Being attractive and fit later in life is funny

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theres a reason the US is the fattest country in the world. You cant be surprised that the majority of people are dad bod status, fat, or worse.

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07-01-2018, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩

Most people I know are trying tbh, it is rare to see someone obese. I think where you live is relevant

Eh, most that I know aren't really committed they just kinda want it.

They're not eating right and not exercising consistently, the real key is you have to AT LEAST do those two things more days than not.

Also many of the people who "don't have enough time" are liars who would rather spend all or most of their free time vegging out in front of the TV.

The billionaire and the beggar both have 24 hours in a day.

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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩

That’s not the real world though

Personally I like that after 21 years I still get sneakily felt up in the kitchen LOL

I think that is so awesome when couples who have been together so long still have that.

Originally Posted By Shortfuze⏩

Anyone here gets negative vibes though from people who hint that you should "act your age" and not pretend to be young? Sometimes I get that from coworkers. Could be jealousy but you'd be surprised how being older and reasonably fit can somehow be seen as a weird or strange thing. And I get more of this flak from older women who somehow dislike the fact that I'm trying to stay fit at my age.

Yeah, I get that. I sometimes get the passive aggressive comments as well from other women my age who are out of shape.

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quite frankly if you cant deadlift 600 lbs ur not trying enough

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07-01-2018, 10:33 AM

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Being 36, I'm at that age where some people my age (like me) look late 20's and some people legit look like they're 50.

It's insane how lifestyle can change how one ages.

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Originally Posted By Slurgie⏩

They kind of have a point though.

And what point would that be?

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Originally Posted By Slurgie⏩

They kind of have a point though.

Not really. Of course it's harder to stay fit and active when you're busy lifing with spouse, kids, etc. but you can still do it. Plus as a woman throw pregnancy in there. Of course it can be done that you lose the weight right away, but it's definitely not easy when you're sleep deprived with a newborn. I gained 60 lbs when I was pregnant, horrible pregnancy with medical issues. Was on bedrest for half of it. Thankfully I had the determination to lose most of the weight somewhat quickly, but it wasn't exactly easy. If I were a different kind of person, I'd still be overweight to this day I'm sure. Everyone who's overweight will give you their excuses. In the end, they are just excuses because all you need to do is eat less and move a little more. You don't have to be a gym rat to not be overweight.

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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩

I am in my mid to late 30s and most people my age are disgusting, everyone's girlfriends and wives constantly eye fawking me, some just flat out flirt in front of their fat men, it's uncomfortable. But I dunno how some people just let themselves go.

I can can confirm this. If I wasn't in a relationship, it would be 10x easier banging chicks right now. And this is coming from someone who's been fukin hoes since I was a wee lad. So many thirsty biches it's insane.

07-01-2018, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩

I am in my mid to late 30s and most people my age are disgusting, everyone's girlfriends and wives constantly eye fawking me, some just flat out flirt in front of their fat men, it's uncomfortable. But I dunno how some people just let themselves go.

I agree, it's weird.

I have a 21 year old girl that was telling people I know "I get to rub my body all over him any time I want". Meanwhile, she doesn't have a dad or mom and I'd rather we do that, lol.

I stay fit for work because I need a lot of energy, but it feels good to be in a class by myself and get admiration. I will never give up trying to be as fit as possible.

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07-01-2018, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted By al****orilla⏩

It’s about not being a bitch and doing what you have to.
LOL@ ppl here saying “working out is not what they focus on, they have other things they do” just LMAOOOO
There is no excuse to be a fat slob, or skinny fat. Excuses, everyone has them. Go be lazy somewhere else

I see all my high school friends almost all of them fat. Ex gf almost all fat too.

And I’m like, got to hit the gym 4 times a week and work

This. I have bone spurs and bulging disks in my neck, get up at 330 am every day and i'm on my feet 12 hours a day, and i still eat normal and lift. The thing is most people aren't even average looking, their bodies and skin just look so unhealthy from lack of exercise, poor diet and alcohol abuse. Truth is this lifting stuff is not easy and it takes years to fix a bad physique. Most people don't have what it takes to even try.

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩

Can confirm most older men look unattractive and just give up I guess.

Also think mentality has a lot to do with it. At some point people just only talk about boring stuff like careers, mortgages, kids, social status, politics etcand they lose touch with fun and lightness and enjoying life, and I think that ages you both inside and outside.

I agree.

Also, has anyone had experiences when people in their 40s and above try to shame or humiliate you for being younger?

I've only had it happen to me 3 times, last comment I received was "31 was is still a baby to me" with an air of superiority. Which I responded to with; "It's good to be young", and she nodded sheepishly.

I think it's cope when older people praise being older, as if it's instrinically better. When the reality is that aging decreases natural hormones, and increases susceptibility to diseases (which is why it's important to do things like Lifting, Nutrition, Mobility, and Relaxation exercises to counteract that).

I wish we as a society got behind Regenerative Medicine research.

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

Everyone who's overweight will give you their excuses. In the end, they are just excuses because all you need to do is eat less and move a little more. You don't have to be a gym rat to not be overweight.

Despite not having an optimal diet throughout my life, I think one of the things that my genes and only sticking to 3 meals a day kept me in shape. I would rarely snack.

From what I've seen of 40+ year old women...They snack every phuckin day at work!Every phuckin day they were bringing in cakes, chocolates, etc, to share.

I remember one fat woman repeatedly trying to offer me a cake. "Go on" she kept insisting. I think because she shared an office with me, and didn't want to be sat eating cakes alone.

I honestly came to the conclusion that a lot of women are fat, partially due to their coworker and friends who don't want to eat junk food or drink alcohol alone. Crabs in a bucket.

From what I've read in places like Japan there is a social stigma against being fat, so coworkers and friends wouldn't help someone to become overweight.

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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩

I am in my mid to late 30s and most people my age are disgusting, everyone's girlfriends and wives constantly eye fawking me, some just flat out flirt in front of their fat men, it's uncomfortable. But I dunno how some people just let themselves go.

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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩

Can't believe I'm turning 50 next month

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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩

Despite not having an optimal diet throughout my life, I think one of the things that my genes and only sticking to 3 meals a day kept me in shape. I would rarely snack.

From what I've seen of 40+ year old women...They snack every phuckin day at work!Every phuckin day they were bringing in cakes, chocolates, etc, to share.

I remember one fat woman repeatedly trying to offer me a cake. "Go on" she kept insisting. I think because she shared an office with me, and didn't want to be sat eating cakes alone.

I honestly came to the conclusion that a lot of women are fat, partially due to their coworker and friends who don't want to eat junk food or drink alcohol alone. Crabs in a bucket.

From what I've read in places like Japan there is a social stigma against being fat, so coworkers and friends wouldn't help someone to become overweight.

Oh, the crap food at work! The worst part is sometimes the table behind my desk is used for all the junk food. I have to sit there all day and smell it/see it.

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Originally Posted By Crooze⏩

had a girl at work tell me she's overweight because of "hormones".

see her everyday eating junk food, and has never once passed one free food. lol.

similar. Woman in my office stated she needs to go to get her thyroid checked because she's gained so much weight.

Meanwhile she gets take out food every lunch, has at least 2*chocolate bars/packets of crisps/biscuits a day as well as a couple of cans of full sugar coke.

It ain't the thyroid that's the problem, it's the hand to mouth action.

OTOH my kickboxing instructor is near 50, got 2 kids and in ridiculous shape because he never stopped training. When his kids were small he'd get up at 5am to go run, do bagwork, kettlebells, etc. back in for 6, plenty of time to get breakfast sorted for them.

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Originally Posted By demfeelsbro⏩

I'm 37 and my friends are married with kids...needless to say, they look like dog turds. It pisses me off when they say 'you can stay in shape because you're not married/kids etc'...fuking coping for their utter laziness

Strong this.

My married friends all use that pathetic "It's hard after you're married with kids and work a full time job" excuse.

No kid or wife is making you put that 4th slice of pizza in your mouth.

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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck⏩

I remember one fat woman repeatedly trying to offer me a cake. "Go on" she kept insisting. I think because she shared an office with me, and didn't want to be sat eating cakes alone.

Oh ye I had similar experience. Girl used to sit beside me and seemed visibly annoyed/offended that I wouldn’t eat the junk. I know it was becuase it made her feel better if other people were also eating it.

Of course there’s nothing wrong with it in moderation.

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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa⏩

I’m 38 and have never been stronger or felt better physique wise. :brofist:

Yeah I've had to realize i will not be as strong as I was just 10-12 years ago.
I've;
BB shrugged 500 for 3 reps
Rack pulled 480 for reps.
180 per side (4 plates per side) on HS Decline press.

Will I get those numbers again probably not..maybe the rack pull...but I never trained for strength.
It just happens eventually.

My flat bench has always been bad. I got 305 once, a long, long time ago.
Never could squat or deadlift any real weight, lower back issues.
Thankfully from training smartly it no longer is an issue as it was.

Then again I never looked this good when I was a youngling or a midling.

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Damn the average age of the misc skyrocketed in the last few years, and not just from aging..

I remember when it seemed like everyone was late teens to early 20s

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katya, Stacy and Bourbon are always spot on. And are itt. There's a few more good posts. Like srs discussions it's positively refreshing.

You make time for things that matter to you: Like me I'll make time for Watching Brock Lesnar get physical with big sweaty men, playing video games, Miscing, breeding animals etc and etc. If people who are overweight want to live healthier they can make time to do that...they can do that.

Not to self-loath or self deprecate but I speak from experience. I was telling Stacy not too long ago I played football, basketball, lifted and did what I could in my youth because I wanted to be in shape and I do wish I had stayed active not become so sedentary, so I can know the funny side that OP is talking about. I married young to a woman who turned out to not love me and then I became complacent, sedentary and diabetic. Didn't want children right away but she did insist. I gave her that and now am giving her child support. ugh. She married a new man, a man I respect and actually speak pretty highly of but that is because he's very good to my daughter, he's a great man, so great that (100% srs) when my daughter gets married....I'd want him walking her down the isle with me. My ex-wife is cucking him, a bitch to him too, they fight alot my daughter tells me and I feel sorry for the man. She is bossy, she is cunning, and knows how to get what she wants and damn he's going to end up where I am. Can't do nothing about that, but if I wanted to say reverse my diabetes, and lose weight I would make time for it and do it or die trying!

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Originally Posted By IowaGuy⏩

47, Dad, Married for 20 years

Haven't missed a workout in 30 years. Nothing changed with my health and fitness lifestyle when I "settled" down. All about having discipline. Anyone can do it. Most are just lazy and would rather cry that they can't.
Do get tired of others my age trying to make me seem like the weirdo though because I give a **** about staying in shape. Fook those folks.

I bet your wife is happy......

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Most people are disgusting blobs that cant take care of themselves

I'm turning 30 in a few months and everyone else my age looks 40+ easily. I look like I'm 25. Maybe younger.

I go to the gym 6 to 7 days a week. I don't eat like a slob like most people. And the BIGGEST thing is I don't drink everyday like everyone else does. Maybe drink once a month socially, if that.

I think alcohol is the #1 thing that causes people to age. So many people drink like crazy through their 20s and 30s. Look how many people go downhill in college after binge drinking their entire 4 years.

Wanna know why Trump looks good for his age and has so much energy? Cuz he never drank alcohol.

Alcohol is a literal toxin and nearly most of Americans are alcoholics (need a drink every single day)

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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩

Damn the average age of the misc skyrocketed in the last few years, and not just from aging..

I remember when it seemed like everyone was late teens to early 20s

Same here. Guess the userbase hasn't been growing and all the new lifters are using Reddit and stuff.

I remember when most on here were 17 to 24

Guess we all grew up together

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Originally Posted By iamsocreepy⏩

My favorite is "you are so skinny, you need to eat something, etc.." and they are serious. With such a large segment of the population overweight, people generally don't understand what is considered actually healthy. People need to look up a height/weight range chart to get a good idea. Obviously they aren't a perfect study but when you are 30+ pounds over and don't work out..... We had free health screenings at work and out of close to 60 people, I think there were maybe half a dozen that didn't have weight, cholesterol, or blood pressure problems. Also, the 4 nurses that administered the screenings were all REALLY heavy.

I hate this chit.....the average American has started looking like this, so people think its "normal" and if you are skinny then you are unhealthy or malnourished

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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩

Can't believe I'm turning 50 next month

Life goes fast brah

I'm turning 30 yet it literally felt like I turned 21 a couple years ago. Time keeps going faster as I get older I can't imagine how my 30's will fly by. Kinda scary to think about how short life is.