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post 1670379663 10-31-2022, 11:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Disagree with the first part because most people are just bluepilled innocents who really believe in the fairy tale of marriage and that their spouse will love them forever. It’s really never your fault when your spouse cheats. You are right to expect loyalty in marriage because that is the entire point of marriage.

Agreed 100% that if you find out your spouse or bf/gf cheats and you “work through it” you deserve everything that comes after that. They will cheat again and the second time is on you.
There are tell tale signs with people who are unfaithful and morally bankrupt

Thing is most people on avg when they punch above their weight class (going for people who are way more attractive/ successful) you name it , end up ignoring those signs.


They do whatever it takes to make it work, a relationship shouldn't be one sided, one part being disrespected/belittled/ mocked/ cheated on/ taken for granted etc.


When **** like happens and no one puts a stop it immediately, who's fault is that ?
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post 1670380993 10-31-2022, 11:27 AM
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"Pretty Good" and Wealthy are miles apart bro.

Well to do tradies I know like plumbers and electricians that own their own firms make $3-5M annually.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Disagree with the first part because most people are just bluepilled innocents who really believe in the fairy tale of marriage and that their spouse will love them forever. It’s really never your fault when your spouse cheats. You are right to expect loyalty in marriage because that is the entire point of marriage.

Agreed 100% that if you find out your spouse or bf/gf cheats and you “work through it” you deserve everything that comes after that. They will cheat again and the second time is on you.
To be honest though, I don't think longterm monogomy is very realistic nowadays. If lifelong marriage is going to remain a thing, I think eventually it needs to be something that involves a certain amount of sanctioned cheating.

The thing is, most cheating is done in a toxic fashion nowadays in an attempt to hurt the partner or someone with a lot of mental issues and in the marriage for money doing a poor job of hiding it.

But is there anything really wrong with a guy fuking girls while he's out of town on a business trip without any further attachment? If he comes home and is a great father and supports his family?

If a guy is spending tons of time with a girlfriend and neglecting his family, then it makes sense to dissolve a marriage. But if a guy is occasionally having sex with other people as a way to pass time at absolutely zero detriment to his family, then I say who cares....
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
The sad thing is both of those women are probably already cheating, they just want to do it with you too.

And both those situations are disasters waiting to happen. Don't deal with even the slightest potential for drama, especially with a friend group.
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Do these people think some stray will satisfy them and then they'll be able to ween off it and back into their unfulfilling marriage?

Or if somehow their relationship takes a turn for the better do they really want to live with that guilt?

I remember when I was in a chit marriage and the thought of cheating came across my mind (just the thought, I didn't have anyone lined up by any means), I realized it woudn't be for me because:

1. Even if I wasn't worried about immediate guilt (because she treated me like crap), there'd still definitely be guilt if we ever turned things around.
2. The odd hookup woudn't be enough. I wanted consistent good s3x/etc.
3. Guilt aside, the fear/anxiety of getting caught would be stressful AF (not to mention finding a woman who was 100% fine being the mistress seems like a challenge - which is why I understand taken men just save up cash and pay). The logistics did not seem easy in my situation at all.

Would rather just live my life by the values/morals I intended to and not be a cheater.

I ended a relationship too soon and regretted it because I was tempted elsewhere but I'd rather live with that than being a cheater.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
To be honest though, I don't think longterm monogomy is very realistic nowadays. If lifelong marriage is going to remain a thing, I think eventually it needs to be something that involves a certain amount of sanctioned cheating.

The thing is, most cheating is done in a toxic fashion nowadays in an attempt to hurt the partner or someone with a lot of mental issues and in the marriage for money doing a poor job of hiding it.

But is there anything really wrong with a guy fuking girls while he's out of town on a business trip without any further attachment? If he comes home and is a great father and supports his family?

If a guy is spending tons of time with a girlfriend and neglecting his family, then it makes sense to dissolve a marriage. But if a guy is occasionally having sex with other people as a way to pass time at absolutely zero detriment to his family, then I say who cares....
For a male sure

But how would you feel if your wife was screwing around on you out of town behind your back ?
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Once you become a top 20-10% kind of guy, you understand pretty quickly how women truly are. Men arent any better tho.
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
For a male sure

But how would you feel if your wife was screwing around on you out of town behind your back ?
exactly pretty sure even if he was getting his dick sucked by another women, he wouldn't want to know his wife was just sucking another dick
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
To be honest though, I don't think longterm monogomy is very realistic nowadays. If lifelong marriage is going to remain a thing, I think eventually it needs to be something that involves a certain amount of sanctioned cheating.

The thing is, most cheating is done in a toxic fashion nowadays in an attempt to hurt the partner or someone with a lot of mental issues and in the marriage for money doing a poor job of hiding it.

But is there anything really wrong with a guy fuking girls while he's out of town on a business trip without any further attachment? If he comes home and is a great father and supports his family?

If a guy is spending tons of time with a girlfriend and neglecting his family, then it makes sense to dissolve a marriage. But if a guy is occasionally having sex with other people as a way to pass time at absolutely zero detriment to his family, then I say who cares....
Yeah bro all good so long as you are also cool with your wife banging some dude while you are also out on business and when you come home she loves you as well right?


But but but men and women are wired different ......
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
For a male sure

But how would you feel if your wife was screwing around on you out of town behind your back ?
I wouldn't want to know. I've only been cheated on once, and I didn't really care as it was a long distance relationship with a crazy chick. But she almost taunted me with it, so eventually it started to get under my skin.

If this girl were simply having sex with other people and I had no idea about it, what's the real threat?
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
I wouldn't want to know. I've only been cheated on once, and I didn't really care as it was a long distance relationship with a crazy chick. But she almost taunted me with it, so eventually it started to get under my skin.

If this girl were simply having sex with other people and I had no idea about it, what's the real threat?
One real concern perhpas she brings home herpes and puts it on your ball sack for eternity because you thought she was being loyal maybe?
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
I wouldn't want to know. I've only been cheated on once, and I didn't really care as it was a long distance relationship with a crazy chick. But she almost taunted me with it, so eventually it started to get under my skin.

If this girl were simply having sex with other people and I had no idea about it, what's the real threat?
But chit could always get exposed due to carelessness

Imagine youre sitting down with your wife and you see a text pop up on her phone

Would basically kill the vibe

I could see this being fine if you are just dating a little , I've been in exact same situation where girl has fallen asleep and I could see notifations on her phone

But if are gonna go as far as mirage, then you may as well cut out all the silliness just my opinion
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
His mating strategy doesn’t bother me because that’s most guys and most marriages really.

What bothers me is that EVERY SINGLE POST is either a brag or a put down. Like quote any post he ever made and there will be a brag or put down in it. Whether humble brag or outright brag or implied brag.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Yeah bro all good so long as you are also cool with your wife banging some dude while you are also out on business and when you come home she loves you as well right?


But but but men and women are wired different ......
If she were good enough about covering her tracks, what's the big deal?!? As long as both myself and others don't find out, who really cares?

Obviously most women aren't intelligent enough to do this though, as they rarely do anything without letting people know. And I think the rush of possibly getting caught is actually more of a reason they cheat than the actual sex.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
If she were good enough about covering her tracks, what's the big deal?!? As long as both myself and others don't find out, who really cares?

Obviously most women aren't intelligent enough to do this though, as they rarely do anything without letting people know. And I think the rush of possibly getting caught is actually more of a reason they cheat than the actual sex.
Ok, we live in different bubbles bro.

1. Most everything comes out given enough time and occurrence.
2. If you are ok with that, then more power to you. Plenty of women I am sure that are cool with that sort of thing.
3. Look at your last comment and compare it with your thought of you thinking you can keep your cheating under wraps. It takes 2 to dance......and as you said....most women arent intelligent enough to keep things quiet. So there goes your theory of you being able to bang other chicks and it not coming out right?
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
If she were good enough about covering her tracks, what's the big deal?!? As long as both myself and others don't find out, who really cares?

Obviously most women aren't intelligent enough to do this though, as they rarely do anything without letting people know. And I think the rush of possibly getting caught is actually more of a reason they cheat than the actual sex.
More proof that OP is a trash person and associates with other (imaginary) trash people.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Yeah bro all good so long as you are also cool with your wife banging some dude while you are also out on business and when you come home she loves you as well right?


But but but men and women are wired different ......
Extremely different. Women need to be selective because they can get pregnant, they need/want someone that is at the top to improve the offspring's genes and odds of staying alive (be protected and provided for). Men dont have this issue, we dont get pregant, we spread our seed with whomever sees us fit.

Thats why men like variety and are statistically sexually attracted to around 55% of women, yet women are ony really attracted sexually to around 5% of men. A woman is perfectly capable of fuking the same Chad for the rest of her life, hes the man she looks up to. A man can be married to a 10/10 woman and still want to mess around with a 6/10 random sloot at work just because shes got a great ass or something.

Morals and consequences are besides the point, lets not go there because those are entirely subjective and relative to every person. Im simply saying why men and women cheating is completely different.

If your woman is cheating and she gets pregnant, there's no way of knowing who is the dad. That is extremey important. Thats why men are subconsciously disgusted at womens promiscuity. Of course, thats how we are wired and how we have been wired for the last dozens of thousands of years, technology allows for society to find out via DNA tests and stuff the truth, but our brain wires wont simply change because of that.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Ok, we live in different bubbles bro.

1. Most everything comes out given enough time and occurrence.
2. If you are ok with that, then more power to you. Plenty of women I am sure that are cool with that sort of thing.
3. Look at your last comment and compare it with your thought of you thinking you can keep your cheating under wraps. It takes 2 to dance......and as you said....most women arent intelligent enough to keep things quiet. So there goes your theory of you being able to bang other chicks and it not coming out right?
This is a reason to cheat while in a hotel on business. With someone you aren't exchanging phone numbers with, or really aren't going to think about after it happens.

In reality, this isn't something 95% of people would be mature enough to handle.
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