok ill try,FOR YOU. Some of them like it some of them not but lets be honest, if they want to keep you they will want to make you the happiest man alive, and the happiest man alive gets his dick sucked and they know it.

you mean ex girlfriend didn't give bjs

In the kitchen where anyone can walk in? I'd turn that shyt down. Especially if I like some other guy. Pretty disrespectful to drag me away just to get blown where everyone's food was and will be cooked.










Maybe in the bathroom if he really plays his cards right.

How does it feel to know some other guy used face fukked your girl on the daily, and she allowed it and probably enjoyed it immensely. Meanwhile she won't even give your little donger some pity licks.

u try washing your dink?

Harsh truth incoming, OP.


You phrased your thread title incorrectly. It's not a case of "Girlfriend won't give BJs" but rather "Girlfriend won't give YOU BJs". You've admitted as much in the first post that she did indeed zuk dink in previous relationships and possibly non-relationships (ie, one-night stands).


So to be clear -even if she didn't want to, she was willing to do this with other men.Just not you.

The actual activity is irrelevant. You could substitute any verb for oral. "Misc, gf used to bake coconut cookies for other guys, but won't for me." "Misc, gf used to replace the rear axial on the corollas of other guys, but won't for mine."

And this is in the early stages of the relationship when she's at her best (when she's trying to impress you and paint the best picture of herself to you). It's all downhill from here, brah.


The writing is on the wall, bro. You know what kind of relationship you're looking for. And routine bj's are pretty basic - you're not making tough demands of her. What do you think will be her response when you do make tough demands from her?

End the relationship today. Be strong - misc is here for you bro. Don't make a million vague excuses or think "oh, misc doesn't understand." I've actually been in your exact situation, and it was tough to end it but I'm extremely grateful that I did. Your next gf may be the most cock-gobbling fanatic ever. Go out and find her. But first lose the repressed chain.

Listen to your elder miscers, op.

She told him that he doesn't like it.

He told her it was OK.

She was clear about it, if you re-read the OP he says that he made it clear to her that it wasn't a problem.

OP chose to continue to eat her pussy after that.

Also, I don't think anyone is obliged to reciprocate a sex act.

I eat pussy because I genuinely love the look and smell of pussy, and watching the girl squirm... Not simply to get a blowjob. If I didn't enjoy it, I wouldn't do it.

People in this thread are right OP, there are no chicks that doesn't like to give BJs. She's just no that into you and probably just bridging the time with you until she has the chance to suck off a Chad that she really is attracted to (if she isn't doing it already on the side). A girl that is really into you would suck the chit out of your dink. I also wouldn't go down on a lot of women but I surely would eat out a hot chick like Paige Spiranac until my tongue stops working.

But do you give her bjs op ?












































Wait wut

This lmao. If you love someone and know something makes them happy and it doesn't cost your life anything to do it, there is no reason not to do it.

Being someone that accidentally married someone who doesn't like giving BJ's, get out while you still can. ****ing sucks. And nothing I say make makes any difference...

Accidentally ?



Right ......