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05-22-2013, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur
You know why they act like that? Because they don't know who they are. They crave the attention to give them validity in themselves. Stay away from a woman that has to have someone else verify her worth for her. Or care about her enough to help her make the changes to see in herself that she is valuable.
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05-22-2013, 04:46 PM
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Thanks opie, will take to heart
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05-22-2013, 04:48 PM
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I completely disagree with the alcohol part. When me and the boys get yucky, we always end up having a great time with hilarious stories. I'd rather have those memories tha than a materialistic item.
You're 19 and live in Wisconsin, in time you'll disagree with what you just posted.
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05-22-2013, 04:52 PM
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Thanks for the advice OP, this may have been asked already, but if you would have followed all of this advice starting when you were 20 would your current life situation be different? If so in what way?
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05-22-2013, 04:55 PM
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Happy birthday op, happy birthday op, happy birthday dear *******. Happy birthday to you.
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05-22-2013, 04:55 PM
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05-22-2013, 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted By GiantJimmies
Thanks for the advice OP, this may have been asked already, but if you would have followed all of this advice starting when you were 20 would your current life situation be different? If so in what way?
I would be better off financially.
I would not be battling my weight like I am.
I would have experienced less heartache (eliminating it is impossible).
I would have left a trail of people who were blessed by knowing me rather than some people who were crushed by my selfishness and lack of care.

But I don't live in disabling regret or remorse, I am just answering the question.
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05-22-2013, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted By dsmninja
You're 19 and live in Wisconsin, in time you'll disagree with what you just posted.
Agreed
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05-22-2013, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur
I would be better off financially.
I would not be battling my weight like I am.
I would have experienced less heartache (eliminating it is impossible).
I would have left a trail of people who were blessed by knowing me rather than some people who were crushed by my selfishness and lack of care.

But I don't live in disabling regret or remorse, I am just answering the question.
Nice answer, wise op thanks brah. I always pick the brains of those who have traveled before me.
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05-22-2013, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted By GiantJimmies
Nice answer, wise op thanks brah. I always pick the brains of those who have traveled before me.
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05-22-2013, 05:28 PM
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Happy B-day OP & Solid advice. It's always when things are done we tend to think back and have regrets. Repped
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05-22-2013, 05:32 PM
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Happy birthday Kid. Thanks for sharing the wisdom with the younger generation.
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05-22-2013, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Deenur
Agreed
when you say don't spend that much on liquor how much are we talking?
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05-22-2013, 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted By vincelance54
when you say don't spend that much on liquor how much are we talking?
Lol, seriously.

Idk OP. If you hadn't gone out and gotten yucky you might be sitting their wondering what you missed out on while driving your nice new car. Right now I'm in school for something I already love doing but it takes so much of my time, and most of the rest of my time is for lifting and working so I'm missing out on most of the partying, but I feel I'm on the track I want to be on school/lifting wise and that's more important too me. But I'll probably be 50 years old wondering what it would have been like to roll the dice down town more often.
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05-22-2013, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By vincelance54
when you say don't spend that much on liquor how much are we talking?
(edit) $50-$100 every weekend for 8 years = $20,000 - $40,000
For years all I did was drink with buds and play RPG board games
and burn through money.

Didn't think love was real, wanted to get a motorcycle and travel the US and write and use and sleep with as many women as possible.
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05-22-2013, 05:40 PM
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whats important?
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05-22-2013, 05:43 PM
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whats important?
That's for you to decide.
I always wanted love and a family, but maybe you don't.
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05-22-2013, 05:44 PM
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05-22-2013, 05:45 PM
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The suggestion to devote oneself to a few things rather than going from one random hobby to the next, struck home with me. Thanks.
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05-22-2013, 05:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Ramned
The suggestion to devote oneself to a few things rather than going from one random hobby to the next, struck home with me. Thanks.
That's a real big one for me. It can really make a diff in your life.
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05-22-2013, 05:54 PM
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Didn't think love was real, wanted to get a motorcycle and travel the US and write and use and sleep with as many women as possible.
and now? I still think biking the US, writing and sleeping around sounds not bad
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05-22-2013, 05:55 PM
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is this you OP?
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05-22-2013, 05:57 PM
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and now? I still think biking the US, writing and sleeping around sounds not bad
That wasn't what I really wanted. It was what I was going to settle for, because I believed the only woman that I would ever consider marrying was out of my league. I was wrong. I'm so glad I didn't settle.
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05-22-2013, 06:10 PM
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You can't leave a trail of hurt people in your wake and not have it cost you.
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05-22-2013, 06:11 PM
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You know why they act like that? Because they don't know who they are. They crave the attention to give them validity in themselves. Stay away from a woman that has to have someone else verify her worth for her. Or care about her enough to help her make the changes to see in herself that she is valuable.
Best advice on girls I've seen thus far. Thanks and Happy Birthday!
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05-22-2013, 06:13 PM
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thanks op will follow
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05-22-2013, 06:18 PM
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OP what's your opinion on love in regards to when do you know to go for it or give up
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05-22-2013, 06:20 PM
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The suggestion to devote oneself to a few things rather than going from one random hobby to the next, struck home with me. Thanks.
OP what is devotion though? Most of my friends don't really have hobbies, so I am unsure how much time and energy I should be spending on mine. Curious as to what you think.

And great advice, thanks for making us think about this stuff. Happy belated birthday!
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05-22-2013, 06:21 PM
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OP, how do you feel about this?

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