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post 1580653541 05-22-2019, 06:35 PM
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Originally Posted By MyBaddBrah⏩
I've met a few girls with graduate degrees years ago who I banged on the first or second date.To this day I know they haven't been slooting since then.So it's definitely possible.
How can you possibly know that?
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
How can you possibly know that?
Because I can call them whenever, and I can still go back. They've never not answered a call or text on Friday/Saturday night. A girl slooting it up is too busy with the guy or getting pounded. They could have slipped a few in, but very unlikely.
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[QUOTE=Muztek;1580651581]so you're upset you met someone and they found you attractive enough to **** immediately?
what am i missing here?



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post 1580658581 05-22-2019, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted By MyBaddBrah⏩
There are some good girls on Tinder (srs)

The misc isn't very logically consistent on this topic.

There does exist a subset of girls who:

- will give you a ONS, but later reform into a normal chick
- only give you a ONS, but not anybody else

I've met a few girls with graduate degrees years ago who I banged on the first or second date. To this day I know they haven't been slooting since then. So it's definitely possible.
I would agree with the above. Especially the part about texting them on Friday night and they are at home making dinner or something. Not ever girl out there is a hoe. I posted for some perspective and wish I didn’t now.
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Shutting this down.

The extreme negativity, mysogany, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

The reality here is: OP found a woman he loves and wanted to marry. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick...

The insane amount of comments degrading women also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

OP has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his relationship better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
I would agree with the above. Especially the part about texting them on Friday night and they are at home making dinner or something. Not ever girl out there is a hoe. I posted for some perspective and wish I didn’t now.
Misc was the wrong place to post honestly. It’s salty incels who are jealous giving you the worst possible perspective. Relax dude. You are gonna phuck up a good thing going on here soliciting advice
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
Say again? Yes, she’s 37.
in that case her behaviour is easily explained by her age; she had sex fast and is trying her hardest to come across as a good woman because she doesn't have many years left to get another man.

which brings up another question: why marry such an old woman? get one that will be attractive for a longer period of time.
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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest⏩
Misc was the wrong place to post honestly. It’s salty incels who are jealous giving you the worst possible perspective. Relax dude. You are gonna phuck up a good thing going on here soliciting advice
Perhaps you are correct. I have a good thing with this woman and it's been 7 months and more serious for the past month (which has brought on some thoughts). I didn't come here to hear she's a hoe, a sloot or anything else. Nobody has any perspective here... We are not talking about some trashy 22 year old. I was just thinking others may have gone through similar things. Thanks!
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post 1580661481 05-22-2019, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By yewotm8⏩
in that case her behaviour is easily explained by her age; she had sex fast and is trying her hardest to come across as a good woman because she doesn't have many years left to get another man.

which brings up another question: why marry such an old woman? get one that will be attractive for a longer period of time.
Ahh ya so true... I never thought of this!
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Depends how old op is.

If OP is in his 20s, then this is a classic rebound situation.

She’s out of a 16 year marriage and doesn’t really want anything serious, so she links up with a young buck that she knows she would never have anything serious with. Ie she’s objectifying you, you’re just a rebound.

Just lol at “she has no red flags, just got out of a 16 year marriage” btw
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Her clock is ticking...shes trying to lock up a beta male provider and make you a dad before its too late and shes no longer desirable


theres your red pill answer. Your blue pill answer is she just fell head over heels for you because your special
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Listen up, none of us here can tell you what to do. The fact is, despite miscs women hating ways, it is possible to find quality women on Tinder or other dating apps, though it might be far between them. Basically every girl in my social circle has at one time or another been on Tinder, and none of them are typical sluts. Some of them have turned out to be the typical family girl. Just go with your gut feeling.
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post 1580700301 05-23-2019, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted By CalmYerSwag⏩
Her clock is ticking...shes trying to lock up a beta male provider and make you a dad before its too late and shes no longer desirable

theres your red pill answer.Your blue pill answer is she just fell head over heels for you because you're special
That is the bluest of blue pills. Cripes.
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Originally Posted By Bigbuster1⏩
Depends how old op is.

If OP is in his 20s, then this is a classic rebound situation.

She’s out of a 16 year marriage and doesn’t really want anything serious, so she links up with a young buck that she knows she would never have anything serious with. Ie she’s objectifying you, you’re just a rebound.

Just lol at “she has no red flags, just got out of a 16 year marriage” btw
I don’t get the joke... I’m 36 and she’s 2 years out of a marriage that’s been over for 5 years emotionally. I don’t feel that’s a red flag. She never met me to get married and have kids. She doesn’t want kids. And feels no pressure to get married again.
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post 1580826821 05-25-2019, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Lollaff⏩
Listen up, none of us here can tell you what to do. The fact is, despite miscs women hating ways, it is possible to find quality women on Tinder or other dating apps, though it might be far between them. Basically every girl in my social circle has at one time or another been on Tinder, and none of them are typical sluts. Some of them have turned out to be the typical family girl. Just go with your gut feeling.
Of course this is true and I have met all kinds on there.
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I think the bigger issue would be that it's a long distance relationship rather than that you met on Tinder and hooked up as soon as you met. While that is a red flag, it doesn't mean she's def a hoebag. Are one of you planning on moving closer to the other?
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I think the bigger issue would be that it's a long distance relationship rather than that you met on Tinder and hooked up as soon as you met. While that is a red flag, it doesn't mean she's def a hoebag. Are one of you planning on moving closer to the other?
There is an option for her to move here... why do you say it's a red flag?
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post 1580828171 05-25-2019, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
There is an option for her to move here... why do you say it's a red flag?
What? The long distance part? Didn't say it's a red flag, but it could be a bigger issue down the road if you don't move closer to each other. Of if you mean about the hookup from Tinder, yeah, I think it can be somewhat of a red flag if a person is the type to do that often. Some do and for some it's an aberration from their norm. If you believe and trust her that it wasn't her norm, then it's all good.
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Dont sweat that.

sometimes there are instant attractions. Does not mean she is like that with every guy.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
What? The long distance part? Didn't say it's a red flag, but it could be a bigger issue down the road if you don't move closer to each other. Of if you mean about the hookup from Tinder, yeah, I think it can be somewhat of a red flag if a person is the type to do that often. Some do and for some it's an aberration from their norm. If you believe and trust her that it wasn't her norm, then it's all good.
I meant the hookup part... that’s always put me off when dating women back home and a huge red flag she might be a bit promiscuous. But being away, and never really doing anything like this, she said she felt it was just something she needed to do once in life. She lives a pretty quiet and reserved life. Family girl, doesn’t drink much, dresses conservatively and has a lovely, endearing personality. Not the norm I’m used to. If that makes anything more clear.
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Originally Posted By crupiea⏩
Dont sweat that.

sometimes there are instant attractions. Does not mean she is like that with every guy.
Apparently never anything like that before. I do believe her and have never believed someone saying this before.
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
Hey all,

Short story. Met up with a girl for sex a little while ago from tinder. It wasn’t exactly pre-arranged but was implied. I went to her place and it happened pretty much instantly. I am a little more experienced than she is with this hook up thing. We ended up continuing to talk and get to know one another. We are completely compatible and care for each other very much.

But I cannot seem to let go of how we met. It’s created some stress for us.

Anyone had a similar experience?
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
I meant the hookup part... that’s always put me off when dating women back home and a huge red flag she might be a bit promiscuous. But being away, and never really doing anything like this, she said she felt it was just something she needed to do once in life. She lives a pretty quiet and reserved life. Family girl, doesn’t drink much, dresses conservatively and has a lovely, endearing personality. Not the norm I’m used to. If that makes anything more clear.
Well, I think a lot of people can have a one or two off that is not their norm. Especially after a long term marriage. I know I have. If you believe her then what's there to worry about? You clearly really like her, so just go with it.
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
I meant the hookup part... that’s always put me off when dating women back home and a huge red flag she might be a bit promiscuous. But being away, and never really doing anything like this, she said she felt it was just something she needed to do once in life. She lives a pretty quiet and reserved life. Family girl, doesn’t drink much, dresses conservatively and has a lovely, endearing personality. Not the norm I’m used to. If that makes anything more clear.
But you are promiscuous too? Stop overthinking this. You encouraged and validated the behavior and now are whining about it.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well, I think a lot of people can have a one or two off that is not their norm. Especially after a long term marriage. I know I have. If you believe her then what's there to worry about? You clearly really like her, so just go with it.
Deep down I know this. I have some issues in this area I’m working on. I think it’s just hard to believe I was this one off.
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I've known so many couples that met in all kinds of ways you aren't suppose to meet "the one" and yet, there they are.

OP, if you are going to let something like that ruin something potentially that great, then you don't deserve anything that great. In fact, it will fail, not because of the way you met, but how you handle situations. So.... go ahead and dump the sloot and join the FA crew, then contemplate your insecurities until you start wanting to smash a tranny like half the misc. OR you can man up and start seeing the bigger picture.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well, I think a lot of people can have a one or two off that is not their norm. Especially after a long term marriage. I know I have. If you believe her then what's there to worry about? You clearly really like her, so just go with it.
In my heart I know she is right and we BOTH had a moment of weakness. Thanks for the normal response. Honestly, I appreciate it.
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
In my heart I know she is right and we BOTH had a moment of weakness. Thanks for the normal response. Honestly, I appreciate it.
No problem! Good luck boyo
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Well, I think a lot of people can have a one or two off that is not their norm. Especially after a long term marriage. I know I have. If you believe her then what's there to worry about? You clearly really like her, so just go with it.
Thank you for your thoughts and perspective. I will let this sink in
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