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» Srs question: should you intervene if someone is going to injure themselves in gym?
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post 1662941623 06-16-2022, 04:29 AM
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Originally Posted By TheScapeGOAT
Only if you’re Jestbrah
lol this

On spread
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post 1662943113 06-16-2022, 05:40 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
True

But some of these are so bad my gut is clenching watching it

Also I’ve never ego lifted in my life but if I was doing something that would potentially make me a cripple the rest of my life I seriously think I’d want someone to tell me
If it's that bad then...
Originally Posted By goodwallaby
judgement call, if someone's about to injure themselves, i'd say you should. if it's not an going to be an immediate injury and you want to help, you could small talk with them to determine whether they'd be open or just ask if they want constructive criticism.
Originally Posted By immune18
If you’re clearly a more advanced lifter than the person in question then yes, also depending on how the person looks, their body language and facial expressions etc, it might not be worth your time as they’d just be ungrateful and defensive.
^^^
Then these. Agree that it is a judgement call and that if you are older/more advanced then I would lean more towards "why not?".
Originally Posted By MrQuint
You’ve got to soften the blow. Say something like “I know someone who really injured themselves doing it that way” or add in a “I’m not trying to tell you what to do but…”. Then peace out and do your thing. It’s helpful and non confrontational so they shouldn’t mind
^^^
And this couldn't hurt. You might even try being humorous if you have the charisma for it...

- "Wanna be on my youtube channel?"

> No. > "Good call. But I get a lot of clicks for "gym fails". You might wanna [advice] though."

> Yeah, sounds cool. > "JK. But you might score a gym fail spot if you keep on [whatever]. I've seen some really brutal vids of that."
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post 1662943403 06-16-2022, 05:48 AM
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Nah , them lifting «wrong» will build up their ligaments & tendons.

Meanwhile strong powerlifters will snap in half If they flair their elbows an inch too much during bench press

Cat deadlift master race with their superior Low back strength dont need to worry about chit like that
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post 1662943873 06-16-2022, 06:02 AM
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in those scenarios, no cause you don't know what they are doing - some people do scared cat deads intentionally (atlas stones are nothing but a scared cat deadlift)

I will pay attention when people are doing implements and will land on something if they fall so I can guide them away from it
post 1662943923 06-16-2022, 06:04 AM
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Originally Posted By 4everalone
Nah , them lifting «wrong» will build up their ligaments & tendons.

Meanwhile strong powerlifters will snap in half If they flair their elbows an inch too much during bench press

Cat deadlift master race with their superior Low back strength dont need to worry about chit like that
post 1662944843 06-16-2022, 06:28 AM
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I started lifting at 17 and jumped right into powerlifting. By the end of the year I was deadlifting 365 in a commercial gym with my baby face. So many boomers with the "I've seen and done it all and let me tell you" attitude would warn and criticize thinking it was helpful. All it did was ensure me that what I was doing was the right path as these people not only had blown out piss poor physiques for being Mr. seen and done it all, but also there was a transition occuring in gym culture. Around 2012-2013 the half squat became a mainstream meme and strength training came out of the shadows of grunge gyms and into the mainstream with youtube personalities with 1500lb totals that were 10% bodyfat. Still in a commercial gym now, but the amount of guys and girls I see squatting with proper form and making the effort to do heavy weight and foolow rep schemes and programs is great. The only people out there still half squatting are just people stuck in their own ego. You can't spend 5 minutes researching lifting without a deep back squat being reccomened, which is great. As lame as instagram is, I think it brought alot of people into the gym with youtube fitness guys from 2012-2016 showing the newbiews the correct path. Back in 2012 I was literally the only kid in my High School who squatted below parralel and paused a bench press with an arched back. Thats hundreds of high school athletes with several coaches and trainers in the weightroom all year long and not a single kid could squat 3 plates with anything close to correct form.
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post 1662944983 06-16-2022, 06:33 AM
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Originally Posted By MrQuint
You’ve got to soften the blow. Say something like “I know someone who really injured themselves doing it that way” or add in a “I’m not trying to tell you what to do but…”. Then peace out and do your thing. It’s helpful and non confrontational so they shouldn’t mind
This.

"Hey bro, not trying to tell you what to do, your decisions, just want to say I'm aware of serious lifelong injuries deadlifting with back arched like that. You may get away with it for a while, but then one lift, and it's snap city. Anyway man, good luck, and just giving my 2 cents."
post 1662945043 06-16-2022, 06:34 AM
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I'd only interfere if the situation meets one of the following criteria:
1: anybody with good chance of serious injury
2: hot chick or nice person with bad or dangerous form

If a surly stranger wants to do heavy deadlifts with a cat's posture or bench with no guard, **** em.
post 1662945173 06-16-2022, 06:38 AM
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If it's not something extreme like a 100 pound kid trying to squat 500 pounds, then mind your own business srs
post 1662945633 06-16-2022, 06:52 AM
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If you're lifting with terrible form with the amount of excellent information available online or with a half decent trainer, then I'll assume they've an arrogant kunt that can't be told. So I'm happy to watch them fold.
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post 1662945653 06-16-2022, 06:53 AM
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I've done it twice:

1. Once where someone was doing deadlifts with horrendous form, I politely corrected them on their form just to prevent a fked up back injury, like the one I sustained and came back to haunt me periodically and struck me when I was in the quarantine camp.

2. A dude got trapped under the bench and was fighting to keep the bar off his neck.




Number 1 was arguable, perhaps I should have kept out of it, but number 2 is just the right thing to do to prevent someone getting squashed.
Back off, Warchild.

Seriously.
post 1662945713 06-16-2022, 06:55 AM
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Originally Posted By blackflgst
Leave them be. If this was 10 years or so ago, then yeah I’d say give them some advice.
Now? Nah. You’ll likely end up on TikTok for being a “creeper”
This^^

The gym used to be a place full of like minded people just trying to better themselves. Never an issue getting a spot/assist on things. Now gyms are full of IG wannabes doing chit for likes. I mind my own business.
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post 1662945743 06-16-2022, 06:55 AM
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Only if it's a chick working out with her boyfriend.
post 1662945893 06-16-2022, 06:59 AM
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Srs answer

I think a jacked dude or an older man in good shape could more acceptably help some guy that is clearly new to lifting. In a polite manner.
post 1662945943 06-16-2022, 07:00 AM
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Don't do Darwin's job for him.
post 1662945973 06-16-2022, 07:01 AM
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nope. Telling them how to perform a lift would just make them angry and continue to do it improperly out of spite of me "preaching" to them.

While gym injuries can be grizzly, they're very rarely fatal, and sometimes people need to learn by making mistakes even if it means snapping their back, tearing a rotator or an ACL.
post 1662946093 06-16-2022, 07:05 AM
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Nah. I mean if they drop the barbel on their neck and are about to die I’ll help get it off but that wasn’t the question here.
post 1662946113 06-16-2022, 07:06 AM
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Do the right thing OP, become their Shepard and lead them up the path of Righteous Gains. We are all Brothers in Zyzz, he would want you help others become sikkunts

In his name we lift, amen.
post 1662946213 06-16-2022, 07:10 AM
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If I saw someone doing something so poorly that there were in imminent danger of injury, I'd be more likely to alert the gym staff and let them handle it.
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Originally Posted By TheScapeGOAT
Only if you’re Jestbrah
Lmao



Not too long ago someones grandma was deadlifting 70lbs with a fully rounded back & straight legs. Girl on the platform next to her told her shes going to snap her chit and she got furious.

Not worth it srs.
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post 1662947073 06-16-2022, 07:27 AM
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Bar is supposed to touch your chest. Idk what you mean about bouncing.
post 1662947673 06-16-2022, 07:40 AM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
I’m not talking about 2 inch rom or pointless exercises. Just this week I’ve seen:

-guy jerking legs to full extension on leg press with 5 plates
-young kids bouncing the bar off their sternum on bench press
-scared cat deadlifts

If these go wrong I’m thinking lifelong injury (maybe not the bench one idk)

Usually I try to just ignore and focus on what I’m doing but in the back of my mind I’m waiting for the snap/scream

Should I just MYOB or should I say something?

Srs replies only please
I would and i do, while watching closely.
I start off with, "Hey, it is none of my business but.... bla bla bla and this could wreck you and require surgery in the future."
They usually say thanks and i walk away.
It is rare and see signature.

The last example was a guy decline benching and 1 side was 3 inches higher on 1 side as he pressed up.
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post 1662947813 06-16-2022, 07:43 AM
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Originally Posted By OptimusTrajan
Bar is supposed to touch your chest. Idk what you mean about bouncing.
Bouncer detected
post 1662948123 06-16-2022, 07:47 AM
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I saved a guy who overdid bench press, guy was about to die almost
post 1662948663 06-16-2022, 07:59 AM
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Originally Posted By JuicedMayhem
Bouncer detected
I only use dumb bells anymore.

Srs though, you're supposed to touch your chest.
post 1662948753 06-16-2022, 07:59 AM
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The answer is no unless you are lifting with that person. That kind of gym culture no longer exists. Ten or more years ago, sure, but now the odds of someone taking your advice are so astronomically small its not even worth the breath
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I don't watch what other males are doing. Might only notice if a dude is completely yolksed/ In general only pay attention to the gym bunnies.
post 1662949143 06-16-2022, 08:06 AM
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No. Not my problem, and not looking to start problems. I'm not a PT or "coach".

Now if an incident has already taken place (e.g. bar is down on the guy's chest and he's clearly in extremis) yes I would then probably intervene.
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Do some Topless Zyzz poses nearby until they engage you. That’s your moment to educate.
post 1662950323 06-16-2022, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted By OptimusTrajan
I only use dumb bells anymore.

Srs though, you're supposed to touch your chest.
I touch it every time bby
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