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post 1611604971 07-24-2020, 11:27 PM
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I haven't considered suicide in years, and i decided years ago that if i ever considered it again, i'd go here, camp at the top for 1 week, and if i still feel the same, jump off.



Either way i want to go there one day
post 1611605451 07-24-2020, 11:40 PM
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Originally Posted By pengh⏩
It is but some people have it really bad. Anyone that hasn't had mental issues will never understand. You just won't understand. At all.

Life is very precious though.
Thanks for showing actual empathy rather than beating the proverbial dead horse.

The inability for many idiots these days to reach out, engage and help people in need is why we have social issues.

I would make a thread trying to educate the young (who are mostly manlets), but I am “access denied on this server” now. How will they learn without me?
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post 1611605701 07-24-2020, 11:46 PM
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It's easy to say that when you are the one feeling hopeless and seeing no future where things get better.

You just want to make the pain stop
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post 1611605881 07-24-2020, 11:51 PM
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Originally Posted By nnodcvcker⏩
It's easy to say that when you are the one feeling hopeless and seeing no future where things get better.

You just want to make the pain stop
I have been watching you. You will make it. You have a lot of sense built into you. It is your gift and it will guide you through life well. Let this be something you can continue to hold onto to keep you secure on your uphill climb in life.
"The manlet is a savage beast that knows no moral bound. After falling in disgrace to a manmore, a ravaged manlet would not hesitate to come from behind and land a sucker punch/ swing with a rock to the back of a manmore's head. They are ruthless and you need to spend some more time in the gutter to even begin trying to comprehend what goes on in their minds."

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post 1611606851 07-25-2020, 12:22 AM
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this is truth OP

I know it isn't worth it...been there before
post 1611608061 07-25-2020, 12:54 AM
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Sad stuff
Hope you get better and hope their families can find peace
post 1611608361 07-25-2020, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Suicide is ****ing selfish.

It's like strapping a bomb to yourself then running into 10 of your closest friends and family and letting the bomb go off.

You die and your loved ones suffer the impact and they have to live with those scars.

Nothing in life is THAT terrible you need to off yourself. I've been depressed in the past so I know about feeling down and felt like I understood suicide ideation but nah don't do it.
it's almost like people who commit suicide are mentally ill and don't give a damn about rationalizing it

telling them that they're being selfish is surely a great way to get them to seek help

braindead take
post 1611608381 07-25-2020, 01:08 AM
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Spare a thought for Hillary and Bill Clinton bro.

They've had 50+ of their closest friends and acquaintances commit suicide.

jk'ing aside.

Had one of the mates from the school of infantry back in the day commit suicide 4 days before Christmas a few years ago after he was medically discharged from the Army. Another 'statistic' for VA that nobody cares about.
post 1611615511 07-25-2020, 06:00 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Suicide is ****ing selfish.

It's like strapping a bomb to yourself then running into 10 of your closest friends and family and letting the bomb go off.

You die and your loved ones suffer the impact and they have to live with those scars.

Nothing in life is THAT terrible you need to off yourself. I've been depressed in the past so I know about feeling down and felt like I understood suicide ideation but nah don't do it.
If it's selfish to live and die on my own terms, how much more selfish is it for you to expect me to live and die on your terms? Should I live in constant pain so you don't suffer a little sadness on the occasion you think of me?
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post 1611615921 07-25-2020, 06:12 AM
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That attitude is definitely the only one to take up with anyone who is considering self harm. To be entirely honest I don't disagree that sometimes life is not worth living for in limited cases, but at the same time what we have to do is to help the individual fight against it.

People in that state of mind are not the best decision makers, and reinforcing those negative thoughts by supporting that kind of idea is not acceptable. If they are at a point where that decision has to be made, they will make it on their own. But all external forces should focus on helping overcome those urges not amplify them. Obviously this statement is mostly related to mental health, if someone is at end of life moments and in excruciating pain... there are some scenarios where other factors come into play.
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post 1611616651 07-25-2020, 06:31 AM
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A buddy at work took his life at the beginning of this year. Ive developed a pretty bad panic disorder since then, **** ****ed me up bad man.
post 1611616801 07-25-2020, 06:34 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Suicide is ****ing selfish.

It's like strapping a bomb to yourself then running into 10 of your closest friends and family and letting the bomb go off.

You die and your loved ones suffer the impact and they have to live with those scars.

Nothing in life is THAT terrible you need to off yourself. I've been depressed in the past so I know about feeling down and felt like I understood suicide ideation but nah don't do it.
What a dumb fukkin comment. YOU are the selfish one, because you only care about how YOU will cope without that person.
But you dont care what this person is going through, you want them to stay alive just because its the “right” thing to say.
People that off themselves usually tried everything in their power to change their situation and simply realize that there is no light at the end of the tunnel.
They just want their pain to stop and see suicide as the only way to end this nightmare called life..and thats completely understandable
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post 1611654691 07-25-2020, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By forthenoodz⏩
Do you think the BLM marchers care if you die? or the liberals who want you to accept gay marriage as equal to heterosexual marraige?

they don't mind you dead, they want you as their slave to listen to them and accept their teachings.

and i rather die than be a slave to anyone.
so, i got a neg from someone for this post stating that:

"It’s not about politics"

i don't know what to make of it lol, if i'm considering suicide, should i care about politics or not?

i never saw it from that lens (i.e. IS THIS POLITICS) and this just makes me feel more awful, i'm seriously contemplating suicide now.

I just wanted to be open about why i've thought about suicide and i get a neg? i'm so sad and tired of this earth. i'm not even accepted on the misc and my personality isn't accepted anywhere.
post 1611655111 07-25-2020, 04:21 PM
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Originally Posted By forthenoodz⏩
so, i got a neg from someone for this post stating that:

"It’s not about politics"

i don't know what to make of it lol, if i'm considering suicide, should i care about politics or not?

i never saw it from that lens (i.e. IS THIS POLITICS) and this just makes me feel more awful, i'm seriously contemplating suicide now.

I just wanted to be open about why i've thought about suicide and i get a neg? i'm so sad and tired of this earth. i'm not even accepted on the misc and my personality isn't accepted anywhere.
don't let green squares on a bodybuilding forum full of mentally ill spergs dictate how you feel in real life

i can't solve your problems but i can tell you with absolute certainty that this isn't something that should push you over the edge
post 1611657561 07-25-2020, 04:49 PM
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agreed op, it's a common message, but it needs to be said. I've been low, and I mean real fukin low, and it felt like for a while the only way to rid my mind of this horrible thought process I was going through, was literally to end it all. You have to be strong enough to fight another day, and another one after that, so on and so forth.

People get caught up on this idea that life is supposed to make you happy. That isn't the point of all of this, it never was
post 1611657891 07-25-2020, 04:53 PM
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post 1611658491 07-25-2020, 05:00 PM
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f u op i'll do what i want
post 1611659511 07-25-2020, 05:09 PM
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i know 2 people that lost everything from the covid hoax and off'd themselves.
post 1611659551 07-25-2020, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted By pUniCepts⏩
If it's selfish to live and die on my own terms, how much more selfish is it for you to expect me to live and die on your terms? Should I live in constant pain so you don't suffer a little sadness on the occasion you think of me?
This.

I've never understood this sort of criticism. If the person was mentally well, they wouldn't think these thoughts. You might as well say they should have stopped being depressed.
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post 1611660311 07-25-2020, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted By steve447⏩
I agree suicide is never the answer. I've never shared this on the misc before but 3 years ago when I was 17 I tried to hang myself at that point in my life I was so depressed and suicidal and hated everything and wanted it to be over but I'm glad my suicide attempt failed because even though whatever you're going through feels like it will never end it trust me it does get better
I'm glad it failed.

OP, I am so very sorry for your losses.I can't even imagine losing one friend, let alone 2, especially close together.
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post 1611660351 07-25-2020, 05:19 PM
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Originally Posted By forthenoodz⏩
so, i got a neg from someone for this post stating that:

"It’s not about politics"

i don't know what to make of it lol, if i'm considering suicide, should i care about politics or not?

i never saw it from that lens (i.e. IS THIS POLITICS) and this just makes me feel more awful, i'm seriously contemplating suicide now.

I just wanted to be open about why i've thought about suicide and i get a neg? i'm so sad and tired of this earth. i'm not even accepted on the misc and my personality isn't accepted anywhere.
brah.

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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Suicide is ****ing selfish.

It's like strapping a bomb to yourself then running into 10 of your closest friends and family and letting the bomb go off.

You die and your loved ones suffer the impact and they have to live with those scars.

Nothing in life is THAT terrible you need to off yourself. I've been depressed in the past so I know about feeling down and felt like I understood suicide ideation but nah don't do it.
I disagree. Robin Williams offed himself because he was in the early stages of a form of Dementia called lewy body disease. You basically become a shell of your former self. Lashing out, mood swings, loss of memory, personality, hallucinations, delusions, etc

https://n.neurology.org/content/87/13/1308

"His left hand tremor was continuous now and he had a slow, shuffling gait. He hated that he could not find the words he wanted in conversations. He would thrash at night and still had terrible insomnia. At times, he would find himself stuck in a frozen stance, unable to move, and frustrated when he came out of it. He was beginning to have trouble with visual and spatial abilities in the way of judging distance and depth. His loss of basic reasoning just added to his growing confusion."
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Suicide is a weird one, on one hand its bad and all and can defintely affect those close to them but on another hand some people just hate life and don't get nearly as much fulfillment out of it like others do.
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Originally Posted By WalrusOverlord⏩
I disagree. Robin Williams offed himself because he was in the early stages of a form of Dementia called lewy body disease. You basically become a shell of your former self. Lashing out, mood swings, loss of memory, personality, hallucinations, delusions, etc

https://n.neurology.org/content/87/13/1308

"His left hand tremor was continuous now and he had a slow, shuffling gait. He hated that he could not find the words he wanted in conversations. He would thrash at night and still had terrible insomnia. At times, he would find himself stuck in a frozen stance, unable to move, and frustrated when he came out of it. He was beginning to have trouble with visual and spatial abilities in the way of judging distance and depth. His loss of basic reasoning just added to his growing confusion."
Huh this is the first I ever heard of that, the news never really talked about that part. It makes a lot more sense and cannot just be blamed on depression alone, even if he had a history of depression. If I had a serious disease like ALS, MS or this lewy body disease and it was progressing and I realized I would eventually be bed ridden, paralyzed or forget who I am, I would off myself too, srs.
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SIMPLY PUT -

- You're going to die anyway one day
- It may get better, it may not..
- So why not just wait and see what happens?
- Dedicate yourself to the self help/therapy route.

Even if you take some small satisfaction from life, it would have been better to live then never live at all.

Stop comparing yourself to others, start valuing the chit that matters. Your fulfilment, your peace.

All that other chit doesn't matter.
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Originally Posted By DannStark⏩
I haven't considered suicide in years, and i decided years ago that if i ever considered it again, i'd go here, camp at the top for 1 week, and if i still feel the same, jump off.



Either way i want to go there one day
A beautiful place. I understand your thought process, I think.

Go to a beautiful place with no one around. Clear your mind completely. With a clear mind if you have peace. It's all in the mind.

Going into nature and clearing my mind has stopped me from committing suicide at least 10 times, srs.
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Everyone dies, life goes by in a blink of an eye.
If someone wants to avoid old age and choose when they die, I am not going to judge or think badly of them.
It's different if they have young children though, kids have to come first.
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